Tantra ihwo hutano hwakazara hwehuzivi hwakabva kuIndia zviuru zvemakore apfuura. Tantric zvepabonde chinhu chimwe chete chezvidzidziso zveTibetan Buddhists. Asi mumakumi matanhatu, apo yoga uye zvekuita zvepabonde zvakagadzirwa zvepamusoro muWest, sexric nericant neotantra yakaonekwa. Aya mazano ane hanya nekudzidza kwekuita kwemuviri, kuwanikwa kwemufaro waMwari kuburikidza nekukanganiswa kwemurume nemukadzi. Nokuda kweizvi, zvidzidzo zvekare zveSayenzi yesayenzi zvingaita sezviri pachena uye zvepabonde. Asi kana vakangoerekana vachiita sevanonyengera kwauri, iwe unogona kubuda zvakanaka. Iwe haufaniri kuzvitambidza nekudzidza nemudzidzisi asingabatsiri, zvinogona kungokuvadza chete. Mabhuku pamusoro penyaya yeTantra haana kubviswa zvakare, uye iwe unogona kudzidzira kumba, woga newaunoda.
Ushamwari hwakadaro hunosimuka munyaya yeTantra . Asi zvepabonde neboka neTantra hazvina kufanana. Hungu, panguva yechirongwa chekuda muimba uye kune vakaroorana vakasiyana, asi havasati vachinjana navo, asi vachiita hafu yavo. Mushure mezvose, ukama nemunhu waunoda uri pamusoro pezvose muTantra. MuNeotantra, ndezvechokwadi, zvose zvinobvira: zvose kushandiswa kwevamwe pamwe uye zvepabonde nevanhu vazhinji, asi izvi zvatova kusarudzwa kwemunhu wese. Kusamanikidza kune zvinhu zvakadaro hakuna munhu ane kodzero. Hapana nzvimbo yekunyadzisa nekunyengera muTantra. Kuita zvepabonde kweTibetan Buddhist hakurevi kungoita zvepabonde chete, asiwo kufanana kwemweya, mwoyo yevanoda. Nokudaro, kushungurudza mukati mavo kune nguva yakareba uye yenyama, haisi kutarisa kumativi ose emadzimai, asi kufukidza muviri wose. Kufambisa mune zvepabonde nekwenyama kunewo nguva, "nekunwa."
Vese avo vanoparadzira zvemhando dzisina kufanana dzepabonde nekuda kwedu - tantric - vanobvisa, nokuti chinhu chikuru pano hachisi chokusvika pamutambo wako, asi kufadza mumwe wako. Mukuwedzera, iyo yakareba murume ari mukati memukadzi, iyo inokosha zvikuru iyo inogona kubvumira kubhadharisa simba raanorasikirwa naro panguva yejjulation. Chirongwa chakadai chakadai chinogona kupera kubva maawa maviri kusvika gumi.
Iyo inogona kufanana nekuita masero , inosanganisira kutadza kunoshamisa, kupfutidzira muviri kana kunyange kutenderera. Asi chinhu chikuru chinoumba sexric tantric is full concentration on the partner. Zvechokwadi, munhu wepabonde naye muTantra ndiye huMwari huripo uyo iwe unopinda mune zvepabonde. Nenzira, neutric sex, huMwari hunofanirwa kuyemura, kuzvipa zvakakwana kuzvikudza uku uye kwete kwechipiri kwete kusava nechokwadi neanobva. Panguva yechirongwa chepabonde, vaviri vari vaviri vanobvisa matambudziko uye, kuti mazuva ano anokosha, zvikurukuru kuwedzera kuzviremekedza kune mumwe nemumwe. Kana iwe ukadzidza kuzadzisa kubatana kumwe chete nemumwe wako, muupenyu hwako pachava nekuderera kudarika uye kusagutsikana mubhedha, "kukuvadza" uye "godo" zvichapera, uye zvichazosimbiswa nekunzwa kwerudo rwekuda nekunzwisisa.
Mukuwedzera kune chikamu chepfungwa , sexric yekutiric ine simba rinoshamisa rekuporesa uye simba rokuporesa. Vanhu vanotsigira nzira iyi, vanenge vasingadi kudzokera kuchiremba. Pashure pezvose, vane nzira yavo yekurapa: inonakidza kudarika mahwendefa.
Chokutanga pane zvose, unoda kudzidza zvakanaka, kunzwa muviri wako uye muviri wewawakaroorana naye. Kuti uite izvi, iwe unogona kuita zvinonzwa, edza kunzwa zvinhu izvo chinhu chacho chakaitwa, kunhuhwirira - tsvaga maruva chaiwo kana kunhuwirira kwezvinonhuwira, uye pamakonti - teerera chimwe chiridzwa chimwe chete kubva kuimba yose. Izvi zvakaoma pakutanga, asi nekufamba kwenguva uchabudirira.
Mushure mekunge danho iri rapera, unogona kutanga chikamu chechikadzi chechikadzi. Iwe newawakaroorana naye muchada kusununguka zuva rimwe chete kune mumwe nemumwe. Hapanofanira kuva zvinhu zvakajeka kana mhere-mhere dzakapoteredza, uye kazhinji zviri nani kukanganwa pamusoro peTV kana muimba yemimhanzi mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro. Kunyangwe iwe unogona kusanganisira mimhanzi yaunobtrusive yekuzorora kana yakakurumbira ikozvino ikokurira manzwi emhuka dzesango. Panguva yekuita zvepabonde, haufaniri kutsauswa kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, yeuka: zvakakosha kuisa pfungwa kune mumwe wako, uye kwete pane zvepabonde.