Akachinja. Point. Zvaunofanira kuita - musoro unofamba-famba. Handikwanisi kukanganwira kutendeuka - mararamiro api? .. Zvakanaka, sei (kutsiva, chikamu kana kukanganwira), zviri kwauri. Muchikamu chino, zvakasiyana-siyana zvekugadzirwa kwezviitiko zvinotaridzirwa, uye vepfungwa dzepfungwa dzemhuri vakataura nezve nyaya dzevakadzi vatatu vanozivikanwa.
Uye tafura yevheche pamubhedha pakati pemabhedha.
"Ndakasarudza kutumira kurambana, pandakaziva kuti Volodya akandichinja kechipiri ," anodaro Katya, 32. - Mumwe munhu akambonditaurira: munhu anogona kugara achipa mukana wechipiri, asi kwete - chechitatu. Hazvina mhosva kuti izvi zvingave zvakakwirira sei, asi apo izvi zvakaitika kwekutanga, takaita hurukuro yakakomba. Asi zvose zvakaitika zvakare. Zviri nani kurarama uri woga pane munhu asina kutendeka! "
"Kurambana ndeimwe yematambudziko makuru," anodaro Anna Kashina, nyanzvi yepfungwa dzepfungwa. - Uye iwe unogona kusarudza pane imwe nhanho inotarisirwa, kungove wakayera zvose zvinobudirira nehana. Sezvo zvinogona kuonekwa kubva munyaya yacho, Catherine akazosvika pakatarisa apo paisazova nehurukuro pamusoro pekuenderera kwehukama. Zvakanaka, ichi ndicho chakarurama uye chisarudzo chake. Chinhu chokutanga chandinokuraira vatengi vangu ndechokuti kurega kutsamwa. Zviri nyore kuponesa zvose kutonga uye kurambana. Nokuda kweizvi, kune chidzidzo chakanaka - funga nezvako. Kune imwewo. Ichi ichokwadi. Saka chii. Iwe-chimwe chinhu chakanakisisa, neshamwari dzako, basa uye zvaunoda - zvakaramba zvakafanana! Yeuka izvi uye chete ipapo dzokera kumamiriro ezvinhu, tsvaga zvinangwa zvemurume wako, manzwiro ako uye tarisiro. Usatya kufunga kufunga. Ita nenzira iyo iwe unonzwa wakasununguka, nyore uye kunyange uchibatsira. Usafungisisa nguva dzose pamusoro pezvingaitwa nevamwe. "
Kudzokera shure.
"Ndaiva nemimba yakaoma, uye ini ndakagara muchipatara kwenguva refu. Murume wacho aigara achiunza zvipo, asi nguva dzose pane imwe nguva nokukurumidza. Zvadaro handina kuisa kukosha kweizvi, asi pandakasvika kumba nemucheche, ndakawana kuchinja kwakawanda muimba yacho , - ruzivo rwe Larisa ane makore 35. - Zvishandiso zvakarongedzwa zvakare, bhagi rangu rekuzora rinenge risina chinhu, uye mu shampoo yekushambidzika ine chamomile yevhudzi rakachena. Pamberi pezvakadaro, murume wangu akareurura kuti kana ndisiripo, akatungamirira vasikana vakasiyana. Ndakanga ndatsamwa kwazvo uye ndakanyora mufananidzo wake pane webhusaiti yevakomana. Zvadaro zvaive zvinonakidza, asi zvino maitiro angu anoita seashoma kwandiri . "
"Pakuvamba kwekutanga, munhu wose anoda kuita chimwe chinhu achizvitsivira. Uye izvi zvakajairika! - anodaro Anna Kashina. "Zvinonyomba kuti iwe unorwadziwa uye unotanga kufunga pamusoro pekugumbura murume wako kana muvengi wako, kana kutanga kuipa." Asi, sezvinoratidzwa nenyaya yaRarisa, izvi hazvitungamiri kune chinhu chakanaka. Kuti uite chisarudzo chinokosha, shandisa mazano evanhu vokuEastern vakachenjera uye teererai kufema kwako. Mumaminitsi mashanu teerera kukufema kwako - pfungwa dzakajairika dzichadzoka kwauri. Kutsiva ndechekuzvidzivirira kwechisikirwo chekuzvidzivirira, asi kugutsikana kwezvakaitwa zvinofanira kuteverwa nekunzwa mhosva. Zvakakosha here kuzvipa mhosva kune izvi? "
Nebhokisi rakachena.
