Zvaunoda musikana muukama nemurume

Ukama hwakakomba pakati pepabonde hahuberekwi pakarepo. Kazhinji zvinotora nguva yakareba kuti uwane mumwe munhu wavanoda chaizvo kusunga nguva yakareba zvakadaro, uye zvichida kusingaperi, hukama. Panguva imwe chete, chokwadi, iwe wakacherechedza kuti ichi chido kune vasikana, uye zvichida kunyange chidikanwi, chinouya zvishomanana mberi kune vakomana. Uye zvose nokuti tinokura zvishoma, tinonzwisisa kuti muhupenyu huno zvakaoma. Uye, zvichida, tinoda chimwe chinhu kubva kumunhu watinosangana naye. Muchikamu chinoti "Chii musikana anoda muhukama nemukomana" tichaedza kuongorora zvakadzika mupfungwa dzedu uye kunzwisisa: sei vasikana vose vakamirira hukama huno uye naizvozvo kudai kutanga kudai kuva nemwana wemhuri yemangwana?

Saka, musikana anodei mune ukama nemurume? Mhinduro yacho iri nyore: kana musikana wacho atokura, kana akafamba nevakomana uye akasarudza kusarudza munhu mumwe chete, zvino akanzwa kuti nemurume uyu achava sehuta hwematombo. Mushure mezvose, musikana wese anoda kunzwa akanzivirirwa, asi ndeupi mumwe uyo achava rubatsiro rwechokwadi kwaari, kana kwete munhu waunoda?

Chido chekuumba mhuri kana, kunyanya, kukudziridza ukama hwakakomba, inonyanya kugadziriswa nemadzimai echikadzi anowanikwa mumukadzi wese. Iwe wakacherechedza kuti vamwe vasikana vanoroorana nekutanga uye vanotanga vana, vamwe "vari mumhandara dzekare", uye kwete nguva dzose nokuti hapana munhu anovatora pasi pevheiri yavo yemurume. Isu hatitauri nezvemhosva iyo apo mhuri iri kuvakwa nokukurumidza nekuda kwekudzivirira kwevasikana. Tiri kutaura pamusoro peshato ine chikonzero uye yakakomba iyo inoitika pasinei nezera. Ndizvo chete kuti mumwe wedu ari kukura zvisati zvaitika, asi chimiro chaamai ichi hachikurumidza kune mumwe munhu. Zvisinei, chimiro chinonyatsoziva nguva uye ndiani anoda kuva neukama hwakakomba.

Ichokwadi, izvo zvataurwa pamusoro apa zvinotsanangurwa zvishoma. Mazuva ano zvinhu zvose zvakaoma zvakaoma. Pano, vabereki vedu-vairarama nemamwe mabhanga, pakanga pane vashoma vasikana vasina kutenderwa, uye kuroorana kwaikoshesa sechinhu chisingaparadzi uye chakasimba. Iye zvino, pane dzimwe nguva, michato inoshandiswa chisarudzo nekuda kwe "holide yaida" - uye, sezvamunoziva, kwenguva yakareba mhuri dzakadaro hadzipo. Chikonzero chakadai chakadai hachigoni kuva chivimbo chakavimbika kumhuri.

Ndeipi zvimwe zvingadiwa musikana kubva kumurume, kunze kwekufunga kwekuchengeteka? Zvichida tichapindura zvishoma zvishoma, asi pane chikonzero chezvo zvakare. Mari ndiyo inokwezva vasikana vazhinji, zvikuru avo avo vakakurira mumhuri isingabatsiri. Kusakosha kwemari uye chido chekubuda muimba yakamanikana yaunofanira kugovana nehanzvadzi dzako hupenyu hwako hwose, dzimwe nguva inoratidza kuva nesimba kudarika chero manzwiro. Uye vasikana vacho, vachisiya tariro yekuratirana rudo neupfumi, vanosarudza kushandisa chiitiko chakanaka chakawa uye vanosarudza pfuma chete, vasina rudo.

