Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinoitirana nharo pamusoro peizvi. Vamwe vanopokana kuti hakuna baba vane masimba. Zvichida rudo rwababa, rudo, asi kwete masimba. Asi shure kwezvose, muhupenyu hwehupenyu, tinoona zviratidzo zvayo! Tora zvishoma penguin. Madzimai avo ane utsi hwakashata: mushure mokuisa mazai, vanobva vaenda kugungwa kunodya hove, kushambira, uye kudzoka. Uye mazai emunguva yemberi ari kuvhuna varume. Kuramba mune hurumende kwemavhiki mashoma, vanasikana vanozvipira vanorasikirwa kusvika ku40% yehuremu, uye izvi, nenzira, 5-6 kg! Uye kunyange zvazvo vanhu vakawanda nevemamangwana vasingakurumidzi kudzokorora mafungiro emapenguin, vanababa, rudo rwevana mavari ruchiri kuiswa. Mune izvi ndeyechokwadi chimwe chikamu chepfungwa dzepfungwa uye, zvichiitika, vazhinji vavo.
Pane imwe nhanho yehupenyu hwehupenyu, basa repapa mumhuri kuti mwana ave nemitemo mitsva yehupenyu, maitiro uye mitemo yehutano. Semuenzaniso, basa guru revakaroorana vakaroorana vasati vaine vana ndekukudziridza nzira yehupenyu yakakodzera vose vakaroorana. Asi pano panosvika wechitatu nhengo yemhuri - mwana uyo anoda nguva dzose kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa. Iye achiri muduku zvikuru, asi iye anotofanira kutarisana nemamiriro ehupenyu hwake! Kakawanda basa rinowedzera kumwana rinova muedzo wakakomba kumhuri yevechidiki, kukurudzira kukakavadzana mamiriro ezvinhu. Munguva iyi, mitemo yekare uye mitemo yehupenyu hwevakaroorana iri kuparara uye itsva dzichibuda.
Murume nomudzimai vanofanirwa kuita mabasa ebaba naamai avo vasina kujairika kwavari. Uye mudiki baba havawanzogadzirira kuchinja uku. Basa rebaba mumhuri nokuda kwecheche rakaoma: shure kwezvose, haana kupedza muedzo wakareba wekudzivirira uye kubereka. Uye apo amai vachipinda mumanetsero ezvakawanda, baba vaduku vanogona kunzwa kunzwa kuparadzana, kukwikwidzana, kusabatsira. Achiedza kuchengeta hukama hwake hwepfungwa, anotsvaka nzira dzakasiyana dzekudzivisa mitoro yevabereki nemabasa. Zvinotora nguva kuti murume wacho azvione iye zvechokwadi mune basa rebaba mumhuri kune mwana.
Vanababa vanotyai?
Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti amai vanoda vana vavo zvikuru, uye vana vashoma. Varume nevakadzi vanongoda nenzira dzakasiyana. Rudo rwemadzimai rwakapofumadza: mukadzi anogamuchira mwana nezvose zvinobatsira uye zvisingabatsiri. Varume vanonyanya kutsvaga uye vavariro. Havana kazhinji kunyatsoteerera, kazhinji vasingacherechedzi kutadza, asi ivo vanorangwa, sekutonga, zvisinganzwisisiki uye pane zvebhizimisi chete.
Pane dzimwe kusiyana . Vakadzi vanowanzosveta vana, asi basa idzva rababa mumhuri nokuda kwecheche nderokuti: varume vari kuda kutora vana vavo mumaoko avo. Amai vanonamata kuti vatungamirire nekukurukurirana kwevana kwenguva refu, madzitateguru anofarira kutaura kune mabasa anoshingaira sebhokisi mumasango emagetsi kana hondo dzomukati muimba yevana.
Madzimai, chirongwa chekuberekwa chinokwana, uye varume vanoda kukura vasati vava vanababa. Vanababa vakawanda vanonzwa manzwiro kuvana, kana izvozvo zvinoshanduka makore 2-3, kwete mberi.
Izvi hazvirevi kuti vanababa havadi vana vakakombama vana, asi nokuti ivo ... vanotya ivo. Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, munhu wese wechipiri anenge asina ruzivo rwekukurukura nemwana muduku uye saka anotya kumukuvadza nemabasa ake asingaiti. Ndicho chikonzero vanasikana vakawanda vari pasi pekutambudzwa havabvumirwi kutora mwana, shandura chidimbu kana kutema misumpi.
Kunewo vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba avo vanonyatsogutsikana kuti vana vaduku, pamusoro pezvose, vanoda amai, kwete baba. Ivo vakagadzirira kubatsira nemabasa epamba, kuchenesa imba, kuenda kuchitoro kune zvokudya zvevana, asi kusvika pakukurukura nechecheche uye kumuchengeta ndeyaamai vangu. Basa rebaba mumhuri kumwana rinoratidzwa nekushivirira kumirira "sangano" rake, apo mwana anokura kusvika makore makumi mana nemana makumi mana uye pamwe chete naro zvichaita kuti vataure kana kuunganidza ndege kubva kumugadziri.
