Kwete kare kare, zvidzidzo zvehukama mumhuri dzemazuva ano zvakaratidza chimiro chinotyisa: murume nomudzimai vaitomira kutaura - nguva yekutaura kwavo kwezuva ndeye maminitsi 10-12. Nei izvi zvichiitika?
Munhu wose anomhanya, anomhanyira, anomhanyira ...
Nenjodzi yehupenyu, apo mumwe nemumwe ari kutarisana nemamwe mabasa, sarudzo iyo haigoni kuendeswa mberi, gare gare, gigabytes yemashoko matsva anoonekwa kuti inoda kushandiswa zvakare nekudzidza, pane chido chekutaurirana nevanhu vanodikanwa asi kwete nguva dzose, kuzvibata maererano nemamiriro ezvinhu ... Zvose izvi zvinotungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti hukama hwemazuva ano pakati pevarume nevakadzi mumhuri hahukwanisi kurwisa kuparadzwa kwehupenyu mumagariro.
Mukutsvaga mweya wehama
Asi zvinodiwa kuti munhu wepedyo haapere, ndicho chikonzero chido chekuwana mweya wemweya unomuka. Zvinotaridzika kuti kune kupesana muchiso: hapana nguva yokuti mudzimai (murume), pave nevana vanoda? Zvinosuruvarisa, izvi ndezvechokwadi zvehupenyu hwemazuva ano mumaguta makuru. Kune avo vanogara muguta guru, mhuri yakaguma kuva nzvimbo yepanyama uye inomanikidzira, inongova imwewo purojekiti iyo inofadza kuti ione muupenyu. Vanhu vakawanda vari kutsvaga chikwata. Uyezve, kutaridzika kweWorld Wide Web uye kukurumbira kwacho kuchiita zvakajeka nzira yekuwana munhu ari pedyo nemweya. Zvose zvakaenda kusvika kure zvokuti hukama hwakakonzerwa nemurume nemudzimai pahutano hwakatanga kuparadzaniswa kuva rudzi rwakasiyana rwekushamwaridzana, vachiitumidza kuti mhuri chaiye.
Kushungurudzika kwepfungwa sezvakakosha zvakakosha
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzakasvika pakugumisa kuti chikonzero chiri mumheyo yevanhu vemazuva ano, kukurudzira kutsvaga mumwe munhu wandinoda kuvaka hukama naye. Kunyange kana mumhuri iripo zvese kana zvishoma zvagutsikana, chido chokuratidzira kune rumwe rutivi chakakwirira kwazvo. Nokudaro, kune zvimwe zvacho kana kuti kunyatsobatana zvakafanana nehurumende yakabatana. Panguva imwe chete hazvina basa kana vadzivisi vakawanikwa munyika (chaiyo kana chaiyo), nokuti pfungwa yepfungwa haina kuona musiyano pakati pavo. Mushure mezvose, kugutsikana kwezvinodiwa zvakafanana ndezvekutsvakirirwa: kusimbiswa kwehumwe chete, kusarudzwa, chido chokufadza, kunzwisisa .... Zvinosuruvarisa, chimiro chemuitiro wekukurukurirana, chinowanikwa mumhuri dzakawanda, hachirevi kuvapo kwemashoko okudanana mauri, mukana wekugovana zvakananga manzwiro ake. Kazhinji, vakaroorana havana kana pfungwa pamusoro peiyo (uye kazhinji havakwanisi kudai) kuti vanogona kugovana zvakavanzika nemweya yavo pachavo kana kuti vaudze pamusoro pezvinhu zviri nyore kutaurirwa kune vanoda.
Asi munhu mumwe nomumwe anoda ruregerero, tsitsi uye kutaurirana, uye kuroorana kunobatsira pakurasikirwa kwekugadzirisa. Aya mavarai mukutaurirana kwevakaroorana kuderedza kana sovsemchezayut. Inoramba iine nzira yehupenyu chete. "Chii chandinofanira kubika kuti ndidye? Bvisa marara! Zaberideetey kubva kuchikoro (munda). "... Zvisinei, mamiriro acho ezvinhu anotora mitsara yakadaro kwete nokuti mumwe wevakaroorana isinganzwisisiki, asingagoneki nemanzwiro chaiwo, kuti upenyu hwemazuva ano pachahwo ndihwo muurayi mukuru wepfungwa yekudanana muhukama hwemhuri. Ndiyo apo pane vanofarira paIndaneti kana vechokwadi, nokuti kuwirirana mupfungwa nemumwe munhu chinhu chinokosha.
"Mukadzi wechipiri" ndeyekuguma kwekubudirira uye kwakanaka?
Uye chii chinoita kuti vasina kuroora vakanaka, vakadzi vanozviziva vave "vakadzi vechipiri". Kazhinji vanongova vasina simba rekuchinja chimwe chinhu muhupenyu hwavo: basa, nguva dzose chido chekuvandudza (mupfungwa, mumuviri, mutsika) kuvamanikidza kuti vauye kudzidzisa, seminamato, magyms, mararamiro akanaka, zviratidzo, zviitiko zvevanhu ... Uye hazvishamisi kuti pamutengo uyu hupenyu pamagumo ezuva vanongorota chete chinhu chimwechete - kuzorora.Kusikwa kwemhuri kunenge kusina zviwanikwa zvemukati. Asi zvinodiwa kuti unzwe udiwa uye kuda zvikuru hazvibviri kupera, uye ipapo mukadzi anobvumirana nebasa remuda.
Chii chaunofanira kuita?
Kakotnestis kune chokwadi chokuti murume (mudzimai) aida? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira kuti urege kutema kubva pamapfudzi, usakurumidza kurega uye usabatanidzwa mukuzvitambudza. Zvimwe ihwo hukama huripo kubva kune imwe nzvimbo iyo inobatsira mhuri yako kuramba ichiwedzera. Zvichida iye (orion) ane rubatsiro rwechimwe chiitiko chinopedzisa hupfumi hwako nenzira iyi yakasiyana. Zvakakosha kuwana chikonzero chinomanikidzira munhu kutsvaga chimwe chinhu chaicho. Uye kutanga kutaurirana kwacho, kungopfuura maminitsi gumi nemaviri, uye zvichida ipapo hakuzovi nechido chokugoverana pfungwa nemumwe munhu, enda kune mumwe munhu, taura uye kutsvoda mumwe munhu ...