Nzira yekuziva sei kuti mudiwa haazomborambana?

Nhamba huru yemafungiro nemafungiro akasiyana-siyana anoitika zuva rega rega mumusoro wemukadzi uyo akasika hukama hwe rudo nemurume akaroorwa. Asi chinonyanya kukosha pakati pavo ndechekuti: "Achasiya mudzimai wake kwandiri here?" Uye "Ndinofungidzira kuti haazosiyi mhuri yake, kunyange kana iye ari nani neni." Mudzimai akadaro anonyatsonzwisisa izvi pane dambudziko romumwe munhu, mufaro wega wega haugoni kuvakwa uye kuti kune vazhinji vakakodzera varume vasina kuroorwa. Zvisinei, anoenderera mberi achitenda, tariro uye kumirira "kubatikana" kwake kwakasimba.


Ngatiedzei kuongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu kubva muupenyu.

"Anoita kunge ari kutonhora kwandiri shure kwezuva!" Uyu mufambiro wemurume unotsanangurwa nechokwadi chokuti mumamiriro ezvinhu akaenzana emhuri haana hutano hwakakwana. Ichi chinoshaya anogadzira nerubatsiro rwako. Kuti uratidze izvi, unofanidza kuenzanisa nhamba yefonera uye SMS kubva kune wako wakasanangurwa kusvika kumusangano uye zuva mushure memusangano. Mushure memusangano, kazhinji wakajeka uye uzere nerudo, mharidzo inotsiviwa nemashoko mashomanana ezuva rimwe nerimwe, kana kunyange kunyange zvachose kusipo. Munhu akadaro anoda kusangana newe apo paanenge achida uye zvirokwazvo haanzwi newe. Iwe unongova imwewo yevaraidzo kwaari muhupenyu hunotyisa, humwe.

Zvirongwa zvake zvemangwana rakasimba . Mudiwa wako pazororo rinotevera akaronga rwendo rwekushanyira kune dzimwe nyika, asi pane chimwe chikonzero chete nemhuri yake. Saka, haafungi nezveramangwana risina iye, uye iwe hauna nzvimbo mauri.

Oo, taciturn iye akadini! Mashoko ako ane rudo nemashoko iwe uri kuedza kuratidza kune waunoda, iye sekuti haanzwi kana kusazvidza zvachose. Zvechokwadi, chero mukadzi anoda kunzwa kubva kumurume kuti ndiye akanaka pane zvose uye ane tsitsi, asi kazhinji ndiwo mazwi akaomeswa mumutauro "Kwazvino, vadiwa, zvose zvakanga zvakanaka." Zvichida, hurukuro dzinoratidzika dzakavanzika kubva kwauri mumweya wake, asi kusava nechokwadi kuti anokuda zvikuru kupfuura mhuri yake inomutyisa. Anonzwisisa zvakakwana kuti kana akazvibvumira kubvuma kuti anokuda zvakanyanya, iwe unomukumanikidza, kumumanikidza kusiya mhuri yake iwe. Kune izvi zvinoitika zvezviitiko iye haana zvachose akagadzirira.

"Haana hanya kwandiri ." Zvechokwadi, iwe wakacherechedza kuti panguva ipi yepabonde mumwe wako anoshandisa zvakawanda zvokukutarisira iwe mazwi: "Unofarira here kana kuti? Ndezvipi zviri nani uye zviripi zviri nani? "Asi muhupenyu humwe, haafariri zvikuru muupenyu hwako, hazvifungi kuti zvakakodzera kupedza nguva pahurukuro isina chinhu. Haana hanya nehutano hwako, kana iwe uri kurwara kana kuti uzvipa mharidzo yeSMS shoma, uchiziva kuti iwe wakanga uine zuva rakaoma kwazvo.

"Ndiri chivande chake chikuru . " Ungada sei kupedza manheru mune imwe resitorendi kana kuenda kumafirimu. Asi nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, chero nguva iwe uchimukoka kumarudzi, anowana chikonzero. Zvingaita sokuti hapana chakaipa, kana iwe uchifamba munzira dzomuguta. Asi wako wakasarudzwa anoenderera mberi asingateereri zvikumbiro zvako zvekushandisa nguva kunze kweimba yako. Saka, iyi ndiyo chikonzero chokufunga kuti unodiwa sei kwaari.

Kufarira kwake kwauri hakugadzikani . Kushanya kwake kwauri kunoitika kune imwe nguva periodicity. Kuti iwe unopedza pamwechete anenge mazuva ose, zvino kamwe-kamwe inonyangarika kwenguva yakareba. Chikonzero chiri muukama hwake nemudzimai wake. Apo hukama hwavo huchaparara, vanotsvaka nyaradzo mukati mako. Asi kana zvose zviri maererano nemudzimai, zvino panguva ino haafungi pamusoro pako uye hakukwanisi kurambana.

Iwe wakagara kwenguva yakareba sei? Mwedzi mitatu, gore kana chechina yezana remakore? Zvidzidzo zvevepfungwa dzepfungwa zvinoratidza kuti kune nguva mbiri mushure mokunge munhu achisarudza kuti zvakakosha kubvisa ukama nakadzikadzi wake. Iyi mwedzi mitatu uye 1 gore. Mumwedzi mitatu yekutanga, murume uyu chete munyaya iyo anosarudza kusiya mudzimai wake kuna tenzikadzi wake, kana ukama hwemhuri huri hwakanaka. Zvisinei, kana mhuri yake iine rusununguko, ipapo rudo rwako runogona kudhonza, asi kwegore chete. Kunyange zvakadaro, pazororo anosiya nemhuri yake, uye kwete newe. Saka, inguva yokuti iwe uparadze ukama nemunhu uyu, nokuti gore rinouya pachava nekafanana yezviitiko zvezviitiko.

Zvose izvi inguva yekufungisisa kana zvakakosha kuti urambe uine ukama nemunhu asingafungi nezvehupenyu husina mhuri yake. Mushure mezvose, iwe unongorasikirwa nehuduku hwako, kwete kuwana chero chinhu. Muhupenyu, pane zviitiko apo mhuri dzakaparadzana apo murume akaenda kuna tenzikadzi wake. Zvichida, iyi michato yakatanga kurongwa kuti ikundike nekuda kwezvimwe zvinokonzera zvikonzero. Mhuri kubatana kwevanhu vaviri vane rudo avo vakamboita chisarudzo chakanaka kuti vashandise hupenyu hwavo hwose pamwechete!