Usazviisa kune imwe pfungwa imwe chete kana nzira chaiyo yekusangana nevanhu vatsva. Kuita shamwari dzakawanda hakusi kwakaoma sezvinogona kuonekwa pakutanga. Saka ungaita sei shamwari dzakawanda? Edza nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekufambidzana panguva imwe chete:
- Enda kumitambo yakasiyana-siyana yemitambo, enda kumitambo, kuratidzira, makontikoni, enda kumakamuri ekuverenga, masangano evanhu vose, chengetai mafundo kune zvaunofarira.
- Iva nemuzvipiri mune sangano kune vechidiki. Kazhinji, hukama hwakasimba hwehukama hunotangira mukushandira pamwe. Mukuwedzera, iwe uchava nemukana chaiwo wekuziva vanhu vane zvimwe zvinodiwa.
- Iva nhengo yeimwe chikwata (kana uchida, maverengi) waunoda. Nokudaro, uchava neshamwari dzakawanda itsva.
- Wana shamwari kana musikana, uye ipapo iwe uchava nemukana wekuziva shamwari dzako, uye naizvozvo denderedzwa yevako shamwari ichawedzera zvikuru
- Nguva nenguva kuenda kumapato, pane mukana chaiwo wekuita shamwari.
- Iva nemapato akasiyana iwe pachako.
- Kana uri kudzidza ku yunivhesiti, enda iwe, somuenzaniso, mutungamiriri weboka rako kana kuti mukuru weHarare Council.
- Usakanganwa Indaneti.
Uyewo yeuka kwawakasangana nako, tarisa pepanhau uye uone kuti zviitiko zvakarongwa muguta rako, uye tora chikamu pane chinonyanya kufadza iwe! Iko unogona kuita shamwari dzakawanda.
Usakanganwa kuti vamwe vanhu vane mafaro akawanda kwemaawa akawanda "vanogara" muhurukuro, saka mukuzara nzira chaiyo uye inobudirira yekuziva kana kuti, zvishoma, kwechinguva kubvisa kusurukirwa kunodzvinyirira. Iwe uchavewo nemukana wekusarudza maforamu anofarira, kugovera maonero ako, uye, pakuguma, uzive uye uite shamwari dzakawanda!
Chii chaunoda kuti utange hurukuro? Zvakanaka, nezvinodiwa kuti utange kukurukura:
1. Chokutanga pane zvose, kunyemwerera uye mafungiro akanaka. Paunenge uchinyemwerera chiso chako, vanhu vanofunga kuti iwe uri nyore kutaura naye uye munhu ane ushamwari.
2. Nzira yekutanga yekugadzirisa ukama nemunhu ndeyekureva chimwe chinhu chakanakidza pakero yake kana kungoita rumbidzo.
3. Bvunza shamwari dzako itsva nezvehupenyu hwavo, zvinokuvaraidza, zvishuvo, zvinokuvaraidza, kwavanoshandisa / kurarama, nezvimwe.
4. Pakukurukurirana iwe haufaniri kunge wakanyarara. Kana mumwe munhu akashanda kwauri, iva nechokwadi chekupindura, zvichida muzwi rejocular, kuti uise shamwari yako kwaari.
5. Kana iwe uri kugara mukomana wechidiki, edza kushamwaridzana neboka revechidiki (zvisizvo, kukumbira kubvumirana kwavo mberi). Kana kana iwe uchingosangana nomumwe munhu, unogona kumukumbira kuti abatane newe mune cafe (kana kuenda kune firimu, nezvimwewo)
6. Tumirai shamwari shoma kune shamwari dzenyu itsva ne-mail, uye ona kana vachipindura kana kwete.
7. Ramba uchitaura nevatsva vanoziva mumutambo kana ICQ. Nenzira, unogonawo kuita shamwari dzakawanda ikoko.
8. Kana pane mukana iwoyo, ipai shamwari dzenyu itsva rubatsiro rwavo munyaya ipi.
9. Zviri nani kuti urege kudarika shamwari dzako nemafoni ako nguva dzose uye mharidzo. Usakanganwa kuti hapana munhu anofarira paanotanga "kutora" nguva dzose nekufonera.
10. Kumbirai shamwari itsva kuti mufambe zvishoma mumugwagwa, tarisa kumahwindo ezvitoro kana zvimwe zvinhu!
Ndinotenda, kuita shamwari dzakawanda chaizvoizvo zviri nyore. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuva noushamwari uye munhu akazaruka, uye ipapo vanhu vachasvika kwauri.