Vanhu vanosangana, vanhu vanowira murudo, vanoroora ... Uye vanoona kuti vakakurira mumhuri dzakasiyana zvakasiyana, uye ndicho chikonzero vanorondedzera zvakasiyana nezvezvinetso zvezuva nezuva nebasa, uye havakwanisi kuwirirana mune zvakaratidzwa zvepasi rose. Chii chaunofanira kuita kana amai vake vachibvumira (mune maonero ako) kukanganisa mukurera? Izvi zvingave zvakarongedzwa nenzira imwe neimwe here? Uye muhuwandu - chii chinofanira kuva murume akakodzera? ..
Saka, murume wako anofunga kuti kuchenesa, kubika uye kushamba ndezomukadzi chete here? Haana kumbochenesa ndiro, kazhinji anosiya mahwendefa asina chinhu mukati mefiriji, kana akageza mvura, anoronga mafashamo muimba yekugezera, uye haatombofungi kuti mumugwagwa uye mbatya dzemumba zvinogona kusiyana? Chikonzero chacho hachisi mukutsamwa kwake. Nditende, ini murume wako haaedzi kuita zvose kukupfira. Ndizvo izvo amai vake vakakurira ... Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kuzvigamuchira, asi zvakakosha here kutambura, kana iwe uchigona kuedza, kana iwe usingadzokidzizve kudzidzisa mutevedzeri, saka ungataurirana naye?
MAFARO OKUPENYU
"Patakaroorwa uye takazotamira kune imwe imba, ndaive mudenga rechinomwe ndine mufaro," anodaro Alena, ane makore 27. "Zvisinei, nokukurumidza apo chikwata chichiguma uye takawana hupenyu, ndakaona kuti takakurira mumhuri dzakasiyana. Amai vangu musikana akanaka uye vakandidzidzisa kuti ndirambe ndakachena muzvinhu zvose, uye murume wangu haashandisi kubvisa shangu dzake paanopinda mumba. Sezvo hysteria haina kubatsira (ndakaronga iwo kakawanda), ndakasarudza kuenda kune imwe nzira. Ndakagadziridza mashizha uye sutu yeimba kumurume wangu chaiwo mumugwagwa (kuitira kuti ivo vave chinhu chokutanga chaanoona paanopinda mumba), akaisa tsvina yepamusoro pedyo nedhesiki rake, uye pedo nemubhedha akasungirira chikwama chechikwama ... Uye izvi yakashanda. Murume wacho akamira kutura zvinhu uye mapepa ndokutanga kushandura nguo paakauya kumba. "
"Alena akaita zvakakosha zvikuru," akadaro munyori wepfungwa yemhuri Eduard Lieberman. - Zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kuchinja tsika dzeumwe munhu. Uye ndiani akati iwe wakarurama? Sei uchirarama sezvaunotaura, zvakarurama? Mubvunzo uyu ndeyekuuya mupfungwa dzako. Ndicho chikonzero basa rako harisi rokurigadzirisa, asi kuedza kuzviita kuti iye pachake aida kuchinja, kuva murume akakodzera iwe. Zviri nani kutanga nehurukuro. Taura pamusoro pezvinhu zvese iwe usingafariri pane umwe neumwe. Taura iwe woga uye teerera. Basa rako harisi kukakavadzana, asi kutsanangura chinokonzera-hukama hukama (varume vanokoshesa zvikuru). Saka, panzvimbo pokuisa dot pamagumo emutsara wekuti "Handifariri kuti iwe uri kurara pasi mujeti pamubhedha wedu," ramba uchidaro nemashoko "nokuti ndiyo nzira yatinotakura nayo microbes kubva kune vanhu vari kutakura uye nehofisi zvakananga kumubhedha wedu." Varume vanotya zvirwere, uye naizvozvo zvakanakisa kufuratira kune maonero echiremba. Zvisinei, kumwe kukurukurirana hakukwani. Kunyange kana wawakaroorana naye akazara nemafungiro ako, hazvigone kuti akakurumidza kugadzirisa (kana bedzi nokuti aiwanzoita zvakawanda pamushini). Uye saka basa rako rinotevera nderokuita kuti upenyu hwake huve nyore uye, sezvakaita Alain akazviita, chaizvoizvo hausi kumusiya mukana wokuita zvakasiyana. "
USATARIDZA CHARACTERS
Mutsara uyu unonyanya kunyorwa nevarume vekare vakaroorana muhurukuro "chikonzero chokurambana." Zvinosuruvarisa, asi kazhinji mazwi aya anovanza bhaari yakasiyana nemaonero kunyika, yakatangwa pakutanga naamai nababa. Tarisa hukama hwemhuri yako, funga kuti amai vake vakamukwidza sei, uye vora mhedziso yakarurama.
Mwana waMamenkin
Izvi zvinowanzova zita revarume vakakurira pasi pejoko rekudzvinyirira vanaamai. Pakutanga kufambidzana nomurume akadaro anozivikanwa zvikuru nevakadzi. Amai vakamudzidzisa kuti ave noruremekedzo uye ane hanya, nguva dzose kupa nguo, kubata musuo uye kurega mukadzi wacho aende mberi. Asi nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare uchaona kuti wako wakasanangurwa haagoni kuita chero zvisarudzo.
