Rambai muchirarama
Rudo runozivikanwa kuva bofu, saka hatiwanzowi kune avo vanofanirwa. Iwe hausi kunyemwerera kuva muranda wake, uye iwe unosarudza nzira iyo yakapoteredza umambo hunyenyeka hwemwoyo yakaputsika. "Muzvikoro zvepamusoro ndakachengeta diary - pini rimwe rine kiki duku chakange chakavharwa nekona yegoridhe," anodaro Katya, "haana kuchengeta chero zviziviso zvakakosha: ndakanga ndisati ndisinazvo, ndakanga ndichigadzirira kuonana nerudo rwehupenyu hwangu - nenzira imwecheteyo sezvavanozvigadzirira ivo mhinduro mumutsara: iye akarondedzera pfungwa dzakanaka munyaya yacho.Dheari yakabva yanyangarika pane imwe nzvimbo, asi zvinyorwa zvakaramba zviri mumusoro mangu.Ndinoyeuka, somuenzaniso, kuti iyo chete chinhu chaunogona kufunga ndeyekunzwa kune munhu anokuita iwe Asi ini handidi kutambura zvachose. Ndakasarudza mazano ayo munyori weChirungu Samuel Johnson akapa mwanasikana wake makore matatu apfuura: "Kana iwe uchida kuda kwenguva yakareba, ida huchenjeri uye kwete moyo, uye kwete kwete izvo chete, asi kuti uzvibatsire iwe pachako." Kukurumidza kupinda muchamupupuri wekunzwa kwemunhu oga - iyo inenge iri basa, asi iwe unogona kuita sarudzo yakanaka, inotungamirirwa nehupenzi. "Saka ndakaroora Antonio, ini ndaiva mugore rokutanga paakauya kumushandi, ndakatarisira kugara kwemwedzi miviri, uye ndakagara kwemakore mashanu. Nokuda kwangu. Pazororo, ndakagara naye muRoma, nguva yose yaaigara kuMoscow. Chiratidzo chaicho chekucherechedza kwake chakanga chisati chiri kutamira kune imwe nyika uye kwete maruva nezvipo zvaakandidzidzisa, asi nzira iyo yaakandibatsira kuenda kuchikoro mangwanani oga oga, kunyange zvazvo akasimuka pa7 am nokuda kwake. Uye sechando, nekutonhora kwakakwirira, akagara neni mumisangano, kunyange zvazvo aigona kugadzikana achidzikama kumba. Apo Antonio akandiudza kwandiri, ndakaita zvinodzidza maitiro epfungwa: Ndakagadzira pepa muzvikamu zviviri-kuruboshwe pamwe chete, uye mune zvakarurama- zvidhori zvehupenyu hwedu pamwechete. Vabereki vangu vakasarudzwa vakanyatsonaka nevabereki vakandibvuma ini semunhu wekuzvarwa, imba huru, yega rock band uye yekurekodha studio, ndinonzwa wakasununguka naye, iye muimbi uye muimbi, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - anondida zvikuru. Zvinyorwa izvi zvakazova zvina chete: kufanana neItaly, Antonio akanga asingashandisi kuderedza, ari pasi pangu nemamita masendimita, panzvimbo pemakabhi epepanhau, ane boka, uye ... ini handidi iye. Asi zvakanyanya kukosha here? Kwemakore manomwe atinenge tiri pamwe chete, shamwari dzangu dzakawanda dzakasvetuka kubva kunoroora nerudo rukuru, rwakakwanisa kuwana kurambana, vamwe kunyange kunyange kamwe. Vakarota nezveramangwana rakasiyana, uye ndakawana chaizvo zvandaida, uye handizvidemba. Asi dzimwe nguva zvose zvakafanana ndinozvibvunza ini: kamwe kamwe ndakashaya chimwe chinhu mukuverenga kwangu? Izvo zvose zvose zvinotapira uye zvinotarisirwa ... "
Iwe unotya kuchinja kuva chido, uchirohwa nemuseve we Cupid, unoita zvinopesana nezvinodiwa iwe pachako. Saka hauzvibvumiri kurasikirwa nemusoro wako paunosangana nevarume vanogona kuishandura, uye kuvaka hukama nevaya vasingakwanisi. Mushure mezvose, kunze kwekunge uchinzwa manzwiro akakura nokuda kwechinhu chekunzwira tsitsi kwako, iwe unogona kuchengeta musoro wakagadzikana. Iwe wakanyatsozvigadzirisa iwe pachako nekuisa pfungwa pamwoyo, uye hauna kukubvumira iwe zvakadaro. Hazvisi zvachose kuti hazvizokuregerei, kunze kwekuti, iwe pachako iwe pachako unoda kusimudzira kurambidzwa kwehukama nehuipi, mumaonero ako, vakomana, avo vanowanzokwezva vasikana vakanaka.
