Nzira yekuteerera sei mwana, kana ukashanda?

Kubvira pakuberekwa chaiyo mwana ane amai vake vakakomberedza awa. Asi pano zororo rekuberekwa rinoguma, inguva yaunoenda kubasa, uye mwana anotumirwa kuchikoro chechikoro. Zvinotora nguva, uye iwe unotanga kuona kuti haukurukurirane nemwana. Kumutora kumba kubva kuchikoro chengoro, vauye utange kuita mabasa epamba, uye hapana nguva yakasara yefari yemanheru.


Pakarepo unoshanyira nemafungiro akasiyana-siyana ayo mwana asina hanya newe. Ngatitarise mamiriro ezvinhu aya nemaziso omwana.Pakutanga, mai vangu vakatamba uye vakamupa zuva rose, uye iye zvino ari kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, achiita kuti ndiende kuchikoro chekutamba uye ndichitamba nevanhu vasingazivikanwe. Kana imwe nguva yapfuura mwana aive muimba iyo aive tenzi chaiye, iye zvino muchechi yekorogi anofanirwa kugovana ma teyi, funga nezvevamwe vanhu vanofarira.

Mune vasobratnaya mamiriro ezvinhu - kushandiswa kwemabasa uye mabasa epamba. Hapana nguva, hapana simba rokutamba nemwana. Chinhu chete chaunogona kuita ndomutengesa mamwe mapikicha, achitarisira kuti iye zvino ane chimwe chinhu chaanofanira kuita. Ungabuda sei munharaunda yakaipa uye utange nguva yose?

Mutemo unonyanya kukosha ndeyekuti urege kuzvipa mhosva. Mwana wako achakutenda nokuti uri muenzaniso kune vamwe, kuitira vana kuti varatidze zvakaitwa nevabereki vavo. Mukuwedzera, kufamba-famba mberi kwemakanhi emabasa ndiyo nzira yekubudirira uye yakawanda mari. Kana iwe uchizvipa mhosva iwe nekuda kwekushanda zvakawanda, iwe unofanira kubva uchinzwisisa kuti nei izvi zvose zvaitwa. Chikoro chakanakisisa, vadzidzisi vezvidzidzo, maoji akanaka uye midziyo inobvumira mwana wako kuti afare.

Mabasa ako epamba uyewo chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu Kana ukasakosha kubika kudya kana kuchenesa, uye zuva rakatevera iwe uchafanira kuita kaviri zvakanyanya, zvimwe iwe unenge wakaneta kaviri zvakare. Iva nechokwadi chekugovana basa nebasa, usatora basa iri riripo. Kana usina nguva, taura nevanotungamira nezvekuderedza kuwanda kwemabasa. Kana uchinge wapinda mumba mako, siya zvose zvinetso zvako uye zvinetseka shure, usavhiringidza kutsamwa uye kuneta kwevaya vanokupoteredza.

Kana zvatove zvawanikwa kuti hazvigoneki kubvisa mabasa epamba uye kubasa, nei kuberekwa kwevana kuchikanganiswa? Rega mumitambo yako yezuva nezuva ichave nemitambo nemwana, kukurukurirana, nhau uye nharo dzinonakidza. Iwe hauneta nechecheche wako, saka panguva ino unogona kuzorora.

Kuti utsanangurire mwana kuti mitambo ichaitika sei, ingoita kuti unofara. Taura kuti musi weChitatu iwe uchaona cartoon yako yaunoda kana kikino, chero chii chinoitika. Mumapera evhiki iwe uchafamba kumugwagwa panguva yakadai uye zuva rimwe nerimwe kwehafu yenguva kana awa kutamba nayo. Mwana wacho achangotanga kushandiswa pachokwadi chokuti zvinhu zvose zvinoitika maererano neurongwa, zvicharega kukutambudza pane mamwe mazuva. Iva nechokwadi chokuti undiudze zvakadzama zvaunoita kubasa, zvaunofunga, uye nei basa rako richibatsira. Regai mwana anzwisise kuti une basa rinokosha kwazvo, iro rinobatsira uye rinonakidzwa navanhu, uye panguva imwechete rinoshandiswa kumabasa ako. Kana uine mukana akadaro, tora pamwe newe kuti ushande, ingotsanangura mitemo yekufambisa.

Usambofa unyengedzera mwana wako, uye kana iwe uchiwedzera kuputsa zvipikirwa. Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare iye achangosiya kukutenda iwe. Kana iwe usingadi kuenda kuchikisikiti, saka iwe unokanganisa. Kana zvisina kudaro, mafungiro ako akaipa achawedzerwa kumwana. Teerera kune zvose zvaanotaura. Vakawanda vanokanganisa kutaura kuti mwana haana matambudziko, anoenda kuchikoro chechikoro. Nditendei, chikoro uye iwe nokuda kwake - nyika yose, kana iwe usingamuteereri iye zvino, ipapo acharamba achiudza. Bvunza kuti shamwari dzake dzakadini, iye waanoda, izvo mudzidzisi akati. Usava nehanya kwete chete, asi zvechokwadi, kuti udzidze hupenyu hwomwana wako kubva kumativi ose. Akapedza zuva rose kubva kumba uye iwe, iye zvechokwadi anoda kukuudza chimwe chinhu.

Usatora mutauri wekutaurirana iwe pachako uchiona TV.Kana iwe ukatanga kuzviita ikozvino, mumakore mashoma mwana achange achisarudza TV, asi asingatauri naamai vake. Kunyange kana iwe uchida chaizvo mwana, angave asingazivi nezvazvo. Taura kakawanda nezvekuti iwe voprilo sei nemwanasikana akachenjera kana mwanakomana-mukomana, rumbidza mwana wako nguva dzose.

Kana iwe uchida chaizvo, iwe unogona kugadzirisa kushamwaridzana kwekunetseka mupfungwa, mubairo waro uchava rudo rukuru uye kutendana pamwe.