Nyanzvi dzezvematongerwo enyika hazvirevi kungoita kuwedzera kwehuwandu hwevakaroorana vakarambana, asiwo kune kuonekwa kwezvinetso zvisingaiti muhukama hwemhuri. Vakawanda vakaroorana havagoni kuparadzanisa hukama hwepamusoro nekuda kwematambudziko anooneka pamberi pavo, nekuda kwekushaiwa kwebvumirano panyaya dzevana vaduku vane vabereki vane. Kurambana, kukanganisa, kupatsanurwa kwepfuma - izvi zvose ndizvo zvikonzero zvinopomera vakaroorana kuva noupenyu huri pamwe chete pasinei nezvavanoda. Asi chikonzero chinowanzoitika chekubuda kwemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kusaziva kwemitemo.
Saka, somuenzaniso, mutemo unopa humonyoni kumwana, muwanano, uye mune zvimwe zviitiko zvinokwanisika kune mumwe munhu anoshayiwa (mudzimai). Iwe unogona kushandisawo kodzero yekutsigira vana pasina kurambana uye kunyange kana pasina vana vanogara mumhuri. Nokuda kweizvi, dare rinofanirwa kuziva kuti kusakwanisa komumwe wako (mudzimai).
Alimony, pasina hurumende yokurambana, inogona kudzorerwa mumamiriro ezvinhu apo mudzimai wako haaiti kuzadzika kwezvisungo zvevabereki maererano nechecheche. Ipapo mukadzi anoshayiwa anoendesa kune alimony, paanenge ari mumutemo wepamutemo. Mutemo unopa mhaka apo mhirizhonga inokwidzwa pamwana nomudzimai. Mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anosanganisira zviitiko apo mukadzi ane pamuviri kana kuti mwana asati asvika makore ane makore matatu kubvira musi waakaberekerwa. Muzviitiko izvi, amai vanogona kudzoka kubva kuna baba vemwana arimony ivo pachavo uye kuchengetedza mwana. Chikumbiro chechirongwa kunze kwekurambana chine nzira imwechete yekutumira, sekushandiswa kwechirongwa mushure mekurambana kwehurumende.
Vakaroorana vanogona kutaurira zviyero zvakakosha uye, kana kusavapo kwekusawirirana, vauyei muchibvumirano pachavo. Asi nokuda kwesimba rezvematongerwoti sangano rinofanira kubvumidzwa neanotari.
Kana zvikakavhiringidza, kusawirirana kweumwe wevakaroorana kuzoita zvisungo zvine hanya nemumwe wako kana mwana muduku, iwe unogona kushanda nesitatimendi chekuda kwechimhosva uye kurambana. Zvadaro kubatana kunowanikwa kubva musi wekushandiswa, uye kwete mushure mekurambana kwehurumende. Muchiitiko chekuti kurambana hakugoneki, unofanira kushanda kune alimony.
Kuunganidza anormony, inofanira kutarisirwa mupfungwa kuti dare rinogona kungobhadhara chimwe chikamu chemari yepamutemo inowanikwa yemuvakaroorana kana yemarimoni mumutengo wakatarwa. Nhamba ye alimony payments inokonzerwa nezviitiko zvakawanda. Izvi zvinosanganisira: hutano hwehutano hwemwana, huwandu hwekuwana mari, hutano hwehutano hwemumwe wako, izvo zvinosungirwa kuti zvive zvekunamatira, pamwe chete nekuvapo kwevamwe vana.
Nokudaro, nemari isingagari, kusashanda kwebasa kana mamiriro ezvinhu apo mari yepamutemo inopesana nezvisina kukodzera, zvinokurudzirwa kutarisira kubhadhara mumutengo wakatarwa wemari. Asi izvi zvingada kuunganidza magwaro ekuti mari chaiye inowanikwa yakawanda pane yakaratidzwa mumutemo wemari. Izvi zvinogona kuva magwaro pamusoro pekuita maitiro, kutenga zvinhu zvinodhura.
Mukuwedzera pakubhadhara alimony, mutemo unopa kubatanidzwa kwevabereki vose muhupenyu, kubudirira, kurapwa kwevana vanogara. Kana pasina kubvumirana, chikumbiro chinotumirwa kudare kumurume kuti abhadhara mari yakawanda, kunyange kana kutsigirwa kwevana kuchiwedzerwa pasina kurambana.
Mune mamiriro ezvinhu apo rubatsiro rwevana harusi kushandiswa nekuda kwezvinodiwa zvemukomana, uyo wawakaroorana naye anonyorwa akaunganidzwa ane kodzero yekushandira kudare remhosva. Zvadaro mvumo inogona kuwanikwa kuti inotora 50% yemubatsiro wemwedzi wega wega kumubhadharo wemwana wega.
Kuvhiringidzika kwekubhadhara kubhadhara kweanmony kunorangwa nekupomerwa mhosva. Kwekanguva yenguva apo kubhadhara kwekuchengetedza kwechikonzero chero chipi zvacho hazvibviri, mwana anogona kubudiswa nehurumende rubatsiro. Uyezve, chiyero chekubatsira kwakadaro kuchaunganidzwa kubva kune uyo anowirirana arimony.
Kana pane dare redzimhosva, apo kuregererwa kwakaipa kwekubhadhara kwekugadzirisa kunoratidzwa, pfuma yeafafa inogona kuiswa chisimbiso kana zvimwe zviyero zvekuunganidza mari yakaenzana inotorwa.