Nzira yekurega sei kune munhu anodhakwa?
Saka, kana murume wako achida zvinwiwa uye kazhinji anodhakwa nekunze, zvino ichi chinetso chakakomba. Kuipa uye kutyisidzira pano hakubatsiri, nokuti kudhakwa chirwere chechokwadi. Kana wakamboedza nzira dzose dzakadai semishonga uye mishandirapamwe kune chiremba wepfungwa, asi achiri kuramba achishandisa doro zvisina kufanira, rinoramba richida kusarudza - kana iwe uchida kurwisa dambudziko rake zvakare kana kusarudza kusiya?
Kana mhinduro yako iri muchidimbu chekupedzisira, sarudzai kuti mushure mokunge musina kuparadzana, haufaniri kubatsira mudzimai wako uye zvakare zvakare kumubvisa kunze kwechingwa chinodhaka chinodhakwa. Sezvo shoko iri richiti: "Kusiya-enda."
Iva wakagadzirira kuteerera mhiko dzakawanda uye kuvimbiswa kusunga, asi yeuka kuti izvi ndezvimwe zvinyengeri. Chenjerera vanhu vanojaira pamusoro pekuparara kwako saka havakuudze nezvekutambura uye kukumbira komumwe wako kuti adzoke. Unzwisise kuti munhu wose ndiye ane mhosva yehupenyu hwake pachake. Kana murume achida kuita zvechisimba pasi pekudhakwa kwewaini, gadzirira mberi kwekugara nzvimbo yake, pamusoro pezvaasingazivi. Zvakanakisisa pane zvose, usagara kwenguva yakati yoga, asi ugare neshamwari kana vabereki.
Kurambana kunopa varairi uye kunoderedza kusvika pakushamwaridzana kukurukurirana nemunhu anenge aimbova mudzimai wekare. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekufunga kwako. Kana iwe uchigutsikana zvakasimba nezvechisarudzo chako, hapana chinhu chichakudzivirira kuti urege kuziva zvawakaronga. Tanga hupenyu hutsva: ita chinhu chako chaunofarira, chengetedza kutarisa kwako, famba nevana, enda kuzororo. Hupenyu hwako huri mumaoko ako!
Nzira yekubva kumurume wake kana iye akatyisidzira?
Zvinotyisidzira nekutyisidzira kubva kumurume wake zvinopupurira kupindura kwake kunorwadza nekuputsa kwako. Zvisinei, kazhinji vakadzi vanofunga kuti ichi chiratidzo chekuda kukuru uye kuti mukadzi wako ari kutsvaga nzira ipi zvayo yekudzivisa kuparadzana. Uku kududzirwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu pamudzi wekusakanganisika, nokuti munhu anotyisidzira kukuvadzwa mumuviri anoonekwa semafungiro asina kunaka. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa zvakajeka - murume wako ndiye ane utsinye uye anogona kuva nengozi zvikuru kwauri nekudiwa kwako.
Munyaya iyi zvakakosha kusanganisira masangano ekudzivirira mitemo. Zvisinei, kuti tibvunzwe, zvakakosha kuunganidza zvimwe humwe uchapupu. Nzira yekupukunyuka kubva kumubati wemurume wake uye chii chinofanira kuitwa kuti aratidze kutyisidzira kwake:
- kuchengetedza sms messages nekutyisidzira;
- rekoni foni kukurukurirana;
- tora tepi rekodha newe, kana mumwe wako kazhinji achikucherechedza mumugwagwa uye akanyora hurukuro.
Zvisinei, kana achityisidzira kubata mwana, iwe unofanirwa kuita chimwe chinhu munguva. Chenjerera vadzidzisi kana vadzidzisi, nguva dzose musangane nemwana kuchikoro kana zvikamu. Iva nechokwadi chekupa mamiriro acho mapurisa.
Uyewo, rubatsiro rwemagariro evanhu panzvimbo yechato ichakubatsira. Mune masangano akadaro iwe uchabatsirwa uye uchataurirwa kuti kurega kubva kumurume kunenge kusina matambudziko.