Zviratidzo zvekushaya simba
Maoko, akafanana nemakumbo, anoputika pasina kumira mumhepo, kupwanya, kurohwa, kubata, kunzwa. Musoro unotenderera 180 degrees - kamwe kamwe iwe unofadza iwe uhwo uhwo huchasvikirwa! Asi kufarira, kuva munhu chaiye, kuda kuziva, marwadzo, zvinokwana kwemasekondi, uye mwana wacho anobva atanga kune chimwe chinhu, uye kwete kubata chinangwa chezvinoitika.
Kuongorora hakusi muhupenyu hwake. Kubva kwaari unowanzonzwa "nei" uye "nei". Asi kana mwana, sezvaanotaura, achawana, mumaminitsi mashanu munhu mukuru achanzwa mibvunzo makumi maviri, uye hapana kana ane nguva yekupindura. Mwana akangwara anongokanganwa kuti mhinduro inofanira kuteerera. Uye hapana nguva. Iye ose ari mune bhizinesi, ane boka re "matambudziko" anoda kusarudza kugadziriswa. Uye kweminiti iye acha (uye, zvechokwadi, haasi kupedzisa) nhamba inoshamisa yezviitiko zvakasiyana. Zvichida Amai vachakwanisa kudyisa mwana wavo, asi anofarira kudya akamira, nguva dzose achivhiringidzika nechimwe chinhu chinonakidza kudarika ndiro yekumusi. Munzvimbo dzomusikana mwana akadaro anokwezva kutarisa, nokuti inoedza kukwira kwese uye kubata zvinhu zvose, kusazvidza mazwi evabereki. Zvechokwadi, kwete mwana, asi boka rebiya rinopisa uye rinopisa, kuchengetedza vabereki mukutambudzikira nguva dzose uye kuvatungamirira dzimwe nguva kugumisa kupera mupfungwa uye mumuviri.
Zvisinei, usakurumidza kuisa mwana wako pane urongwa hwehutachiona. Izvi zvinoratidzika, zita raro chaiyo - kucherechedza dambudziko rekusaziva uye kusagadzikana, rinogona kuiswa chete nachiremba, nyanzvi yezvehutano kana chirwere chepfungwa, uye ipapo pamusana pekunyatsosarudzwa kwepfungwa. Hyperactive haisi mwana wose ari kuvira. Vana vazhinji vana makore mashanu kusvika kune makumi maviri nemashanu vari kutungamira nguva dzose kubva mangwanani kusvika usiku. Asi panguva imwe chete vanoisa pfungwa dzavo zvakanaka uye vanogona kuzvibata kwenguva yakareba.
Kana ichiri kuongororwa
Mukusava nehanya, vatatu vafambi vanofamba navo: kucherechedza chirwere, motokisi yekudzivirira, kusazvibata. Uye yekare yakagara iripo. Vana vanonyanya kushingaira vane kukanganisa kwakanyanya havagoni kuisa pfungwa kwenguva yakareba pane chero basa rimwe chete, kucherechedza kwacho kuri nyore kukukwezva, asi zvinenge zvisingabviri kuzvichengetedza - "kunokwira" kubva pane imwe nyaya kune imwe. Mwana anonzwa paanotaura, asi haaiti. Haakwanisi kuita basa rake oga, kunyange akaitora nerudo. Basa rinoda kushivirira nekufungisisa zvinotyisa uye hazvigamuchirwi kwaari.
Motokari inoratidzirwa nekutambudzika. Vana havagoni kugara, vasina zororo, vanongotamba mitambo yemhepo inofadza, vanoita zvinhu zvisingabatsiri, vanoita mabasa anoda kushanda, - kutaurirana nemakumbo avo, nekusarudza neminwe yavo. Uye, pakupedzisira, kushushikana, kana kutamira kumhanya zvakanyanya, zvisingafungi. Murume akagadzirira kupindura asati abvunzwa, haagoni kutarisira nguva yake; haafariri kuteerera mitemo, uye mafungiro ake anochinja semamiriro ekunze munguva yechando. Vana vane tsvina havawanzofunga nezvemigumisiro yezviito zvavo, saka vanowanzopinda mumamiriro ezvinhu ane ngozi.
