Pros and Cons of Civil Marriage

Iko rudzi rwekuroorana kune vatsigiri vose nevashori. Zvinowanzoitikawo kuti kusabvumirana pakati pemapato kunoita kuti pave nehukama hukama. Kazhinji kacho izvi zvinowanzoitika: murume anoda kupa musikana zita rake uye "ring", asi iye chikamu chake anoti haasati agadzirira danho rakadaro. Kana zvisinei pane imwe nzira yakadaro: "Zvakanaka, vauraya" iwe unoda murume, asi haanzwisisi kuti sei ichi "chisina maturo" chichigadziriswa mupasipoti inodiwa, nokuti vatove vadanana. Izvo zvinoshamisa chaizvoizvo, apo zvigaro zvemativi ose maviri zvinopindirana. Asi ngativei kuedza kuzvirongedza zvisizvo zvose zvinobudirira uye zvakashata zvekuroorana kwevanhu, pamwe chete nekusimbisa hutano hwavo nehana.

Chokutanga uye, zvichida, chimwe chezvimwe zvipingamupinyi zvikuru, zvakataurwa nevashori vekuroorana kwevanhu - kusachengeteka kwepamutemo. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha. Kungoerekana kwafa, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero kana mumwe wevakagara naye uye, zvichida hauzovi nekodzero yeimba. Pasi pemutemo, ichaenda kune vakananga uye vakuru vehurumende. Zvechokwadi, unogona kuratidzira kuroorana kwevanhu. Chivimbiso chichagoverwa kurarama, vana vanowanikwa kana nhoroondo yekushandisa. Asi hazvisi nyore kuti aratidze pfungwa yekutanga. Anowanzotungamirira kumigumisiro yakadai sekufamba kwenguva kwepamutemo. Uye kunyange gweta rine ruzivo rwakakura haigone kugovana pfuma yakawanikwa panguva yekuroorana kwevanhu.

Kune rimwe divi, kugoverana kwezvivako zvepfuma hakusi nguva dzose kunokosha kune vanogara pamwe chete. Nokudaro, kana iwe usine chinangwa che "kutora" wako wakasarudzwa, saka kusakosha kwekutanga kwekuroorana kwevanhu kunofanira kusakutyisa. Munyaya yakanyanya, iwe unogona kugara uchinyora kuda.

Imwe dambudziko ndeyevo vana vanofanana. Maererano nehuwandu, vana vakaberekerwa munharaunda yevanhu, vanoberekwa vasati vasvika uye vasina simba. Ichokwadi ichi chinotsanangurwa nemapfungwa: amai, apo vanotora mwana wavo, pane dzimwe nguva vanotanga kufunga: "Uye kana murume wehurumende achingoerekana abuda?" Zvakaoma zvikuru kuva amai vasina kuroorwa nguva dzose.

Asi fungidzira kuti mwana akaberekwa akaine utano uye mhuri inorarama mukugara zvakanaka.
Chero zvazvingava, kuroorana kwevanhu kune imwe nyika ndiyo nzira yakakodzera kune avo vanoda kuedza manzwiro avo pasina kuva nevana pamwe chete.

Saka tinokwanisa kugumisa: zvizhinji zvezvinetso zvekuroorana kwevanhu - zvinogona kugadziriswa. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvakakosha kuswedera kumhinduro yezvinetso zvakafanana nekuziva, uye kwete kuti kubatsirana kune umwe wako kune mumwe. Sarudzo ndeyako.

Tatyana Martynova , kunyanya kune nzvimbo