Uye pano isu tiri zuva rimwe nerimwe takagara mumakakatanwa uye masangano evanhu mumutariro wekusangana iye waunogona kugovana manzwiro ako. Uye zvino, zvinoratidzika, iwe wakazviwana (kunyanya, iwe unofunga zvakadaro panguva ino), zuva nezuva, unotarisa paanoonekwa paIndaneti uye achimirira, uye kamwe kamwe chishamiso chichaitika uye iye achakunyorera iwe pachako. Asi nditende ini, zvishamiso hazviwanzoitiki. Saka, usamirira "gungwa remamiriro ekunze" uye utange kuzviita. Ingomunyorera iye kutanga. Ngatifunge pamwechete kuti tingatanga sei kukurukura nemurume paInternet?
Kutanga, unofanira kunyatsoisa pamberi pako iwe unoda kubva pane chawakasarudza. Pasina izvi, haugone kuita zvakajeka, kutungamirirwa chete nekuti iwe unofarira. Tsitsi dzakasiyana. Somuenzaniso, anogona kukuda iwe sewe shamwari, munyaya iyi, mazano ehondo aya akasiyana zvachose. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kupikisa manzwiro ekuvanzwira tsitsi neshungu yekukwezva kumurume, kana zvisina kudaro kungave kusina kunzwisisana pakati pako kusingabatsiri kukubatsira kuti utaure zvakare. Saka, sei kutanga kukurukura nemurume paInternet? Yeuka chero hutano hwekutanga, kana huri hwechokwadi kana huri hupenyu hwechokwadi, hunofanira kunge hwakavakirwa pane imwe chirongwa chakavakwa zvakajeka: kusimbisa hukama, kutaura pamusoro pako, mune mamwe mazwi "mharidzo pachedu," uye, zvakananga, kukurukurirana pachako nenzira yekukurukurirana nemagumo pamusoro penguva yemberi yehukama hwako (semuenzaniso, kusangana mumoyo chaiwo).
Nhanho yechipiri iwe unoda kutanga kugarisana ndeyekuunganidza mashoko pamusoro pemurume uyu. Prostudiruy kubva ku "A kusvika kuZ" yemibvunzo yake uye mapikicha e-albhamu pamasangano evanhu (VKontakte, Classmates, FaceBook, mavhesi akasiyana aanogara), ona kana une shamwari dzakawanda dzinogona kukubatsira kumudzidza zvakanakisisa sezvingaita. Pamifananidzo, cherechedza kuti anoshandisa sei nguva yake yekusununguka, zvipi zvidzidzo zvaanoshanyira, angave ari kushanda pachake. Izvi zvichakubatsira kuti udzidze zvakawanda maererano nekufarira kwake, zvinonakidza, mimhanzi inonyanya kufarira, mafirimu, nezvimwe. Nenzira, zvinogona kuitika kuti iwe unofarira mune chimwe chinhu, uye ichi chave chiri chekuwedzera, uye uchiziva zvakanyanyisa zvingava nyore kwazvo kwauri kuti uite ushamwari naye. Uye nenzira, uzadza mibvunzo yako zvakanyanyisa, iyo ingadai iri mukomana zvakare aiva nemafungiro pamusoro paani waanotaura naye. Enda pamusoro pekombiyuta yako photo album, shandisa mifananidzo yako yakanakisisa, zvichida mumakona akasiyana uye nzvimbo dzakasiyana dzawakambove, kuti aizoona kuti iwe uri munhu anoita zvepabonde. Mifananidzo yako pachako inofanira kuva yakajeka, uko chiso chako chiri pachena uye zvakajeka kuonekwa. Kana uine maziso akanaka, bvudzi, masiponji, simbisa izvi mumifananidzo yako.
