Mhuri dzisina kukwana dzinotarisana nematambudziko mazhinji. Kunyanya, izvi zvinetso zvematambudziko, sezvo panzvimbo yevabereki vose mhuri inomanikidzwa kugovera pfuma chete amai. Vana vanonyanya kufunga nezvekusiyana kwehupfumi hwemhuri kare uye mushure mekurambana, uye zvakaoma kukwanisa kuwana dambudziko iri, kuona kuti vamwe vana mumhuri dzakakwana vari nani pane ivo. Izvi zvinokanganisa zvisina kunaka pamweya wechidiki, zvichiita kuti ave nehanje yegodo uye kuderera.
Vanachiremba vane makore kwenguva refu vakacherechedza kuti vana vakakurira mumhuri dzine mubereki mumwe chete vanowanzorwara nezvirwere zvakanyanya uye zvisingaperi. Chokutanga, izvi zvinobva pakuti amai vanomanikidzwa kushanda zvakaoma, vachitarisira mamiriro emari emhuri, vachiisa mararamiro ehutano hwevana vari kumashure. Nhamba dzinoratidza kuti iri pakati pevaya vakakurira mumhuri isina kukwana kuti pane kazhinji kuzvipira kune tsika dzakaipa, pamwe nekukwanisa kukuru kwekufa kubva kumhirizhonga. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nokushaikwa kwekutungamirirwa nemubereki. Mushure mekurambana, vana vanokura kutsamwa kusingazivi kune vabereki vavo, vanotanga kuzvipa mhosva pamusana pekurambana, vanonzwa kunzwa kusurukirwa uye kuzvidya mwoyo. Zvose izvi, zvechokwadi, zvinotungamirira mukuderera kwekuchikoro, kumatambudziko ekukurukurirana nevezera rako. Sezvatinoona matambudziko akawanda evana mumhuri dzine mubereki ari oga, zvechokwadi, inoda dzidzo inyanzvi dzepfungwa.
Dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukwana munzvimbo yekutanga inofanira kurongerwa kuve nechokwadi chokuti mwana mumhuri yakadaro haanzwi asingadiwi uye akasurukirwa. Vana nguva dzose vanonzwira tsitsi zvikuru rudo uye rudo. Uye mumwe oga ari mubereki anounza vana anofanira kugara achiyeuka izvi. Hapana zvipo zvichatsiva kutaurirana kwomwana pamwe naamai, kunyaradza uye kunzwisisa. Dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukwana inopawo kusiyana kune dzidzo yevana vemhando dzakasiyana-siyana. Saka, somuenzaniso, mukomana, akasiyiwa mushure mekurambana kubva kuna amai vake, haafaniri kunzwa kunge akachengeterwa chikamu chake, zvisinei kuti munhu achakura kubva kwaari, asingakwanisi kuita zvisarudzo zvokuzvisarudzira uye anovimba zvikuru nemukadzi. Musikana akasiyiwa asina baba vake haafaniri kupa mhosva baba vake nokuda kwekurambana, zvisinei angave achinyumwira vanhu vose muupenyu hwake munguva yemberi. Dzidzo yakarurama yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukwana inowanzovharwa nehutongi hwemubereki. Mubereki akadaro anoona dzidzo yakakodzera kuti ave nekudzikama kwakasimba pamusoro pemafambiro emwana wake.
Mwana wacho anokura anotya, anotambudzika uye anowanzova nezvinetso zvepfungwa nevamwe vana mumunda kana kuchikoro. Dzidzo yakarurama yepfungwa dzevana mumhuri isina kukwana inobatwawo neimwe nzira yekurera vana - kusava nehanya kwevabereki nekushaiwa kwekutarisira vana. Mubereki anobvumira zvinhu zvose kuti zviende pachazvo, uye kana vana vasingakwanisi kudzora, vanogara vachiwana chikonzero chavo pachavo. Dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukodzera haifaniri kurega kuumbwa mumamiriro emwana wekukanganisa kunokonzerwa nokushayikwa kweumwe wevabereki. Chokutanga pane zvose, mwana anofanira kuremekedzwa pamunhu wacho.Amai, kurera vana, kutanga kune vose vanofanira kuwana simba revana kuburikidza nemuenzaniso wehupenyu hwavo uye mararamiro avo. Ihwo huzivi hwehupfungwa hwemwana ndeyekuti anonyatsotevedzera zvose zvakanaka nezvakaipa uye anogara achida kutevera zvakananga mienzaniso yehutsika, kwete dzidziso dzekuita. Ndicho chikonzero apo dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukwana inonyanya kukoshesa kutarisa amai (baba) nekuda kwezvavanoita uye zviito zvavo. Amai, kuitira kuti vawane simba kubva kuvana, vanofanira kugara vachiremekedza vanhu vakavapoteredza uye vachiremekedza vabereki vavo.
Anofanirwa kunge akagadzirira kugara achibatsira rubatsiro rwevanhu vanovhara vanoda rubatsiro. Dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukwana inorevawo kuti vana vanoremekedza avo vakagadzirira kuteerera kwavari chero nguva, kunzwisisa nekuuya kununura. Nokudaro, dzidzo yepfungwa yevana mumhuri isina kukodzera inofanira kupiwa kukosha kunokosha. Izvo chete nenzira iyi, mukushayikwa kweumwe wevabereki, vana vanowana dzidzo yakakwana uye vanova vakuru, vakanaka mune zvose.