Chii chinokonzera kusagadzikana? Kakawanda, nzira isina kunaka yekuzvitakura - oksijeni nzara yemucheche, kutyisidzika kwepamuviri; kusvuta, kunetseka; nguva isati yakwana, inomhanyisa kana kushanda kwenguva refu, craniocerebral trauma, yakanyanya, high fever, zvirwere zvehutachiona uye zvinopararira mumakore mashomanana ekutanga ehupenyu, nezvimwe zvinokonzera.
Izvi ndezvenguva pfupi
Kurapwa, kana zvichidiwa, inorayirwa nachiremba. Mushure mezvose, kushaya hanya hakusi prank, kwete kukura, asi chirwere chakakomba. Nevana vasingaiti zvakanaka vane hanya, mumwe munhu anofanira kutaurirana nounyoro uye akadzikama: ivo vane hanya zvikuru uye vanogamuchira mafungiro evanodiwa, vano "nyore kutongwa" nemaitiro akanaka uye akaipa. Kudzidzisa vana vakabatikana hazvirevi.
Rumbidza mwana wako nokuda kwechinhu chiduku chose: vana vasina hanya vanozvidza mazwi, asi vane hanya chaizvo kurumbidzwa. Edza kupa mhinduro yakanaka kumwana, uye kusakanganisa - kuzviito zvake. "Uri mwana akanaka, asi ikozvino uri kuita chinhu chisina kunaka, zviri nani kuzviita zvakasiyana."
Ita mabasa akafanirwa nehutano hwemwana. Bvisai muedzo wokunyora mwana pakarepo mumakumbo mashanu. Izvi zvinongotungamirira kukuneta uye kunyanya kufara mupfungwa. Usati wataura kune kukanganisa kwemwana, kuverenga kune gumi uye edza kuporesa manzwiro. Kutya kwako kuchagumbura manzwiro mamwechete kumwana.
Iva nemafungiro mukuranga, uye mumubairo. Chirango, kana iwe usingakwanisi kuita pasina iyo, inofanira kunge yakatevera mafurati pakarepo. Funga nezvemazuva ezuva recheche uye uite zvakasimba. Mwana anofanira kuziva kana achifanira kumuka, kudya, enda kufamba. Edza kubatanidza karapuza kumitambo yakashambadzira, umo kuchave nekushandiswa kwesimba-rinopisa simba. Zvinokurudzirwa kutora mitambo yemwana, inowanikwa kuzera rake uye mutsa. Uye kukudziridza mwana ane utano husina kunaka pane zvimwe kutsungirira, zvakakosha kumudzidzisa kutamba mitambo yakanyarara, somuenzaniso, mosaic, lotto, dominoes. Rubatsiro uye mabhuku - vanogona kwenguva refu vachitakura mwana.
Edza kuva nechokwadi chokuti chikumbiro kumucheche hachina mirayiridzo yakawanda panguva imwechete, kana kuti mwana haazokuteereri kana kuita hafu yezvakakumbirwa kwaari. Vana vakadaro vanowanzopomerwa kuti havakwanisi kufunga, asi izvi hazvisizvo. Kungofanana nemwana haikwanisi kugamuchira zvikumbiro zvakawanda panguva imwe chete. Dzimwe nguva zvinoratidzika kuti hazvibviri kumumutsa - mwana anonyanya kutarisa pakutanga pakutanga haagoni kudzora. Asi kana ichiva chakaoma zvikuru, yeuka kuti kusvika pakuyaruka, uye mune vamwe vana zvisati zvaitika, kusagadzikana kunopfuura. Ichokwadi, vabereki vanodikanwa, kana iwe uchibatsira mwana asingagoni kushaya simba nekushaya hanya kurarama nemamiriro aya.