Nzira yekupikoshesa zuva rekuberekwa kwemwana pamba, kuitira kuti zuva iri risakanganwika kwaari? Batsira mwana wako kuti ave mucherechedzo wekuzvarwa kwake, ipapo iye achayeuka nhasi, uye nhasi zuva rino richava rake. Usatya kutinhira uye ruzha rwemasikati manheru, edza kuita kuti hovha ifare uye inofara. Pane mazano akawanda anobatsira pamusoro pekugadzirira zuva rekuzvarwa kwako uye kuita zororo kwaari uye neshamwari dzake.
Tanga nekugadzirira kwezuva rako rekuberekwa kwevhiki mbiri. Munguva ino, iwe uchava nenguva yekutaura nevana vezita revakashamisika shamwari. Regai ataure kana ari varume kubva kumativi ose mudivi kana kirasi yose - saka iwe unogona kungwarira kumutsanangurira kuhuwandu hwevakashanyira, zvichibva pabhadharo yemhuri uye ukuru hweimba yako. Mushure mekusarudza nevashanyi, sarudza zuva rekupemberera - zvinonzwisisika kupa mwana wako kuti apemberere zuva rezororo pamusi wevhiki, kana kamwe kamwe zuva rekuberekwa rakawira pamusi wevhiki. Edza kujekesa kuti shamwari dzose dzepedyo dzinogona kuuya nhasi. Zvakanaka, kana iwe ukakoka vana vane postcard kana kutaura, iwe nemwana wako, kuratidza kuti mutambo uchaitika kwenguva yakareba sei. Zvichava zvakanaka kune vabereki vevakasikwa vakakokwa - saka vanogona kuzvisimudza kana kumirira kwekanguva. Tumira mikumbiro mberi: Mazuva mana kusvika kwemazuva manomwe isati yasvika "yepamutemo" yekuzvarwa. Pinda kero yako uye nhamba yefoni muchikumbiro. Mwana wako pasina mubvunzo anofarira kuedza nekuita makadhi ekukoka, uye shamwari dzake dzichava nehanya zvakafanana pakuzviwana.
Kupemberera zuva rekuberekwa kwemwana kumba kumba kunonakidza, edza kugadzira hofisi yakasvibirira - kurisa chipinda nemabhola, ribhoni, uta, tora chikadhi "Welcome to the Birthday!". Shandisa imwe nzira iri nani pane zvakagadzirwa. Semuenzaniso, bhou rebhuruu rinochekwa kubva pabhuruu refu refu, bvisa maruva ebhuruu, sungirira gara. Rega ndiro dzaunogadzirira dzive nemazita akanaka. Kana kuti nyora pamapuranga emabiko, kana vana vachigona kuverenga.
Kuita kuti vana vanzwe vakasununguka, vasunungure nzvimbo munzvimbo yekuseka. Usakanganwa kuti zvose izvo mwana wako akajairika - kusasangana nekare rekare kana kuzarura kabhodhi nekriststal - vamwe vana vanogona kunge vasina kuziva nezvezvo uye pakukwirira kwemufaro chete hausi kuona zvinhu zvakadaro. Rongedza tafura kuitira kuti ive yakawanda zvakakwana, ita nzvimbo yemadziro kuitira kuti iwe ugone kutamisa tafura, uchigadzirira nzvimbo yemitambo.
Mwana wako anonyanya kukosha, kuitira kuti mai vangu vatarise zvakanaka, saka fungisisa nezvechitarisiko chako zvisati zvaitika. Zvipe iwe pfupa mushure mekugadzirira kwose uye kwehafu yenguva yekuti kugamuchirwa kwevaeni zviuye newe iwe nomwana wako.
Paunosangana nevaenzi zvinowanzova nemutangi wemhemberero, edza kupa vana manzwiro ekuvimba - ndiudzei kuti vanoita sei zvakanaka mazuva ano, chengetedza chimwe chinhu pakuonekwa kwavo. Vagadzirire vhudzi rako kana mbatya kana zvichidiwa, vabatsire kuvhundusa uye kuratidza kuti girazi iripi. Kana iwe uchipemberera zuva rekuzvarwa kwemwanasikana wako, edza kugovera nzvimbo kana nzvimbo yekupfekedza shamwari dzake.
Gamuchira vaenzi vakatoenda nematayari emwana, asi vamwe vachiunganidza. Edza kusagara pasi patafura, usabata vana mberi, kana zvichibvira, ufukidze ndiro ne napkins. Ivhara musuo mukicheni, usarega kushamisika kwakagadzirwa mumaziso. Tanga kutamba mitambo nevana, apo vazhinji vevakashanyi vatove mukereke, ichabatsira vana kuti vave nani uye vashandurane, nevasingazivi-kuti vave shamwari. Kune mimwe mitambo yekuziva mumwe nomumwe, iyo inonyanya kukosha kuvana vaduku vanonzwa vanonyanya kuva nechivimbo pakati paviri. Semuenzaniso, mutambo uyu: cheka mwoyo kubva pamapepa akasiyana akasiyana-siyana uye uvacheke hafu, peta makumi mana muhomwe uye musanganise, inokurudzira vana kuti vabudise chikamu chimwe uye vowana hafu yavo. Kana nhamba yevashanyi isinganzwisisiki, bvisa mwoyo mumwe muzvikamu zvitatu. Imwe mitambo yakaswedera: gadzirai urefu hwakafanana hwetambo dzakasiyana-siyana, anenge mamita maviri, udziparadzire pasi, fonganisa, mumwe nomumwe ngaatore kuguma kwetambo chero ipi zvayo uye awane shamwari yake padambo.
