Mumwe nomumwe wedu ane zvakavanzika zvake. Uye hazvina basa zvachose kuti zvakavanzika izvi ndezvipi, zvingave zvinonakidza kana zvisingatarisirwi, zvisiri izvo kana zvakakomba-ichiri chimwe chinhu chaicho, chakavanzwa kumashure kwemasuo manomwe. Unogona kugovana navo neshamwari yepedyo kana munhu anodiwa. Asi kwete zvose zvakavanzika zvinogona kupiwa, nokuti musikana wese ane zvinyorwa zvake zvepabonde zvepabonde.
Ndiani aiva pamberi penyu, hazviverengi
Vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba kakawanda hunovhiringidzwa nekuti havana hanya nevose vangani vevarume vake vakasarudzwa pamberi pake vaiva varume, zvavakanga vari pamubhedha uye kuti mitambo yepabonde yaaidhi navo. Asi pasinei neizvi, nyika inongozadzwa nemuenzaniso wekuti zvakaparadzwa sei negodo kune zvakaitika kare. Zvechokwadi, wakatendeka wako haafaniri kuenda kuti azive kune wako wekare uye haazofariri iwe, ndiani akanyora nzira yako yakasimba yekuita masero, asi zvinofanirwa kuedza? Murume ane ruzivo rwakakwana kuti pamberi pake iwe wakabatanidzwa, kunyange zvazvo chokwadi ichi hachikwanisi kuudza kune chikamu chinoratidza iwe kubva kune rumwe rutivi. Mune shoko, chikadzi chepabonde chepabonde chekare (apo, sei, mumamiriro ezvinhu akaita sei, wakarasikirwa nemhandara yako, kushushikana kwakawanda sei muhupenyu hwako hwepedyo nemudiwa wekare uye nezvimwewo zvakadaro) vakadzi vanoedza kusiya hukama hutsva uye kakawanda kana ukama uhwu chimiro chekukura kuva chakakomba.
Ndichagara ndinewe nguva dzose
Uye pano kusavimbika kwevakadzi kana zviyero zvekushandiswa kwavo, zvichienderana nematambudziko ehupenyu, kwete zvachose. Nenzira, kuti uzvirumbidze nokuda kwezvakaenda zvakapfuura zviyero zvehutano, mukadzi haazombovi. Munyika kune dzimwe mimwe miedzo yekuita zvepabonde, iyo isingakanganisa ukama zvachose. Izvi zvidzidzo zvevakadzi zvinogamuchirwa zvakajeka maitiro evanhu, asi hazviwanikwi nzvimbo yakanaka mumaonero ehutano hwemamwe nhengo dzehutano hwakasimba. Vanogona kutotadzisa imwe nhamba yevarume kugumburwa. Chimwe chikonzero chekuziva ndeyekuti maererano nehuwandu, 70% yehutano hwakanaka hwakaroorana, huri kuita masturbation, uye hupenyu hwavo hwepabonde pamwe nevakaroorana navo, ivo vakakwirira zvikuru. Uye mune chetatu chemhosva murume wacho anoramba achiziva izvi.
Uyewo, zvakavanzika zvepabonde zvinokanganisa kusavapo kwomumwe musikana ari pedyo, zvinosanganisira kushanyira nzvimbo dzekunyengera pasi pechiratidzo che "chakavanzika chepamusoro." Pane mubvunzo wakananga wawakarashira pano, vazhinji vakadzi vanowanzopa mhinduro nokukurumidza asi yakasimba kune chirongwa ichi: "Hamusi mose munofara nepabonde!". Ichi chinhu chakasimba kwazvo kumunhu pasina. Uye imwezve huru yakavanzika, murume haafaniri kunge achiziva kuti ndiani anobva kuveredzi vemafirimu kana vashandi pamwe chete mumwe wevanhu vakuru vemanzwiro ako epabonde. Izvozvi rusununguko rwemangariro hazvigoni kunyange kutaurira munhu.
Danidzira nenzwi guru
Nguva isati yasvika pamberi pedu tisati tive nomufananidzo weusina simba uye asingakwanisi kufunga zvakakwana murume asingaoni ruzivo rwemazuva ano hauna kukodzera. Iwe chaizvoizvo wakasarudza kushamwaridzana nayo nechinangwa uye zvachose nokuti munguva yakaoma yekutsvaga rubatsiro kune avo avo pakunatswa kubva mazviri, mune imwe nzira yezvose, kuti iwe ushingaira kuchengeta chakavanzika. Zvisinei, madzimai, muchivanza zvakavanzika zvavo zvepabonde, zviitirei intuitively. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi munhu haakwanisi kuziva zvaasingadi kuziva nezvazvo. Mhedziso yechitanhatu inotungamirira mukadzi uye anosarudza nenzira ipi kuti ataure mashoko anodiwa kumunhu. Asi panewo zvakavanzika izvo zvinofanira kuramba zvisiri zvakavanzika. Nenzira, ndeyezvivimbiso izvo varume kazhinji vasingadi kuziva chinhu uye kuziva. Vanowanzobatanidzwa nechokuti mukadzi haafaniri kuita chero chinhu chepabonde uye ichi chinozivikanwa kuva vepedyo shamwari (kunyange mumwe kana amai, chiremba wako wepfungwa) kana pakuonekwa kwomurume wepabonde mukadzi anotanga kufunga nezvekuita zvepabonde naye. Pano iwe unogonawo kutaura nezvekuyeuka kwemazuva ose emunhu waimbova mhirizhonga uye pabonde rakanaka naye (zvikurukuru kana aine chido). Uye yekupedzisira chakavanzika chikuru ndeyekuongorora kwechiremera chepabonde chemurume. Vakadzi vazhinji havatauri chokwadi nguva dzose, vachitya kugumbura munhu kana kuda kuwedzera kuzviremekedza.