Kana musikana achifunga kuti anoda mukomana, izvi hazvirevi kuti anoda kuumba mhuri naye uye kubereka vana. Zvichida, musikana achiri chidiki vzbalmoshna uye inongoita kuti munhu aoneke? Hazvibvumiri kuti iye anoda kuwana humwe mukurumbira mune dzimwe mitsara, uye anoronga kushandisa munhu akakodzera nokuda kweizvi. Ukama hwakadaro hunogona kubatsirana, zvisinei, hauna simba. Iwe pachako unonzwisisa nei. Mushure mezvose, kana vazadzisa chinangwa chavo, musikana haachazodi kuenderera mberi nemurume uyu - iye achada mumwe, "zvakanyanya pakarepo", nokuti vavariro haisi munzvimbo.

Zvisinei, chimwe chinhu chatakatamira zvachose nenzira yekutsvaga nekutengeserana. Uye, pasinei nokuti zviitiko zvakadaro zvinowanzoitika kakawanda muupenyu hwedu, izvi hazvirevi kuti hapana chakajeka uye chakanaka munyika yedu chakasara, uye hukama hwose hunyengeri uye hunonzwisisika.

Mushure mezvose, musikana wese muukama nemukomana anodikanwa anoda, kutanga kune zvose, unyoro uye kutaurirana, rudo uye rudo. Ndinoda kuti azvidye mwoyo pamusoro pako uye akadane imwe hafu yeawa - kunyange kana ichiita sekunokugumbura, asi zvakadaro kutarisira kwakadaro kuchava kunakidza mukati! Ndinoda kuti akufukidze zvishoma nehombodo pakati peusiku uye amutsvode mutembere, achifunga kuti iwe watotanga kurara. Ndinoda kuti asarudze maitiro ako mumaziso uye anzwisise zvose zvido zvako.

Asi kune dzimwe mhando dzevasikana, zvakasiyana zvachose. Ngatitumidze iyi yepfungwa "amaikadzi" mumamiriro ezvinhu. Sei "amai-amai"? Nokuti musikana akadaro muukama haadi kuti murume amutore kumwana muduku, aite zvose zvaanoita uye averenge mumaziso. Aiwa, zvose zvinopesana zvachose: inofanirwa kutarisira mukomana wake (nenzira, ichi hachisi chinhu chisingawanzoitiki). Musikana akadaro anoda kutarisira mumwe munhu uye kudzidzisa. Anofudza murume uyu, achivandudza unyanzvi hwake hwokugadzirira kuitira kuronga kwaari imwe mabiko emudumbu. Iye manheru achagadzira chikafu chando chachando kumucheche mwana wake. Achapenya kubwinya kwepasi nepfuma, kuitira kuti shamwari dzevarume varo dziti: "Mwari wangu, mune bhizinesi rakaita sei!" - uye mazwi akadaro achaunza mufaro usinganzwisisiki. Nhamo chete ndeye - havasi varume vose vanokoshesa rudzi urwu rwevakadzi, mumwe munhu anoda mudzimai anonyara. Uye kuti "amai-amai" ndivo vaizova sarudzo yakanakisisa yekuroorana, vanonzwisisa chete kana nguva yasati yafa.

Kune vasikana vampire. Kwete, izvi hazvirevi kuti mukadzi akadaro anonwa ropa ... asi anodya simba, kunyanya murume. Nokuti musikana wakadaro hapana chinhu chakanaka kunze kwekuraira mumwe munhu. Uye zviri zviviri zvakanyanya kufadza kana iri mumiriri wehutano hwakasimba. Ari kutsvaga "rag", murume ari murudo naye kune nzeve uye ndiani akazvigadzirira pamusoro pezvose. Nemunhu akadaro iye anononoka - musikana vampire haadi kushungurudza pasina chikonzero. Asi kwete munhu wose, zvisinei kuti akanga asina simba zvakadini, achabvumira musikana kuzvituka zvikuru. Nokudaro, chikonzero ichi, pane kudaro, kubva pakurongwa rwe "morbidly-unnatural".

Uye, chaizvoizvo, musikana wose anoda mukomana wake kuti ave murume chaiye: akasimba, anokwanisa kuita zvisarudzo zvinokosha, izvo zvisingagumbuso uye zvisingakanganisi. Uye saka iwe unoda kuti musikana wose anowanikwa muhupenyu hwake ndiye munhu anodiwa uye murume chaiye - nokuti izvi zviri nyore, asi iyo yakakura yevakadzi inofara.