Uye saka, vose vakakokwa muunganidzwa - inguva yekuenda tafura! Iva wakagadzirira, kuti chimwe chinhu chichanyatsodururira uye kuputsika, kuchengetwa nehuwandu hunokosha hwehuputi. Gadzirira chikafu chisingagoni kunzwira tsitsi kuputsa, kungo-kurasikirwa, shandisa magirasi akadzikama. Isa zvinhu zvose nenzira iyo munhu wese anogona kusvika. Uye iri pakati petafura, chokwadi, ronga gake nemakandulo. Iwe unogona kunetseka pamusoro pekukohwa kuri kuuya mberi, saka gadzirira mapee akadaro, makiki nekeke zvisinganyanyi kuwanda. Usaedza kusasimudza vana zvisina kufanira nekunakidzwa kwezvokudya zvavo, nhamba yemwoyo pane keke, shandisa kamuki shoma. Gadzira mapee uye zvingwa muzvidimbu zviduku kuitira kuti zvive nyore kutora. Sandwiches inofanirawo kuva duku muhukuru. Rega uwane zvinwiwa zvakakwana. Iwe unogona kuita sirasi kana kungomutsa jam nemvura, asi iva nechokwadi chokuti zvinwiwa hazvina kutapira. Paunenge uchipisa yei, pakarepo funga kuti zvinotora mvura yakawanda kupisa. Iva newaini inotonhorera mvura yakabikwa, kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuderedza tiyi inopisa.
Mushure mokunge "mutambo" wasvika pakuguma, kumbirai vaenzi kuti vazvigadzirire: kuvhara vhudzi ravo, kugeza maoko avo. Edza kubvisa pakarepo kubva patafura, zvinosanganisira vaduku vanobatsira. Gadzirira masks kana musoro kuti uwedzere kunakidza, iyo inogona kutambidzwa pakati pevana mukukunda kutora-winow mu "chikamu chechipiri" chezororo rako. Pamusoro pechinhu chimwe nechimwe, tumira nhamba, ita makadhi akakodzera pamwe nhamba. Masikisi uye hati dzivanze kubva pameso evana, somuenzaniso, kuvadzikidza nechekecheche. Isa makadhi ari patafura pasi pasi, kuvanza nhamba, kana kuisa mumudziyo. Kushandisa kadhi, mumwe nomumwe mubati wemutambo anowana mubairo wake - mask kana chikwata. Funga nezvemitambo umo vatatu vatokutanga vanogona kupiwa mubayiro nemikomborero, asi edza kusaita kuti mitambo ive kutsvaka zvipo. Kuti uite izvi, dzimwe mimwe mitambo nemikomborero neavo vasina mukundi. Zvikomborero zvinogona kunzwa mapeni, mapenseri, mapeni, puzzles, mirati, badges, masoja nezvimwe zvipo.
Panguva yekupemberera zuva rekuzvarwa kwemwana pamba, edza kuterera kune umwe musikana muduku, usatora mumwe munhu kunyanya. Kana mumwe wevana asingakurumidze kubatana nekambani uye ari kugara pakona, usamanikidze pane kukokwa, shandisa dzimwe mikana, somuenzaniso, kupa kukubatsira kuti uunze chimwe chinhu patafura kana kutamisa zvigaro. Tungamira vashanyi vashoma mazita, vadzivisa kubata kwakadaro navo se "vana." Kana iwe ukati: "Vana, ikozvino tichava nemutambo unofadza," funga kuti hakuna munhu akakuzvinzwa, uye iwe uchawana mukurumbira, wakafanana neComrade Dynin mumusasa weapiyona. Kana pane ruzha rukuru muimba yako, saka hovha yakanga iri kubudirira. Kana nguva yevana iri kusvika makore gumi nemaviri, zvino gadzirira pane zvaunoda kupindira kuitira kuti vana vasaomira mukufungisisa, vasingazivi zvokuita.
Zvinokurudzirwa kusarudza mitambo yaunoziva nayo, saka haufaniri kushandura zvakare. Edza kushandura mitambo inofambisa, apo iwe unogona kushambidzika uye kuita runyararo nemadhora emitambo yakanyarara, kwaunogona kuratidza unyanzvi hwako uye unyanzvi. Kuchinja pakati pemakwikwi, vana havazokwanisi kuderedza kana "kurara". Usakanganwa kutsanangurira mitemo zvakadzama musati mutezo mumwe nomumwe. Tora chikamu mumutambo semutungamiri kana semubatanidzwa, asi usakanganwa kuti iwe haugoni kuumba zvakanakira tende rauri kutamba
Kazhinji vana vari pasi pezera remakore gumi nemaviri, maawa 4-5 ekunakidza zvakakwana. Uye kunyange vachizokukurudzira kuti uwedzere nguva, usapinda! Kana nguva yacho ichienda kusvika pakuvhara, tanga kugadzirira vana kuti nguva inouya-kusvika-iyo, iyo imwe neimwe yavo ichatarisira kumba. Pakupera kwemazororo, kupa zviyeuchidzo nenzira yemakango, somuenzaniso, iva nechokwadi chokuti ivo vakafanana. Kana iwe unogona kugovana navo muzviyeuchidzo zvevarume nevasikana. Isa pakakanganwa "trophies" iwe unogona kuita mune zvikwama zvepa cellophane. Usakanganwa kuonga vose vashanyi vashanyi nekuda kwekuuya kuzopemberera zuva rekuberekwa kwevana vako kumba uye kukwazisa mukomana wekuzvarwa, uye kuratidza tariro yekusangana kwekutanga navo.