Varume vazhinji havadi kutaura zvakawanda, vanowanzofunga nezvimwe. Zvechokwadi, zvizhinji zvepfungwa dzavo zvicharamba zvisingazivikanwi, asi kune zvishoma zvinyorwa izvo varume vacho vakazvitaurira.
Zvechokwadi, izvo zvichakurukurwa hazvishandisi kune varume vose, asi kuongorora uku kwakaitwa pakati pevarume vevamiririri vevamiririri vezvidimbu zvakasiyana zvevanhu uye mararamiro ehupenyu.
- Murume haazombobvumi kuti akanga asina kururama, uye imwe hafu yake yakarurama. Ichi chakavanzika, nokuti vanhu vose vari nehutungamiri hwavo hwemamiriro evanhu uye kazhinji havazivi zvakasiyana.
- Haana kumbobvuma kuti ane manzwiro ekunzwira tsitsi kana chimwe chinhu kune imwe yaimbova musikana kana mudzimai wake. Izvi zvakajeka, nokuti ndiani anoda zviitiko zvegodo zvinokanganisa nemukadzi anodiwa. Nokudaro, achanyarara achifunga nezvazvo kwechinguva, asi nokukurumidza vasikana vekare vakakanganwa uye vanove vasina kukosha.
- Uyewo pamberi pako murume uyu haazive hutano hwemusikana wako.
- Munhu anowanzoita haasi kupa mudiwa wake kuveura ndebvu dzake, iye nokungwarira anoramba akanyarara nezvehutano hwako. Asi paiva nemamwe akasiyana uye vazhinji vakatovhiringidza nekuda kwemashoko akadaro uye mazano.
- Murume haazive kuti musikana wako akanaka uye zvichida zvakakosha pane iwe.
- Nguva yakaoma apo iwe ugova neshungu yako yaunoda uye kunyunyuta pamusoro pevanhu, hupenyu, mamiriro okunze, chero chii, munhu haazoratidzi kuti haana hanya nekutinhira kwako, uye chiso chake hachati chiratidze kuti panguva ino rwiyo rwake rwaanonyanya kutamba mumusoro wake. Dzimwe nguva vakadzi vanoshandisa varume sevatinhi vehangu, asi hapana anofarira kutaura uku. Chinhu chose chinofanira kunge chiri mumwero uye edza kuitisa nhaurirano, kwete chirevo.
- Murume haarati anoratidza kuti haadi sei imbwa yako uye kuti nemikana chero ipi zvayo yakakodzera anokundwa nechido chokumuuraya. Kana iwe uchiramba uchirumbidza chipfuwo chako - murume anotsamwa uye ari kunyatsogadzirira kumuuraya. Edza kupa nguva shoma kumhuka, uye zvizhinji kune waunoda.
- Munhu akakwana haazokuudze nezvekuwedzera kwakakura kana guru guru, angangodaro acharamba akanyarara uye anopa kumhanya mangwanani kana kuenda kumitambo yekutambira pamwe chete. Kazhinji kashanyira fitness centre, unogona kuona vakaroorana. Kazhinji, uyu muenzaniso wekuti mumwe wevadadi anoda kurasika.
- Uyezve, murume haazomboti kwauri: "Sei iwe usingadi kundidana," iyo inofanira kuitwa nemukadzi kuti atsvake kutarisa. Edza kudana kana kutumira mudiwa wako kakawanda.
- Vamiririri vehupombwe hwakasimba havawanzoiti shanje kune vadikanwa vavo uye saka chiitiko chegodo chinowedzera.
- Mumwe mukomana haazombokuratidzi kuti haana mari yakakwana yekudya yakarayirwa, zvichida, mushure mekudya kwemanheru iwe uchange uine "rudo rwekuda" nokuti kwete mari yakakwana yekatekisi.
- Murume haatombotauri kwauri kuti haakwanisi kutsamwa, kazhinji kupesana ndeyechokwadi, uyo anodikanwa asingadi vamwene vake vamwene, kunyanya iye achava nehanya nehupenyu hwake uye edza kumubatsira munzira dzose.
- Kana mudiwa wako kazhinji asingati anokuda uye anokukoshesa iwe, kuti iwe uri weunonyanya kukosha pasi pano, angangove akuda iwe zvakanyanyisa uye akagadzirira zvachose kuti aite kuti anodiwa wake afare, asizve, varume havawanzozvitaura nenzwi guru, ivo kuratidza rudo nezviito.
- Mukuwedzera, varume havawanzozivi kuti vanoda rubatsiro. Tevera kurongeka kwomunhu waunoda, pamwe, dzimwe nguva zvakakosha kupa rubatsiro.
- Zvisinei, munhu haazive kuti anonyatsotungamirirwa neaanoda. Anoda kuti azviratidze nemafungiro ake nezviito.
Usambofa wakakanganwa! Varume ndivo vakadzika, uye vakadzi vari voga! Saka, tarisira varume vako.