Pfungwa ye "amai veimba" yakaonekwa munguva ichangopfuura muRussia, ichiita kuti kuremekedzwa pakati pevamwe, kusaremekedza vamwe, nekuvhiringidzika kune chechitatu ... Imwe nzira kana imwe, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, isu tose tinofanira kugara kumba kwechinguva (chirevo, tsvaka basa idzva , nguva refu - kune zvikonzero zvakawanda). Uye saka ngatizvionei: kuva amai veimba kunonyadzisa kana mukurumbira, mafashoni kana kuti akare-kare, kuvhiringidza kana kwete?
Maererano nehuwandu, imwechete ye60% yevakadzi vaizofara kusiya basa ravo uye kuva amai veimba, vachiita mabasa epamba chete. Zvisinei, sezvinoratidzira kuratidza, hafu yega yavo iri kuenda kuzvinhu zvakanyanya kuchinja. Kune vakadzi vakasikwa kuti vagare pamba, kune avo vanofanirwa kuita izvi kwechinguva, uye kune avo avo nzira iyo yehupenyu inongoramba isingatarisirwi ... Tinofanira kuitei mune imwe neimwe yezviitiko izvi?
MHEYAI INODZA
"Ndakanga ndichirota kuva amai veimba kubva kuchikoro, " anodaro Yulia ane makore 30. - Ndakagara ndichifarira kuita imba, kubika, kuchenesa, kusona. Asi hupenyu hwakavapo nenzira yakadai kuti handina kubva ndaroora, uye saka, shure kwokupedza chikoro, ndakaenda kunoshanda. Kwaiva kutambudzika kwechokwadi. Ndakanga ndisingadi kuparadza nguva yangu pakuchinja kusingaperi kwemapepa uye kuverenga bhadharo ... Apo pandakazosangana nemurume wangu, iye pachake akandipa kuti ndiende ndogara kwechinguva kumba. Ndakakurumidza kusiya basa rangu ndokuva amai veimba. Upenyu hwangu hwachinja zvikuru, ndave ndakadzikama, ndakabatanidzwa zvinhu zvinonakidza kwandiri, uye patakava nemwana, pakanga pasina nguva yekusununguka zvachose. Iye zvino ndiri kufara kwazvo: Ndinopembera kumba, mwanakomana wangu uye chimiro changu, uye murume wangu anoziva kuti mudzimai wake ari kumumirira nguva dzose. "
"Chido chekugara kumba uye kuchengetedza mhuri yako ndechezvisizvo zvemhando yemukadzi," anodaro chiremba wepfungwa anonzi Albert Lifman. - Chinhu chacho ndechekuti haugoni kupukunyuka kubva ku genetic memory. Pakupedzisira, kusvikira pakati pezana remakore rechimakumi maviri, vakadzi havana kumbofunga nezvekuti vanogona kushanda nekuita basa. Uye hapana chakakanganisika neicho. Kana iwe usina hutungamiri hunhu, kana iwe uchinetseka kumba uye, kunyanya kukosha, mamiriro ako emari anokubvumira kuti usapinda kubasa - zorora uye ufare. Iwe haufaniri kunge wakaita semumwe munhu wese, haufaniri kuedza kusvika kune dzimwe nzvimbo mune unyanzvi nzira ... Basa rako guru nderokufara! Yeuka izvi! "
VANHU VAKADZIDZWA
"Pazuva rechitatu ndaida kukwira pamadziro!", "Pandakanga ndiri pamba, ndaigara ndiine kushushikana nekusuwa, ndainzwa ndisingabatsiri", "Kare, basa rebazi rose rakatsigira kwandiri, uye ikozvino kunongonaka kwe borscht! "- Saka nyora pamaforamu evakadzi vakadzi vave veimba kwenguva. "Kune vakawanda, kuedzwa nemurairo (kazhinji ichi chikonzero chinoita kuti tisiye uye kwenguva yakati tigare kumba) kunenge kusingagumi," anodaro mupfungwa yepfungwa Elena Berusheva. - Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura iwe wakafunga kuti nyika inogona kurega kuvapo pasina iwe, haibvumirwi kubvumirana kwevhiki yevhiki uye yakasvibiswa negungwa nemapuraneti mukumbundira, asi iye zvino vaita sevari kunze kwebasa. Kuchinja (kunyange kwakanaka) kunokonzera kushushikana. Kunyange dai iwe usati uri workaholic uye uchida kugara pamba, kuchinja tsika inowanzoitika yezuva kunogona kukuisa pamagumo akafa. Kuti kuderedza kurasikirwa kwemasero emagetsi, edza kukurukura newe pachako. Nzira yako itsva yehupenyu ndeyechinguva chiduku. Nokukurumidza mamiriro acho achachinja, uye iwe uchadzoka zvakare kumutambo wenguva dzose. Koshesa maminitsi ose ehupenyu hwako. Icho chinopera zvisinganzwisisiki! Chii chiri kuitika ikozvino, hachizoitikizve! "
Dzokera kumagumo
" Kutendeseka, zvakanga zvakaoma zvikuru kwandiri kuti ndishandise nzira yehupenyu hwemukadzi wemba, " Anna, 27 , nhengo. " Saka, mwanasikana wangu paakakura, ndakasarudza kudzokera kubasa." Ndaifunga kuti hupenyu huchinguvana huchange huchitamba nemavara matsva, asi hwakange husipo. Zvakazoitika kuti kupinda mumhanzi mutsva zvakanyanya kuoma. Kutanga, vakawanda vandaishanda navo vakasiya uye ndakauya kune rimwe boka rakati rava itsva, uye rwechipiri, zvakanga zvisingakwanisi kuti ini ndibatanidze basa raamai uye maneja anobudirira. "
"Mamiriro ezvinhu aAna anonyanya kuitika," anodaro chiremba wepfungwa anonzi Albert Lifman. - Dzokera kubasa zviri nani zvishoma nezvishoma: tanga kuita chimwe chinhu kumba, zvino enda kunze kwehafu yenguva uye pakupedzisira, mushure megore nehafu kana maviri, tora maitiro panguva yakazara. Saka iwe, nemhuri yako, zviri nani kutarisana nemamiriro matsva nemararamiro. Uye gadzirira kuti munhu wose akanganwa kuti zvinoshamisa uye zvakakosha iwe uri, uye iwe uchafanirwa kuzviratidza kune mukuru uye vamwe vashandi vatsva. "
5 MASHOKO OKUVENGA VANHU
MHURI 1: Mudzimai weimba anogona kuonekwa nekuonekwa kusina hanya, mbatya dzisina kukodzera uye midzi yakawanda yebvudzi.