Zvakanaka Kuita Muchato
Iwe wakaedza kuratidza kune wese wese kuti iwe wakanga watova munhu mukuru, waisada kusara shure neshamwari yako ichange yava nechato muchato. Kana, zvichida, semucheche, ndaifungidzirwa nehope yakapiwa neHollywood - sekukurumidza kufamba, kuti ushambire kuatari mumurwi wezvisikwa zvipfeko zvitsvuku ... Pamukutanga mukana, iwe wakaona mamiriro aya, uye chikwata chekuroorana chakanyarara. "Igor akandidana kuti ndinoroora zvakananga pamusangano," anoyeuka kudaro Karina, "uye ini ndakabva ndasarudza kuti ndaizova nemuchato, kufanana nemavhidhiyo." Uye hupenyu, hwakafanana mumabhaisikopo, muimba yakavakirwa nevabereki, mune muimba yekurara pane rugwaro rine mashoko okuti " Ndinogara ndichiyeuka kuti zvakanyatsojeka sei, sekunge ndiri mupenyu, ndakabvisa bhokoto yakasvibirira kubva mumucheka wake mutsvuku, uye akareba kwenguva refu uye anonyatsobudisa zvigumi zvese gumi nembiri kubva panguvo yangu kubva kumudzimai wechinomwe vertebrae kumashure kwemashure. "Pamukamu weIgor, zvose zvaiva zvechokwadi, asi ini. Ini ndozoverenga pane imwe nzvimbo kuti rudo rwokutanga haruna chokuita nemanzwiro chaivo-inongoda kungwarira zvishoma uye zvido zvishomanana. "Chido chakange chagutswa, rudo haruna kumboitika, chete chigadziko mupasipoti uye mubati muimba yekurara nemhiko yeveveveve yekuvimbiswa pamwe chete nokusingaperi .. Pazera remakore gumi nemasere, hazvina kumboitika kwandiri mazuva mangani egore uye kuti vose vanoita sei zvakafanana kana uchigara nevasingadi.Asi kana uri 28, unotarisa zvinhu zvakawanda zvakasiyana. "Sei musingazomurambi?" - musikana anoshamisika. Hongu, nokuti handidi kukuvadza iye neni. Tinoziva nekirasi yekutanga - kakatova nemakore makumi maviri nemashanu! Iye chikamu chehupenyu hwangu, icho chausingakwanisi kupedza. Zvakafanana naTolstoy: Nikolai Rostov akanga asiri murudo naMambo Marya, asi, zvisinei, akanzwa ari chikamu chake. Akafananidza mudzimai wake ne ... nemunwe: iwe haunzwi uchida kumuda, asi mushure mekurasikirwa, unoramba wakaremara kwehupenyu hwako hwose. Saka ndinonzwa zvakafanana kumurume wangu. Zvechokwadi haisi rudo, asi zvakadaro ... "Manzwiro anononoka pasi, uye hazvina basa kana iwe wakanga uine hanya neRomao yako kana kwete: ukama hwako chero upi zvawo hunodikanwa nguva nenguva unotanga kubatanidzwazve." Edza kufambidzana nemurume wako mune sainzi-nyanzvi dzakagadzirisa Kune zvakawanda zvekudzidzisa kwakadaro, fungidzira kuti iwe unofanirwa kuzivisa iyo sechiratidzo chepabonde uye kubata mufananidzo wechiso, nekusarudza zvibudiriro zvakabudirira zvakanyanya uye kuzvipa pedyo-kusvika kwechiremera chayo. uchetura, zvepabonde munzvimbo isina kujairika ... Kufungidzira manzwiro kunogona kuva chaiye: hazvisi zvechimwe chinhu izvo mazivikori ekushevedza adanidza kuda kukunda kwefungiro pamusoro pemafungiro, nenzira, kuti iwe pamwe chete unotaura zvakawanda .. Zvichida unofunga kuti iwe hausi Amai vamwene vanofunga kuti akararama kwemakore makumi mana nevasingadiwi, asi vose vanoona vaviri ava vakanzwisisika: manzwiro acho ari pamwe chete. Anoti akaroora nokuti muroori akatyisidzira kuti apinde mumugo kana akaramba ... Asi aizova Ari kuponesa munhu waasina hanya nazvo?
