Upenyu hwemhuri hwakazara nehotera yakawanda yezviitiko: pano uye kubatana kunokwira kushanda, uye manheru emapati, uye kukakavadzana kwakanyanya nekuda kwemasokisi akapararira panzvimbo isina kururama. Asi izvi zvose zvinonakidza zviri mumhuri yemadzitateguru, izvo zvisingagoni kutaurwa pamusoro pechiitiko ichocho semuchato wevaeni, umo zvisingakwanisi kugadzira mamiriro akadaro.
Vakawanda vanotenda kuti pasina tsanangudzo yakataurwa pamusoro apa, mhuri haigone kuvepo, uye naizvozvo muwani wevakaroorana haugoni kunzi chaiye. Vanhu vari muhukama hwakadaro, uye vanotya kurwisa chokwadi, vachiti mhuri inobudirira inotangira basa guru, uye yakaratidza kuti unogona kudzivisa tsika, uchisiya zororo risingaperi muhupenyu hwako.
Vakaroorana vanobvuma pachena kuti vari muwanano wevashanyi vane chokwadi chokuti kune nzvimbo yakanyatsotarisirwa yebasa, iyo hofisi, uye munhu wose anofanirwa kufara, asina kuitora kuva tsika uye kunyanya sebasa. Izvi zvinoshandawo kune hukama hwepabonde, nokuti rudo runodikanwa chete kana mweya unoshuva, uye kwete nokuti une zvepabonde. Kuchengetedza mumwe wako kunofanirwawo kunounza mufaro uye hazviregi kumurume kana mudzimai kuitira kuti pakukwegura zvakange zvichivhiringidza kushungurudza manheru ega.
Tsika ndiyo chinhu chakasimba
Zvinoshamisa kuti unzwe kubva kune vadziviriri vemhuri yemadzitateguru kuti hakuna munhu anopa mvura kune vanhu vanogara muwanano wevashanyi muhuchembera, uyo azere nemvura. Uye zvakadini kana iwe usingadi girazi iyi?
Nhaurirano inotevera, inonzwika mukutsigira tsika, ndeyekuda kubereka uye kurera vana vanozova zvakaoma kutsanangura kuti sei amai nababa vasingagari pamwe chete nguva dzose, asi nguva nenguva vanoshanyira shamwari. Uye ndiani akakuudza kuti izvi zvakarurama? Hungu, munyika yedu vakadzi vazhinji vanogara nevarume vasingadikanwi bedzi nokuti vana vanofanira kugara kune wese, umo vabereki vose vanozvigadza.
Vatsigiri vakawanda vemichato yemadzitateguru, pakati payo pane kazhinji vanhu, vanotenda kuti hukama hwevashanyi haugoni kunzi mhuri. Hungu, zvakakosha kuti murume auye kamwechete pavhiki kumunhu anonzi mukaroorana, kuwana rubatsiro rwemweya uye kuzvidzora kwepabonde, mukadzi ari nyore kutungamira imba, usabika nguva dzose uye kumirira murume wake kubva kubasa. Asi kana munhu achisarudza kuroora, anofanira kunge akagadzirira zvese zvaro.
Iko kunofungidzira kuti mumhuri ine tsika dzetsika, pfungwa yechimwe chibayiro inenge ichirembera, uye vanhu vachiroora kuti mumwe munhu apedze uye apere mune rimwe zuva. Sezvo kana kuroorwa chiri chivimbo chekuti mukwegura iwe uchava nehafu yaunofarira, kuvimba uye rudo, izvo zvatakakodzera muhuduku hwedu. Zvinotarisa kuti mushure mekurarama kune akwegura, unogona kungovimba nemumwe wako. Asi zvakadini nevamwe vose, somuenzaniso, vana, hama?
Kutenda chikonzero
Kana tikafunga nezvemhirizhonga yemadzinza kubva pakuona kwekugadzikana, saka vanhu vari mumhuri vanogona kuratidzira kuti hukama hwavo huripo nokusingaperi, uye uyo wavanotarisira naye achagara nesu kwezuva rose. Kurarama muwanano wevaeni, vashandi vanoziva kuti seNikruti, uye muupenyu huno vanofanira kuvimba zvikuru kune mumwe waunoda uye tinouya munyika ino moga, uye tinobva tisingazoperekedzi. Bvumirana, nokuti kune mienzaniso yakawanda iyo iyo isina imba, kana kunyange vana vanoponeswa kubva pakutengesa, chirwere chinouraya kana njodzi.
