Chii chaunofanira kuita kana Lovelace akava murume wako? Chaizvoizvo, zvakanakisisa kuti usabvumira izvi. Hazvina kugadzikana, mhepo, kutendeseka kwayo kunowedzera kune zero, asi chido chokukunda uye kubudirira, kuva mukutsvaga-nguva dzose, nenzira yakadaro isingawanzoiti, inotsigira. Nevarume vakadaro hazvisi nyore kwenguva yakareba kuti urambe uine hukama hwepedyo, uye kungofanana nekuzorora uye kungonzwa udiwa, unogona kukanganwa zvachose. Hungu, zviri nani kuti usaroora munhu akadaro.
Zvisinei, chii chaunofanira kuita kana iwe uchinge watova murudo uye watova nemba, kana kuti iwe wakarangarira unhu hwake mushure mechato (uye zvino zvinoitika), kazhinji - kana iwe unogona kutotaurira pamusoro pako: "hongu, murume wangu murume wevakadzi"?
Muchiitiko ichi, yeuka kuti ukama hwenguva refu nemurume akadaro hwakaoma kuchengetedza, asi zvinogoneka, kana iwe uchibatisana nemimwe mitemo.
Usaratidze murume wako, Lovelace, kuti iye ari kwauri - chiedza chete muhwindo, kunyanya pakutanga kwehukama. Kurukura neshamwari, enda kubasa uye kunyange kumutendera dzimwe nguva akukwikwidze, kukuyeuchidza kuti iwe uri munhu chaiye anoyemura uye anofadza. Iko pasina mhaka usapfutire - godo ibhi rakasimba-ine simba, zviri nyore kupfugama tsvimbo. Uye mushure mokunge kusuruvara kwegodo rake, zvakakomberedza mudiwa wacho nekucherechedza uye kutarisira, kukurukura naye nounyoro, kuratidza kuti unomuda sei.
Mukuwedzera, ramba uchiratidza murume wako-madzimai kuti unowana hutsva hwakanaka maari, sezvaunomudzidza. Ratidza unyoro hwake, simba rake nepfungwa, ipapo, unotungamirira sei unyanzvi hupfumi, bhizinesi rake acumen, kazhinji, taura zvakanyanyisa sekukwanisa kwekumurumbidza. Ingo usakanganwa kuti kukurudzira kunokosha chete kana paine mhosva - haufaniri kutaura nhema. Kunyange munhu anonyanya kufarira haatendi mukurumbidzwa kana iwe uchimupa, zvakarurama uye nguva dzose achikupa mubhadharo uye usingatauri mhino kuchitoro, uchati iwe unoyemura sei kukwanisa kwake kutungamirira imba. Asi kutya kuwedzeredza huri huri huno hwakanaka, kurumbidza murume wake, Lovelace, hazvidikanwi - kunzwa mashoko anofadza zuva roga roga, achaedza kuedza kutarisana navo. Zvisinei, kunyange pano pane ngozi yekudarika tambo. Kunzwawo kushingaira kurumbidzwa, vakadzi 'varume vanogona kusarudza kuti iye anofanirwa kuguma zviri nani pane kuva murume wako, nokuti iwe pachako unomurumbidza saizvozvo. Uye kuparadza munhu akadaro inzira yakananga, zvichida, iyo inonyanya kushamisa yehukama hwako-somuenzaniso, iye achakusiya iwe mberi kuti utsvake chinangwa chake chinowirirana naye-kune yakanaka kudaro, kana kungoshanduka kurudyi uye kuruboshwe, pasina penny kuisa manzwiro ako uye manzwiro.
Saka, rumbidza murume wako Lovelace, kumupa rumbidzo, usazvifungidzira kana ivo vari kunyanya, asi musamurumbidze; ramba rakanaka uye rinodikanwa kune vamwe varume, uye regai azvione (asi usashandure zvachose), iva munyoro, rudo uye kumuteerera, asi usakanganwa nezvezvawakagara uchifarira uye zvinokuvaraidza-uye zvino zvakaita sezvisingabviri - kuvaka imba yakasimba uye inofara ne Lovelace - chokwadi uchabudirira.