Handizove amai
Amai vako vanotambura nerudo, uye hamudi kudzokorora zvikanganiso zvake. Iwe wakazviwanawo paaitsvaga mufaro wake, uye iwe wakanga uchiri muduku uye wakanyanya kunetseka pamusoro pake uye iwe pachako.
"Baba vaiva rudo rwehupenyu hwavo," anodaro Olya "Zvose zviri mumba zvakaitwa naamai vangu, aishanda somukuru wevashandi mune imwe hofisi huru, akandirera ini nehanzvadzi yake, akayamwisa mbuya akaoma rutivi rwomuviri." Kana TV ikaputsika, yakatorwa kuti igadzirise, kana Muchitarisiko chemotokari ndakatakura zvikwama zvekudya kune dacha pachitima.Ababa havana kumbofunga kumusangana manheru pachiteshi kana kukandira Mitka kuenda kuchikoro chechikoro mangwanani. Papa aive achigadzira firiji, uye apo mirairo yakaoma (iyo yakaitika nguva dzose), yakanyangarika pane dacha Fried with. Takaungana kuMallorca (uye Amai vakashanda parwendo, uye vakaita zvose mapepa), uye akatorwa mazuva matatu vasati vaenda kunobata hove, kunyange zvazvo takamukurudzira kugara kumba. saka handisati ndaroora uye ndakabva ndafa kamwechete ... Ndinoziva chinhu chimwe: rudo urwu harusi ini ini ndinoda kutambura pasi pezvinhu zvose zviri munyika izvo zvisingandikoshese zvachose .. Ndine makore makumi maviri nemashanu, ndinoshanda semuenzaniso uye uyo wandisina kumuda. Bvuma kuti iwe unotya ukama hwepedyo. Asi havasi vanhu vose vakaita sababa vako, uye haufaniri kudzokorora kukanganisa kwamai vako - iwe uchazviitira iwe pachako, kana kuti, iwe, iwe unogona kuzvipa mukana wakadaro. Nenzira, kukanganisa nemurume uyo aifanira kunge akambomira kare, inowanzoonekwa mune izvo zvinonzi symbiotics - vanasikana, vanochengetedzwa nevabereki vane simba. Muwanano, ivo vakasungirirwa zvakasimba kune mumwe wavo, iyo inotora nzvimbo yemukadzi kana baba. Kana iwe wakave wakasununguka kubva paudiki, saka haungatenderi ukama hunoita kuti utambure. Ichokwadi, panewo mamiriro ezvinhu emhuri anokonzera chisarudzo chedu: vazhinji vanovaka imba zvichienderana nemuenzaniso wemhuri yemubereki - kunze kwekuti vanozviona somuenzaniso. Uye kana zvisiri kure, vanoita nekupesana. Ita zvakafanana, usingaregi kutya kuchidzora hupenyu hwako. Nokuti kuda kune chinhu chinonyanya kukosha, chakaiswa mumamiriro chaiwo evanhu.