NZIRA IVA KUITIKA?
✓ Nguva yokutanga iwe unofanira kutora amai vako pamwe chete nomudzimai, kana zvisina kudaro iye achanzwa akavhiringidzika ndokumhanyira kwaari.
✓ Ita mabasa epamba pamwechete kuitira kuti asazvinzwa asina maturo.
✓ Kurudzira uye kumurumbidza nekuda kwokuratidza.
Anotsoropodza nokusingaperi
Aigara achiongororwa uye achitungamirirwa semucheche. Akanga achiita zvinhu zvose pamusoro pechishanu uye achida kubva kune vamwe. Achacherechedza kukanganisa kwako kwose uye nguva dzose anotsoropodza mufananidzo wako, zvipfeko uye mufambiro. Anotanga kuona kuti iwe wakaita chimwe chinhu chakashata, uye zvechokwadi uchaisa pfungwa dzako pane iyi "zvakaipa". NZIRA IVA KUITIKA?
✓ Edza kusatora pfungwa yekutsoropodza. Ingoti: "Zvakanaka, mudiwa", "Zvechokwadi, mudiwa wangu," "Wakarurama, vadiwa," uye ramba uchirarama iwe pachako.
✓ Ape vamwe mabasa epamba kwaari: "Ndichageza ndiro, uye iwe uri kupera, chinyorwa, imba. Pauri zvichava nani. Iwe wakanyatsonaka! Iwe ndiwe murume akakwana! "
Nytik
Upenyu hwake hwose hunoumbwa neketani yekukundikana, kukanganisa uye kuora mwoyo. Paanotarisana nematambudziko, haaedzi kuagadzirisa, asi pakarepo inotadzisa pasi rose uye inotsvaka vane mhosva. Chinhu ndechokuti mukomana, akajaira kugamuchira troika, akazvidzivirira pane zvaakakundikana uye akakurira mumunhu asina chokwadi, asina hanya. Akanga akajaira kufunga kuti aifanira kunge akakundikana.
NZIRA IVA KUITIKA?
✓ Kuyemura chero zvaakaita uye zviito zvake.
✓ Isa zvishandiso mumaoko ake nemashoko anoti: "Ndinotenda iwe uchabudirira!"
✓ Murumbidzei uye kunze.
Narcissus
Akakurira akapoteredzwa nemukoti-mamas, uye saka akawanzoita kuita zvose zvaaida kamwechete. Anotaura chete nezvake, kubudirira kwake, zvirongwa uye zvinetso.
NZIRA IVA KUITIKA?
✓ Egoists vanoremekedza ivo pachavo, uye saka zvirere zvikuru iwe, pindura zvose zvaanoda nemashoko anoti: "Uye ndinoda ... ndinoda ..." Usakanganwa nezvako uye zvido zvako.
✓ Gurai zvinhu zvose muhafu, musasarudze nenzira inokosha.
ZVITATU ZVINOKOSHA KUBVA HERE
* MUSA kupa mhosva amai vake zvitadzo zvose. Hazvina mhosva kuti ukama hwavo hunokura sei, iye acharamba achienda naye. "Amai vako mukadzi akanaka, asi regai tifambe shangu dzemugwagwa mumba medu: hazvina hanya, uye handigoni kushambidza pasi pasi zuva rimwe nerimwe!" Yeuka: kadhi yako yehwamanda haisi mhosva, asi inokurudzira!
* Usaramba uchiyeuchidza murume wako nezvekuve murume akanaka. Uye kutaura kuti anoita zvose zvisiri izvo. Shandisa zvinyengeri: ita runyora rwekugadzirira kwaunenge uchida kuenda, uye urongwa hwemhosva dzaanobvuma kuita. Isa iyi "chikwata" munzvimbo yakakurumbira uye, kana izvozvo, taura nayo.
* Usakotama tambo. Hungu, haabvisi mahwendefa ari shure kwake, anogara achivanza masokisi ake pasi pemubhedha uye anoputira mhino dzake zvakare. Saka chii? Haisi iye wakasarudzwa ane unhu hwakaisvonaka huri kupfuura humwe maitiro ebenzi ?! Kazhinji yeuka zvakakosha zvemurume wake.
Uye IYI HERE ASI?
Maererano nechisarudzo, zvakazoitika kuti isu-madzimai uye madzimai akatendeka-anonyanya kuvhiringidza kune vamwe vedu. Hezvino zvakaitika ...
Usimbe - 14%
Kuoma - 13.8%
Mari shoma - 7,6%
Rudo kune doro - 7.5%
Kuda kuchinja - 7%
Kusagutsikana kwepabonde - 6.7%
Muchido chikuru - 5.7%
Inaccuracy - 5%
Kuwanda kweshamwari nde3,5%
Kunyanya kuzvininipisa kune 2.7%
Haana matadzo, iye murume akanaka! - 26%