Mukadzi anozviwana ari murume muduku kudarika iye pachake paanenge asina hanya nenyaya yehukama. Vakadzi ava vakaitwa munzvimbo yevashandi, vakagadzirirwa dzimba uye mibare yakagadzikana. Chimwe chikonzero chekuwana varume vechidiki chikamu chehupenyu hwepedyo. Zvichida, vakadzi vakuru havakwanisi uye vane unhu hwevezera ravo uye vari kuedza chimwe chinhu. Sezvo kubuda kwekukwezva kwevarume nevakadzi kunowira panguva dzakasiyana. Uye chimwe chikonzero chikonzero ndechekuzvarwa kwemasikana, iyo inopa manzwiro ekuvimba nekuchengeteka kwevarume vechidiki.
Vakaroorana vakadaro, umo mudzimai mukuru uye murume wechidiki anofanira kukurira zvimwe zvakawanda zvipingamupinyi kupfuura vakaroorana vese. Chokutanga, kune chitarisiko chemudzimai, zvinowedzera zvinodiwa zvinotarisirwa mberi, anofanirwa kugara achitarisa pamwero wakakodzera kana asina muduku kudarika makore ake, ipapo, zvakanakisisa sezvinobvira mumakore ake, kukonzera kupikisana nevasikana vaduku. Nokudaro, runako uye vechidiki vanofanira kuchengetwa kwenguva yakareba sezvinobvira. Muchiitiko ichi, kazhinji kacho kuonekwa kuri pane imwechete nerudo.
Kana ukama hwakadaro hunotarisirwa chete nemari uye zvepabonde uye zvinoreva hukama hwehutano zvakaderedzwa chete kune izvi, kuti mukadzi anogutsa zvese zvemari zvemumwe wechidiki, achikurudzira zvaanoda, uye muchinzvimbo chinomiririra kungoita zvepabonde, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare murume achashungurudzwa nemurume ari kutamba nemaoko emukadzi. Unhu hwehupombwe nemamiriro emari hausi hunokosha muhupenyu hwevamwe vaviri, asi pasina kuvimba kwekuremekedzana uye kunzwisisa, hurumende haizoperi kwenguva refu.
Hazviwanzoiti kuti vakaroorana vasina kukwana vanoraramira kumuchato, uye muchato hauna kuvimbisa upenyu hurefu pamwe chete. Zviratidzo zvevakaroorana vakadaro, kunzwisisa uye kugadzikana manzwiro, uchenjeri. Asi zvakakosha kuonekwa shanje, nokuti vasati vashoma vane makore makumi maviri vasati vadzivisa, sezvo ukama hunogona kuparara. Nokudaro, kusungirwa kwehukama hwakasiyana ndiko uchenjeri uye kuvimba.
Varume vechidiki vanowanzoona kudiwa kwekuzviziva pavanenge vava munhu, chido chokuva mutungamiri chikuru, saka mukadzi haafaniri kumisa mudzimai wake pamatanho emwana muduku uye kuratidza zvose zvaanoita mwanakadzi. Kana mukadzi achinge amupwanya nechinzvimbo chake chemasimba, iye achava mutungamiri muhukama, ipapo murume achakurumidza kana kuti akazozviwana ari "asina simba" naye. Ukama pakati pemukadzi nemurume chinhu chakaoma zvikuru.
Kubatana kwakadaro kwevanhu vazhinji kunofadza uye kunounza njodzi panguva imwe chete. Kune mienzaniso yakawanda kubva muupenyu apo mukadzi mukuru uye murume wechidiki anokodzera hukama, vane vana uye vakararama hupenyu hunofadza hwemhuri kwemakumi emakore. Ukama hwakadaro hwevakadzi vakawanda hunomutswa, hunobatsira kunzwa semukadzi ane tsamba huru. Asi hazvisi zvisizvo kuunza matambudziko apo vakaroorana, vasingakwanisi kukurira muedzo, vanopinda mumakona akajeka ekunyomba, kutsoropodza uye kutongwa. Vakawanda havasi kumanikidzwa kubva kunze.
Upenyu hahudziri - uye hazvina basa kuti iwe nemudiwa wako mune makore mangani. Zvakakosha kuti unonzwa sei, nokuti muviri wedu chete ndiwo makore - uye mweya unoramba uri muduku. Uye rudo nemanzwiro akanaka hauna miganhu, kusanganisira makore.