Pakuvamba kwekukurukurirana nemutemo: "Baba! Iwe uri sei? ". Nenzira, imwezve "kuwedzera" ndeyekuti varume, sekutonga, vane mikana yekutaura nevasikana, saka tanga hurukuro yenyu nemashoko asingatauri, zvachose, kwete kukosha. Zvakanaka, kana iwe, chokwadi, unoda zvinhu kamwechete, zvino nyora kwaari chimwe chinhu se "Nhai! iwe unotarisa sei izvozvo kuti uzive musikana akanaka uye asina kusurukirwa! "Kana, somuenzaniso," hello, uye iwe haugone kuudza ... ", uye zvino iwe fungiro yako. Mhinduro yake ichakuudza iwe kuti uite sei naye zvakare.
Uye heuno kuonana kwako kwekutanga kwakaitika. Usapotsa chokwadi chokuti iwe watanga kutaurirana nemunhu uyu, iwe, zvichida, iwe pachako pane imwe nzvimbo mumvura yakadzika ichanyadziswa, achitarisira chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose. Asi usakanganwa kuti vanhu vakanaka havakwanisi, saka regai kurega pakarepo. Zvichida muhupenyu chaihwo haasi zvakadaro. Asi zvisinei kuti zvaive sei, mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, usamanikidzire pasina mubvunzo, zvive iwe pachako, usingaiti kumunyengedza, pamwe, pindura mibvunzo yese seyo (usazotanga kukurukurirana nekunyengera, nokuti nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare ichava chokwadi). Muratidze kuti iwe unofarira, iwe unoda kutaura naye sei, zvinofadza sei. Taura chimwe chinhu chinonakidza pamusoro pako, zvaunofarira, shamwari (nhau kubva muupenyu hwavo kana hupenyu hwako), ita chifananidzo chako mumusoro. Zvechokwadi, hazvina kukodzera kutaura pamusoro pako, zvaanoda kuziva, iye achazvibvunza. Edza kupindura mibvunzo yake yose pasina kusiya mhinduro, uye usazeza kumubvunza kuti chii chaunofarira iwe. Uye usakanganwa kusiya zvimwe ruzivo rwemusangano muupenyu chaihwo. Edza kuseka, somuenzaniso, kurasira zvinyorwa zveanecdotes kana zvinonakidza. Ndinofunga panguva ino iwe uchange uine maonero akawedzerwa. Uye iwe unonzwisisa kuti munhu akadini akagara kune rimwe divi rekuongorora. Zvino ruzivo rwako pamusoro pake ruchauya kuzokubatsira, rawakabvisa kubva kumibvunzo yake. Kuti titsigire hurukuro, isu takakurukura kukurukura nezvefirimu, bhuku (zvose mukati mehutano hwezvaanoda), kana iwe uchinzwira tsitsi, hazvizove zvisingakoshi kuti ataure izvi. Edza kubvunza zvaanofunga zvakanyanya, iwe unogona kukakavadzana pamusoro pechinhu chakanaka. Kuiswa kwekubatana uye kuonekwa kwekutanga pazera iri kwakapedzwa. Usapfugamira tsvimbo yekukurukurirana, rimwe zuva mashoko akawanda, zvakawandisa. Usakanganwa kuti chero kukurukurirana kunofanira kupedzerwa (mupfungwa yakanaka yeshoko), ndinokutendai, nokuda kwekukurukurirana uye mazano, sezvo zvingava zvakanaka kuti urambe uchidaro mune ramangwana.
Mumazuva mashomanana, sezvo iwe uchifambisa hurukuro yako, unogona kutengesa nhamba dzefoni. Uye pakuguma, kana asina kutotanga kuita kudaro, akamunyengeterera zvinyoronyoro kuti asangane muupenyu chaihwo. Ndinofunga nenguva iyoyo iwe unenge watoziva kuti iwe unobatana zvakadini pamwe chete. Uye usakanganwa chokwadi chokuti kuonekwa chinhu chinyengeri, saka usatungamirazve zvakare pamufananidzo wakanaka.