Zviratidzo zvinomwe zvaasingadi iwe zvakare

Wakanga uine hanya nezveramangwana rehukama hwako here? Iwe une here kusava nechokwadi? Zvechokwadi, zvakaoma kuyananidza nekuchinja kwehutano hwako, asi kana iwe uchida kuziva zvakajeka pamusoro pehutariro hwekuwedzera hukama, rongororai urongwa urwu uye nokuongorora zviratidzo nemazano eRooo yakanatswa inoita maonero akajeka pamusoro penguva yemberi yehupenyu hwako huripo.
1. Kusabvumiranazve nekuregererwa
Kana shamwari yako isiri kuratidza mufananidzo wemurume akasimba muukama hwako uye inokubata iwe seyakaenzana, haisi kupa rudzi rwakanakisisa kurapwa kwevanhu, kutarisa kwevanhu vane simba nekuda kwevasina simba kwakanyangarika, izvo zvinoreva kuti hausisiri kumugomera. Iye haachazofungi nezvako seiye anokosha "mukomana" muhupenyu hwake. Pakupedzisira, hukama hwako huchashanda mubhizimisi kubatana, umo kusingazovi nzvimbo ye rudo.

2. Dzimwe tsika dzako hadzina kumutsamwisa zvakare.
Pane nzira yakanaka yekuita chokwadi kuti mukomana wako akamira achifarira iwe. Kana ukacherechedza kuti kunyange tsika dzako dzinoshungurudza dziri ikozvino "kusvika kuhurukuro", zvino izvi chiratidzo chakajeka chokuti hukama hwako hwakanaka hahuzoperi kwenguva refu. Kusava nehanya kune mumwe nemumwe ndechimwe chezvinhu zvakaipisisa zvinoparadza upenyu hwekubatana.

3. Ane hanya zvikuru nechitarisiko chake
Kana shamwari yako panguva imwechete yakakanda mutambo wake waunofarira pawakanga uchitenderedza, uye zvino zvakare wakatanga kupinda kumitambo yekutamba uye kazhinji aine hanya nezvakaita, izvo zvinoratidza zvakajeka kuti anonyatsoda kufadza mumwe munhu. Zvinorwadza kubvuma kuti ukama hwako huri kupera.

4. Mashoko ane unyoro akanyangarika pakutaurirana kwefoni
Kana mukomana wako akamira kudana, haa "kumira" newe kwemaawa akawanda pafoni, pahurukuro pamusoro pefoni, mazwi anotapira se "mudiwa wangu" kana kunyange zvishoma "shamwari yangu" yaenda, ichi chiratidzo chokunyevera kuti manzwiro ake akasimba pane imwe nzvimbo, ipapo pane imwe nhamba yefoni, asi kwete pafoni yako nhamba. Sezvo vakomana vachitaura zvinoshamisa, "rudo haruri pano zvakare".

5. Anosangana neshamwari pasina iwe
Vakomana vanorasikirwa nehanya nevanasikana vavo, vari kuwedzera kuronga mabasa ose neshamwari. Kushushikana kupedza nguva pamwe newe, kuvapo kwako pamapati neshamwari kunorema - ichi chiratidzo chisina kujeka kuti manzwiro akadzikama, kuti iwe wakamurova, uye anoshuva kusangana nevanhu vatsva. Iwe unofanirwa kutaura naye pachena kana kuedza kufema hupenyu muhukama hwako hunopera.

6. Haasi iro bhuku rakazaruka
Shamwari yako yakatanga kukanganwa kutaura pamusoro pezuva rake rapfuura, rakamira kutaura nyaya dzinonakidza kune zvakaitika kwaari nhasi. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezviratidzo zvaasingadi kuva bhuku rakazarurirwa iwe. Zvimwe ane chimwe chinhu chokudzivisa, pane chimwe chinhu chokuvanza kana kuti aneta nokukurukura newe. Kana izvi zvikadaro, iwe unogona nyore nyore kuona shanduko yakadaro mumararamiro ake. Ongorora zvakanyatsocherechedza, ona zvikonzero iwe pachako.

7. Akanyanyobatikana zvokuti haazopinduri kudana kwako
Varume vachagara vachiwana chiuru chezvikonzero zvekuvanza kusafarira kwavo. Chimwe chazvo ndechekutaura pamusoro pekudarika kwako kwepamusoro-soro, nokuti pane nguva yakakwana yekupindura yako kudana kana kutumira meseji. Kana izvi zvikaitika kakawanda uye zvichishandurwa muhurongwa, unoda kuwana nzira yekuenderera mberi nehurukuro isina kujeka kuti ujekese kana iye ane nguva shoma yekusununguka uye anoda rubatsiro rwako kana kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti haachafariri hukama hwako.