Ichokwadi, hatifaniri kuvanza kuti misha yevaeni inotsigirwa nevanhu vane pfungwa dzakasiyana-siyana uye vane mararamiro: havasi ivo vanozvida, vanozvimiririra ivo pachavo kutendeseka kune mumwe munhu kunze kwavo pachavo, ivo vakatendeseka kwazvo pachavo, vachibvuma kuti havagoni kurarama upenyu hwavo nemumwe wavo. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti vanhu ndevaya vari mumapoka aya anotsigira pfungwa nemukati wevakaroorana. Zvose, kwete kuva neukama hwakasimba uye zvishoma nezvimwe chokwadi mune ramangwana, ichatambura nemamiriro ezvinhu aya.
Taura pamusoro pomusikana wokuroorana uye avo vakawira mumamiriro ezvinhu aya vakamanikidzwa. Izvi zvinosanganisira vakaroorana, avo vakawana, vakawana nzvimbo inofadza mune rimwe guta uye vanogona kungoona hafu yavo yechipiri pamazuva mashoma emazororo. Haasi kugutsikana nemamiriro ezvinhu nevomuchato wevakaroorana nevaya vasingagoni kutenga kana kubvarura imba, umo mhuri inogona kurarama.
Asi mumwe haagoni kufunga kuti vanhu vose vanogara muwanano wevashanyi kubvira pakutanga zvakabvumirana nehukama hwakadaro. Kazhinji izvi zvinomanikidzwa. Muenzaniso wakajeka, watakataurwa pamusoro apa. Ndizvo kana mumwe wevakaroorana aifanira kushanda kana kudzidza mune rimwe guta.
Kune rumwe rutivi, kuroorana kwakadaro kune rusununguko rwusingaperi, asi dzimwe nguva vakadzi vanoda sei kunyora murume wavo nechimwe chinhu chinonaka, vachikwira mumubhedha unotonhora, kugadzirira kudya kwemanheru uye kusvuta asati ashanda. Varume vanotamburawo, nokuti vari kure nevakadzi, havana rudo rukuru uye rutsigiro.
Dzokorora
Vaya vanofarira kuvepo kwekugara kwechikamu chechipiri vari pedyo, avo vakagadzirira kugovana nayo yose mufaro nekusuwa, avo vanoda kutaurirana pamwe chete vachirera vana vavo vanodiwa, havazombobvumi kurarama nemuchato wevatenzi.Zvamwe chete ndeyemamiriro ekumanikidzwa, nokuti zvinonakidza kuti vazadze mabasa avo ezuva nezuva, kana anodiwa, pamwe chete kana iye achizodzoka kubva kubasa, kubva kuna amai kana kubva kumitambo yekurovedza.
Kana usina vana uye uchigadzirira kuedza kushingaira, zvingave zvakadaro kuti muchato wevatenzi chinhu chaunoda. Pamwe chete iwe uchava nechechi yechikwata nejasi jena, tamputi mupasipoti uye kuziva kuti une mudzimai.
Vane mhirizhonga yevashanyi uye maitiro avo akasiyana-siyana, saka, mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana ane nguva yakawanda yekusununguka, iyo inofanirwa kuzviita paanofunga kwake: kana iwe uchida kutsvaka basa, unoda kuvandudza mune chikwata chekudhika kana motocross. Imwe nguva inofadza iyo iripo muhukama hwakadaro inogara iri rudo rwepfungwa, iyo inochengetwa panguva yekukurukurirana kwevakaroorana.
Kuipa kukuru kwemuchato wevatenzi kunogona kufungwa, se nistranno, maonero asina kunaka evamwe, vazhinji vavo vanofunga kuti vakaroorana vakadaro kuti vasave vakatsauka, avo vane hukama huchakurumidza kana kuti huchauya huchaguma.
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinotaura kuti muwanano wevakaroorana unogona kuonekwa sekushandura kwenguva pfupi uye rudzi rwekuedzwa kwehukama nesimba.Kuwedzerwa, zvakaoma zvikuru kuti vana vakurire mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro uye avo vakaroorana vanosarudza kuva necheche vakaberekwa munguva pfupi kana gare gare, uye mhuri yavo inodzokera kune imwe nzira yemararamiro.