"Apo Petya akatanga kumira nguva dzose, ndaifunga kuti chimwe chinhu chakanga chisina kururama uye akaita uroyi ," ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu anokwana Xenia. - Chinhu chokutanga ndakakwira mune foni yake ndokubva ndawana SMS isingazivikanwi . Mumwe weVolodya akanyora kwaari: "Ndinokutsvoda." Ipapo ndakatora pasi password ye tsamba yake uye ... Chokwadi chaiva pachena. Kuti ndirege kupenga, ndakasarudza kutora pfupa ndokuenda kunogara nemusikana wangu. Mumavhiki maviri ndakasarudza kuti ndinogona kukanganwira Petya nokuda kwekutonga. Kwemakore matatu ikozvino tave tichirarama mweya mumweya, uye ini handiyeuki chinhu chipi zvacho pamusoro payo . "
"Kana achida - iye achakanganwira! Mumashoko aya kune chokwadi chokwadi, - anodaro Anna Kashina. - Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti iwe unogona uye unofanirwa kuzviita, ngazvive zvakadaro. Chinhu chikuru - kukanganwa pamusoro pekumanikidza uye kutanga zvinhu zvose kubva pakutanga! Izvo zvinodanwa kushandiswa kwekuregerera kune zvikamu zvakasiyana. Chokutanga, kune kukanganisa kwekunyengedzera ("Izvi hazvigoni kuva"), saka kutsamwa ("Ini ndinomuvenga!"), Mushure mekudzingwa ("Handicharangariri chinhu") uye kungoziva chete ("Hungu, zvakaitika") uye kunyatsokanganwirwa. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha hachisi kumira pane imwe nzvimbo, asi kuti uende nenzira yose. Kana zvisina kudaro, kana iwe usingakwanisi kukanganwira kukanganisa - kuti urarame sei? Kusuruvara hakuzokupi kukuzorodza (pamwe nemurume wako, mumwe kana mudiwa wangu). Vakadzi vanouya kwandiri vane matambudziko akafanana, ndinokurudzira maitiro maviri akaoma zvikuru. Chinhu chokutanga chaunoda kuziva ndeyekuti iwe pachako "mira." Kana uchingotanga kuzvichenesa - shandisa chimwe chinhu. Pakupedzisira, kudzidza kudzidzira manzwiro ako kunobatsira zvikuru. Zvakanaka, chinhu chechipiri chekuita ndechekuregerera kweminiti. Kazhinji, iwe unoda kunzwa kwekusununguka zvakanyanya zvokuti nguva ichagara nokusingaperi. "
Typology ye "vatengesi".
Hunter
Chirevo chake chiri nyore: vamwe vakadzi vakanaka uye vakasiyana! Muvhimi haakwani kumudzimai mumwe chete, anofarira zvakasiyana-siyana uye haasi kuramba akatendeseka, kunyange kana achida mudzimai wake wemutemo. Hazvina maturo kubvunzurudza hana yake uye kuedza kukonzera kuzvidemba. Kana uchizvigamuchira sezvazviri, kana kutiza.
Murombo mukomana
"Zvakaitika saizvozvo-ini ndakanga ndisingazivi, ndakanga ndisingazivi ... handiyeuki chinhu zvachose. Zvakanaka kugara, zvakanaka, kunwa, ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kubatsira "- izvi zvinowanzoita kuti munhu akadaro azvipire. "Zvakanaka, ndinokuda, shamwari yangu!" Achakuudza uye ozoenda "akasiya." Kuramba uchirarama nemunhu akadaro, usakanganwa kuti kuchava nekunwa kwakanyanya-kunwa muhupenyu hwake. Achakwanisa "kubata" nguva inotevera here?
Bored murume
Akaroora kwenguva refu uye naizvozvo aneta nezvose zvehukama uye mudzimai wake. Kunyengedzera kuchava kune imwe nguva yenyama, asi zvisizvo zvinogoneka. Muchiitiko ichi, zviri nani kuti uneta, zviise iwe pachako, tenga zvigadzirwa zvemasimba uye zvakare ukunda mumwe wako. Asi zvakakoshawo kuti usapfuudza. Mushure mezvose, vakatendeka vako vanogona kusarudza kuti wawana imwe nzvimbo yake. Uye ipapo iye achangotanga matambudziko ose.
Mwana wechidiki
Ane mhuri, basa rakakurumbira, imba huru uye motokari. Asi izvi hazvina kukwana. Sezvo muzvinabhizimisi anobudirira, amaikadzi vakagadzwa kwaari. Unobvumirana nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro here? Chii chinogona kubhadhara kutambura kwako? Chero mamiriro ose ezvinhu, edza kufunga nezvehupenyu hwako. Itai kuti ive yakajeka uye yakazara.
Zano remudzidzisi.
Kunyengedzera ndechimwe chezvinhu zvinotyisa zvinokonzera dambudziko muhukama. Kunyange zvakadaro, vakadzi vakawanda vanomira pachinzvimbo chokuti "vanhu vose vanochinja," uye edza nenzira dzose dzinogona kubvisa pfungwa yekutsamwa, kurwadziwa, kuora mwoyo. Iyi mafungiro kune waunoda - ane zvaunoda pasi - inoratidza kusava nehanya kwekuzviremekedza. Kukanganwira kana kusakanganwira kukanganisa? Ikoko hakukwanise kuva mazano asinganzwisisiki. Asi kune dzimwe nhamba dzinoverengeka kuti uone:
1. Zviri nani kutanga pamusana pezvikonzero zvoudyire: pane izvozvi iwe ungazviitira iwe zvishoma kuderedza - kana wakaparadzana kana iwe ukachengetedza ukama hwako?
2. Usatungamirirwa nezvikonzero zvinotevera: "Handizowani mumwe munhu ari nani kupfuura iye", "anondida pane 20, 25, 30+", "pane imwe nzvimbo ini ndichawana mupfumi akadaro."
3. Usazvida mhosva yekutengesa kwake.
4. Usaisa mhosva yemudiwa wako kune mumwe mukadzi: vanoti, ndiye iye akanyengerwa, akagumbusa wechokwadi, akamanikidzwa.
5. Haufaniri kuchengetedza mhuri yako nekuda kwevana. Vana havatsvaki mhuri iyo baba naamai vanotambanudza, vasingatauri uye vanoedza kuenda kunorara panguva dzakasiyana.
6. Usashandura pakuzvitsivira, "saka anonzwisisa kuti ndakanzwa sei zvakaipa."
7. Kufunganya nezvekushambadzira, kudzikama iwe: zvakanaka kuti zvakaitika zvino, kwete gare gare. Kusangana kwenguva refu neboka revana, zvivako uye motokari zvakanyanya kuoma kuputsa.
8. Uye usakanganwa kutenda murudo! Iwe hauna kukaroora maererano nezvakaverengwa here?