Matanho ekumutsa
Zvisinei, mwana anoda rubatsiro rwebaba mumhuri kumucheche zvisati zvishoma pane rudo rweamai uye tsitsi. Uyezve, kubvira pakuberekwa - nenzira chaiyo yemucheche. Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti kunyange vacheche vanosiyanisa madzibaba avo pakati pevanhu, vachiedza kuvanyemwerera kwavari. Chii chatingataura pamusoro pevana vakwegura! Saka, yekare musanangurwa wako anonzwa manzwiro ababa pamusoro pemucheche, zviri nani. Kana nyanzvi yemubereki isakurumidza kumutsa, edza zvinotevera.
Nhanho # 1
Udza murume wako nezvezvinhu zvose zvaunonzwa munguva yekuzvitakura.
Murume haasi anonzi clairvoyant: haana ruzivo pamusoro pemanzwiro emuviri aunoona, haazive kuti mwana anoita sei muchibereko. Saka, kana zvichibvira, famba pamwe nemurume wake pa ultrasound - izvi, zvechokwadi, zvichaita kuti ave nesimba. Dana murume wako newe kumapoka evakadzi vanotarisira. Anonyanya kuramba? Zvakanaka, iwe unofanirwa kunongedzera kuunyanzvi: taura kuti hauri kunzwa zvakanaka, uye kukumbira kuti uende newe. Achaona ipapo kwete vanaamai vashure chete, asiwo vanababa vemangwana uye vachabvisa kunyara. Kurudzirai chido chemumwe wako kuti "ataure" nemukomana munzira dzose, achiita kuti mwana anzwe rutsoka mukati memakumbo - izvi zvose zvinounza vabereki pamwechete uye zvinokurudzira manzwiro ababa kumunhu.
Kuberekwa pamwe chete inyaya inokosha. Kune rumwe rutivi, varume vazhinji vakanga varipo pakuberekwa vanotaura kuti simba rababa rakamutswa mavari pakarepo, pakarepo mwana paakazvarwa. Mushure mezvose, apo vadikanwi vauya, ndivo baba ndivo vakatanga kutora mwana muzvanza zvake uye vakatocheka mutsara wake (ichi ndicho chiitiko chekuzvikudza kwevarume). Kune rumwe rutivi, vamwe vanyori vanonyanya kufungidzirwa zvehupombwe hwakasimba mushure mekuedzwa kuburikidza nekuberekwa vanonzwa kunyangadza kwemuviri kumudzimai, iyo inobata zvose zvepabonde uye hukama hwemhuri pamwe chete. Nokudaro, zviri nani kuti usasimbirire kuti murume anofambidzana newe kuenda kumubhedha wekuberekwa, kana ari muchikamu chaicho.
Nhanho # 2
Usatya kupa mumiriri wemurume ane basa rebaba mumhuri kune mwana uye chikamu chekutarisira mwana. Vanaamai vazhinji vanoisa zvinhu zvose pavari, ndokubva vashamisika kuti sei murume ane chokuita nemwanakomana wake kana mwanasikana wake anotora nzvimbo yeanotarisa. Asi urongwa hworudo rwakanga rwuchizivikanwa kwenguva refu: rudo ndiko kunetseka. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinoti chinhu chakakoshesa chatinokoshesa ishamwari iyo ivo pachavo vakaisa mari yakawanda yepfungwa uye yemuviri. Izvi zvinoshanda kune chero hukama - mubereki wemwana, ushamwari, rudo uye unyanzvi. Ipa murume wako mukana weku "chengetedza" mumwana: regai iye abatsire kushambidza mwana, famba nemutasviki, ita zvishoma pamusana pemucheche. Uye kudyisa zvakasvibira kubva mubhodhoro hazviziwo sesa guru, zvichabata! Zvakakosha chete kuti mabasa aya haafaniri kuomeswa uye "kuzvidavirira" nokuda kwepapa.
Kunyange kana iye, kubva pane zvawakatarisa, akaita zvose zvisiri izvo: kuisa jeresi tsvuku pamashizha matsvuku kana kuvhara mwana paanenge achidyisa michero yakanaka kubva kumusoro kusvika kumakumbo - usatsoropodza murume. Kana baba nevana vaifara mumwe nomumwe, zvichida haufaniri kubhadhara kune zvakasiyana-siyana?
Nhanho # 3
Udza murume wako pamusoro pezvose zvakaitika kumwana kwezuva, apo Baba vaishanda. Ichokwadi kuti haufaniri kutakura uye kurondedzera zvakajeka kuti kazhinji sei waifanira kuchinja shandara, asi heino mashoko pamusoro pekuti mwana akadya sei, iro shoko idzva raakadzidza, raaitamba, baba vachanyatsoteerera nekufarira. Uye zvakadaro hapana munhu haazoputsi mazwi anoti: "Nhasi ndavezve ndakagutsikana kuti mwanakomana ndiye kopi yako" kana "Unoziva, mwanasikana ari kurara zvakafanana iwe."
Nhanho # 4
Ipa murume wako mukana wekuita basa rebaba mumhuri kune mwana uye kuronga kukurukurirana nemwanasikana wako kana mwanakomana wako iwe pachako, kunyange iwe usingadi kuti vanokanda zvidhori kumativi ekamuri kana kudzoka kubva kumutambo webhola ne "huku yenguruve".