Kune zvakadaro zvekare zvechimiro chehukama hwehukama hwepabonde:
• zvinowanzodiwa - vanhu vanotaurirana, nokuti vanofarira pamwe chete, vakaita sekunakidzwa, kuzviita, kuzviita, nguva dzose vane chimwe chinhu chavanotaura;
• kuvimba - unogona kutaura chero chinhu chinouya mupfungwa dzako usingatyi kuti iwe haunzwisisi;
• Kuparadzanisa hupenyu - shamwari dzinopedza nguva yakawanda pamwe chete, asi dzine zvirongwa zvakasiyana zvehupenyu.
Ita maonero ose anoenderana neushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi here? Uye kusvikira rini? Ngationgororei zvakasiyana siyana.
Hope dzevana
Pamwe musikana wese aiva nemukomana wemukomana, waaifambidzana naye padivi zuva rose, achitamba achivanda uye achitsvaka, achikwira miti, kana kugara pachikoro chekuchikoro, achiita basa rechikoro pamwe chete uye achifamba-famba chikamu chechikoro panguva yekuzorora. Zvimwe zvinogona kuve zvakasiyana zvachose, asi muchechi yegoroke, kambani yemitambo kana chikoro - shamwari chaiyo yaunofunga iwe. Iwe waiva shamwari naye, hongu! Takatamba pamwe chete, taiseka, zvose zvakanga zvakafanana. Ndicho ushamwari chete here? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti mu 70% hweushamwari hwemucheche pakati pemurume nemukadzi pane kukokwe kwenyama, chete vana havanzwisisi izvi zvakadaro, asi zvinyanzvi ivo vanodanana, vanoda kushandisa nguva pamwe chete. Zvechokwadi, ushamwari hwevana vepedyo hwevana hunopinda muhukama hwehutano munguva yehucheche, uye izvi zvinogumisa hukama hwehukama, huchiri kuve hukama hwakakomba nezviuru zvekusanzwisisana uye kusawirirana pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Kana kukura kwakadaro kusingaiti, zvino vanodzivisa manzwiro ekukwezva zvepabonde uye nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare inogona kubuda. Chivande chakavanzika uye kunyanya kufambidzana nguva dzose yehukama hwakadaro. Uye zviitiko zvinogona kuchinja, sezvinoitwa mufirimu "Muchato wepamusoro weshamwari," apo musikana weshamwari anonzwisiswa semakwikwi. Uye izvi zvinowanzoitika, shure kwezvose, kwenguva yakareba achitaurirana nemunhu, tichiziva zvinodiwa nezvinodiwa, tinotanga kuzvitaura tisingazvizivi. Funga pamusoro pezvauchaita kana shamwari yako ichisarudza kuroora kana kuenda kune rimwe guta?
Iva pedyo
Muzviitiko makumi mashanu kubva pane zana muhukama hwehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi, mumwe munhu anonzwa zvakanyanya kune mumwe munhu kupfuura tsitsi, uye anotarisira mune ramangwana rehukama hwakakomba. Uye zvino, kusvikira shamwari (kana musikana) yasvika mupfungwa dzake, zvingave iri pedyo naye, pane imwe nguva inomutungamirira, uye panguva imwechete kutevera hupenyu hwake, kupa mazano, uye kwete nguva dzose dzakakodzera. Shamwari ichakurumidza kana kuti gare gare ichidzivisa iwe, nokuti ndiani anofarira kunzwa pasi pe "kapu"? Saka zviri nani kurega kuenda kune mamiriro acho ezvinhu, zvipe iwe uye shamwari yako rusununguko-saka achakurumidza kunzwisisa kuti kunze kwako iwe hapana.
Zvichida nhau?
Kuti unzwisise manzwiro aunoita pamusoro peshamwari yako yemurume, pindura mibvunzo shomanana: 1. Wakagadzirira kuvhura maziso ako kune vakawanda kunyange kukanganisa kukuru kweshamwari yako here? 2. Ko ukama hwenyu huchachinja kana maitiro ake ekunze ainge "asina kunaka"? 3. Kuziva kuti shamwari yako pane zuva rorudo, inonyora anonyora SMS-ki? Kana wakapindura nenzira yakanaka kune imwe yemibvunzo iyi, saka ushamwari hwako huri chido chekuita zvepabonde.
Energy Exchange
Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzepfungwa uye vanoita zvepabonde vanotiwo ushamwari pakati pemurume nemudzimai hausi hupenyu hwepanyika, nokuti chero zvakadaro tinokoshesa sechinhu chepabonde. Mumaminitsi ekutanga ekufambidzana nomumwe munhu anotarisa kune zvakabuda kunze kwemasikana emukadzi, anofunga kuti anonzwa uye anobata. Zvakaoma kudzivisa kukwezva, uye zvichida iwe uchakwanisa kudzivisa chido chete kwenguva. Pamwe chete chinhu chimwe chete chinoitika nevakanaka vakadzi. Uye, nenzira, hukama huri pakati pemurume nemudzimai ihwohwo hunoshandiswa kushandura simba, kunyange kana vose vanotora muhukama hwakadaro vachiti izvi zvingongova ushamwari. Asi vanoona zviri nyore kusimudzirwa mupfungwa. Inzwi rinomuka, matama anotendeuka rose, kune chiedza mumaziso evose, kuseka kunopararira - iyi ndiyo mitemo yezvakasikwa, hapana chinogona kuitwa pamusoro pacho. Nokudaro, nyanzvi mumunda wepfungwa dzinopikisa kuti nokukurumidza kana kuti humwe hukama huripo pakati pemurume nemukadzi hunopera muhukama hwepedyo. Uye vose vari vaviri vanonyatsonzwisisa izvi zvisingabviri kubva pamaminitsi okutanga ekuzivana, kunyange kana vasingabvumi ivo pachavo.
Nokubvumirana
Pane imwe inogona kuve yakasiyana-siyana yehukama hwepabonde. Uye, nenzira, iyo yakagadzikana ndeyekuti ivo vakange vatova vanoda, nekubvumirana pamwe chete vakapararira, asi havana kuda kumira kumakurukota ezvemweya kana kwebhizimisi. Ushamwari hwakadaro ndiyo yakatendeseka uye yakasununguka, hapana zvakavanzika kana mitambo pakati pevadzidzi. Ichokwadi, sezvo chikamu chako chechipiri chichatarisa ushamwari hwakadaro - iyi ndeimwe mubvunzo! Kuti anzwisise zvinokonzera ushamwari hwepabonde zvakasiyana-siyana hazvikwanisi kunyange shamwari. Uyu mutambo dzimwe nguva unofadza, dzimwe nguva unotyisa. Sarudzo ndeyako!