Zvakawanda uye hapana
Vose vakasiyana zvakasiyana. Asi iwe hausi pamwe chete. Iwe unotanga kuwira murudo nemumwe, asi zvino unosangana nomumwe - wakakwirira, wakachenjera, akabudirira zvikuru ... Ndingasarudza sei? Iwe hauzive mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu, saka iwe kungoona kurwisana. Regai boka iri revarwi vakarwa neminondo kuitira kodzero yekutsvoda muromo wemukadzi wavo, uyo anoponesa manzwiro emunhu akakodzera zvikuru ... Asi haagoni kusarudza kuti ndiani. "Handigoni kudanana murudo, handingatauri mukati mavo," anodaro Christina, "Munhu wose anondida nenzira yavo." Mumwe akanaka, uye mumwe ane simba guru, chechitatu rakapfuma uye rinobudirira ... Nguva dzose pandinofunga: Zvakanaka, pakupedzisira, ini asi inotevera inowanikwa, uye ndinoona maari maitiro aya andakanga ndisingawani kune waimboita naye.Ndinofanira kutanga zvakare kune mumwe munhu, kunyange ndichirota manzwiro akasimba uye ukama hukama kwenguva refu.Ave achichingana nemukomana muduku kwandiri kupfuura mwedzi Ane mutsa uye ane njere, asi anonyadzisa makore ake uye huku I vazvionere: vakura uye vanoda ponakachannee Asi kunyange kana ini achawira saka zvakadaro nokuti ndinowana chinhu kunyunyuta pamusoro ... Pamwe rudo hakuwaniki uye ndiri kutambisa nguva yangu vachitsvaka nokuti ".? Kusava nechokwadi "iye / kwete" kutambudzika, asi rudo rwechokwadi harusi. Paanouya, mibvunzo inonyangarika. Asi kuti izvi zviitike, iwe unofanirwa kuisa pfungwa pane chimwe chinhu, uye usaedza kuwirirana nevashanu panguva imwechete uye usingave somwenga waGogol. Usabata vadiki, semurwi wezvitsva zvitsva pane zvirembera. Maererano nekuongororwa kwemaAmerican psychologists, vasikana kubva pamakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemakumi matatu ekurota vane kurota kwechitsvuku nechinangwa chaKeanu Reeves, miromo yaBrad Pitt, maziso aTro Cruise, majeko eHarrison Ford uye biceps Sylvester Stallone. Kubatanidza zvikamu zvenyeredzi pakombiyuta, vanyori veongororo vakagamuchira chiso chakashata chevarume-vakange vari pasi! Usaenda kure nemafungiro uye unobata varume, semurwi wezvishongo zvitsva pazvirembera. Ita urongwa hwemhando gumi dzakasarudzwa nemunhu wako uye kana ukawana kune mumwe munhu anenge mashanu, fungisisa kwaari uye usashanyira kune vamwe vakagadzirira kune vakomana pakarepo apo murazvo we rudo wakagadzirira kuratidzira kubva pakunzwira tsitsi.
Haudi hafu!
Iwe hautendi mune zvekusava nerudo pamusoro pekusangana nemakumi maviri ehafu, nokuti iwe unozviona uri munhu anozvigadzirira, uye usati watanga ukama hwakakomba, uchisarudza kuita zvepabonde nerudo, zviri nyore kwazvo! "Zvinotendwa kuti vanhu vose vanodzivisa kuroorana, uye vasikana vose vanochida," Lena anowedzera zvakaitika kwaari. "Zvichida mumwe munhu anoda kuroora, asi kwete ini, ini ndiri nemakore 27, uye ndakaita zvinhu zvose ini. Handigoni kuronga, ndaive nevarume vazhinji, asi kwete imwe yeruzivo yakakura, nokuti chinhu chinonakidza chinogara chiripo pakutanga: iwe unomupa chiratidzo - iwe unotarisa zvakatarisa mumaziso ako, zora bvudzi rako kubva pamafudzi ako, tug mushu, rinza rutsoka rwako pamakumbo, anobata ziso rako, Anogadzirisa tayi yake, anoisa zvigunwe zvake pachigamba. "Iwe kana kwandiri?" - uye zvose zvinoitika sekutanga, asi iwe unoziva kuti chiitiko ichi chinoshamisa chiri nani kuti usadzoke kaviri nemunhu mumwe chete. manzwiro anonyangadza - pane kakato pasina dhoni, chimwe chinhu chakafanana nekunyorovesa kwemazwi kunoitika, saka ndiyo nguva yekubuda zvakare nokuda kwekuvhima kukuru. " Muchiyero chezvaunokoshesa, kuzviziva, kwete mhuri, kunotora nzvimbo yekutanga, uye mafungiro okuda uye zvepabonde zvinowanzova varume. Iwe haumirire kuti mumwe munhu agare naye kwenguva yakareba, achifara uye afa mune rimwe zuva, asi achishingairira kutsvaga waunofambidzana naye uyo waizove wakasununguka pano uye ikozvino. Zvinokwanisika kuti rimwe zuva iwe uchada chimwe chinhu kupfuura kungoita zvekuda, asi ikozvino kuda pasina kusungirwa kukugadzirira iwe. Iwe unogona kufara pasina vanhu, asi izvozvo hazvirevi kuti iwe uchange uri woga hupenyu hwako hwose. Kakawanda, hazvisi zvakakosha, iwe uchasangana nechinangwa chawakatemerwa naPetro, Antony, Hippolytus kana kwete. Ichokwadi kwauri uye saka ndizvo zvakanaka. Uye izvozvo zvinoitika!