Vakadzi vasingashandi vane nguva yakawanda yekuzvitarisira ivo, kuenda kumitambo yekurovedza muviri, kunaka koroni uye kudya. Havana kumhanyira kuzoshanda mangwana sechinhu chakaoma, usashamwaridzana pakutakura, usadya mabiko ekurumbira emabiko emabiko uye uchitenga nekunzwa, chaizvo, uye urongwa.
Nhema 2: Vakadzi vedzimba vanotambura nekushaya kukurukurirana.
Vanongomira kutaurirana nevanhu vavakabatana navo chete nebasa, asi izvi hazvirevi kuti vakadzi vekugara vakagara pamba vachivhara. Panzvimbo pekushanda navo kubasa pane imwe denderedzwa yevamwe shamwari: shamwari dzavanosangana navo mumitambo kana kufamba nevana.
Nhema 3: Madzimai ari mumusoro ane gyrus imwe, uye izvi zvakarurama.
Zvinotendwa kuti kana mukadzi akagara pamba, ndeyekuti haasi kutorwa chero basa chero ripi zvaro nekuda kwekushaya dzidzo. Asi vakadzi vanova madzimai emba nekunyatsoziva: mumwe munhu kwemakore mashomanana, kusvikira vana vachikura, mumwe munhu kwenguva yakareba. Uye pakati pavo mune vakadzi vakawanda vane dzidzo yepamusoro, uye dzimwe nguva kwete neyeye. Uye iwe unogona kuwana basa risina dzidzo, uye ne "gyrus imwe" -kunge kune chido!
Nhema 4: Madzimai havana mukana wekuzviziva: havagoni kuzarura zvipo zvavo, kushandisa ruzivo uye unyanzvi.
Iwe unogona kuona zvaunokwanisa, kwete kungova mukuru wekambani huru, asiwo kubudirira kuburikidza nekugadzirwa, kuzvipira, kubereka. Kushamwaridzana kwepedyo nevana, kubudirira kwavo, kusimbiswa kwehupenyu hwezuva nezuva, imba inofadza, runyararo runyararo rwehupenyu harunounza kugutsikana kudarika kukura kwebasa uye bhonasi yemwedzi. Uye zvinokurudzirwa zvebasa revakadzi veimba zvakajeka zvakasimba, nokuti zvinoshanda kuti zvibatsire mhuri yavo, uye kwete nekuda kwekukwanisa kubhadhara mari yekubata chero kupi zvako. Uye kana iwe uchiri kuda basa raunyanzvi, saka pane izvi pane basa rakaparadzana uye rechinguva.
Nhema 5: Kugara pamba kunotyisa!
Kushanda madzimai vanofunga kuti vasingashandi vari mukutambudzika kusingaperi uye kuora mwoyo. Asi vashandi vemazino havakwanisi kudzvinyirira uye kuora mwoyo, sezvo vasina mari yegore uye basa, havakwanisi kudanwa "pamucheti" uye havazorasikirwi mishonga. Ivo pachavo vanogadzirira zuva ravo, vanopedza nguva yakawanda pavarume vavo, vana, mitambo, uye kuzvitarisira.
5 MAZANO KUVANHU "VAKABATSIRA" HOUSEHOLD
1. Shandisa nguva ino kuwana ruzivo rutsva uye unyanzvi: shandisa mafundo ekufambisa (Chirungu, kucheka uye kusona kana tenzi wechikoro pakubika sushi).
2. Ita zvinhu zvose zviri pamberi pako zvine nguva isina njodzi yekushanyira: shanyira bhetician, dana shamwari uye kurukura pamusoro pezvose, enda kune chiratidziro kana firimu ... Nyaya inoenderera mberi.
3. Zvichenjerere iwe, shure kwezvose zvakakosha kutarisa zvakanaka kwete chete kune vashandi pabasa, asiwo pachako.
4. Usapinda muchiroto uye usimbe, uronga zuva rega rega, asi zvibvumira zvishoma utera ...
5. Usarega munhu achifunga kana kutaura kune ani zvake, kunyanya iwe pachako, kuti kuva mudzimai weimba kunotyisa uye kusanzwisisiki: madzimai evakuru vose vehurumende, mamiriyoni uye mageni anogutsikana nevadzimai.