Kurwisana kunomuka nguva nenguva mumhuri imwe neimwe. Nzira yekudzivisa nayo kana kugadzirisa zvakarurama, nyaya ino ichataura.
Mumhuri chero ipi zvayo, nguva nenguva, pane nharo, kusawirirana, kukakavadzana uye kusanzwisisana. Zvinosuruvarisa, vanhu vashomanana vanogona kuzvidzivirira, nokuti vanhu vaviri havagoni kuva nechinangwa chimwe chekuona, kuita zvachose zvinhu zvose nenzira yakakwana nekuzadzisa zvido zvose zveumwe neumwe. Asi chero kukakavadzana kwakajeka kugadzirisa pakutanga kwekutanga, panzvimbo yekuuya nayo kunzvimbo yekubikira. Saka, zvakakosha kudzivisa kukakavara kana kuti kugadzirisa zvakanaka. Mazano mashoma mashoma ekugadzirisa kukakavara nemurume wake.
Zviyeuchidzo zvinonakidza
Mambakwedza ... zuva rakanaka rinomutsa mazaya aro okutanga, iwe unofunga kumuka, kutapira, kutendeuka kubva kune rumwe rutivi ... uye uzviwanike mumaoko emaune murume wako anodikanwa. Zvakanaka, handizvo here?
Zvechokwadi mukadzi wese ane zviyeuchidzo zvake zvinonakidza, zvine chokuita noupenyu hwemhuri, huzorora pamwe chete, mamwe mazororo, zviitiko kana upenyu huri nyore hwezuva nezuva. Heino nzira yokutanga yekudzivisa kukakavara kana kukakavara. Pose paunonzwa uchitsamwa, uye iwe uchida kuratidza kusagutsikana kwako kwose nemurume wako, mira, rangarira nguva dzinofadza dzakashandiswa pamwe chete, uye kutsamwa kwako kuchapera. Uyezve, nekutaura kwakadzikama, nepfungwa uye urongwa, unogona kukurukura zvose zvinokonzerwa nezvinetso. Uye kakawanda matambudziko ose aya anongopera. Kurwisana kunogadziriswa.
Shandura nzvimbo
Kana mafungiro ako akakundikana iwe, uye iwe haugoni kuyeuka nguva dzinonakidza muupenyu, ipapo iwe pane imwe nzira yechipiri - edza kuzviisa panzvimbo yemumwe wako. Hongu, hongu-iyi ndiyo inonyanya kunyorerwa uye yakareba kwenguva yakareba pamusoro pedu yatakamboudzwa kubva pauduku. Asi funga, kangani isu tinonyatsoshandisa nayo mukuita, uye kwete kungoita chitarisiko kuti tinyarare hana yedu? Mushure mezvose, munhu wose anoda kunzwa, ndinoda "kugara munzvimbo yake", mu "ganda rake". Nhanho inotevera, nekukakavara kunotevera nemurume wake, funga nezvemamiriro ezvinhu akaita kuti mumwe wako ave nemamwe mazwi nemabasa. Uye maonero ake haana kunaka here? Kana kuti iine nzvimbo yekuve? Zvichida iyi "shanduko yemuviri" yepfungwa ichakuudza kuti ungasvika sei kubvumirana mune imwe nguva inopesana.
Tora pause
Uye imwe imwe nzira inokosha yekuchengetedza mamiriro ezvinhu ane rugare mumhuri. Paunenge uchikurukurirana pane mashoko anonyomba uye anonyanya kutaura pamusoro pemumwe wako, kana chokwadi chakanyatsosimbiswa chinotsiviwa nekufungidzira kwako, kana pane danho rimwe chete pakuputsa ndiro uye kupwanya mikova, zvakakosha kubata pause uye kufunga pamusoro pemamiriro ose. Mumwe munhu anoshaya maminitsi gumi, mumwe munhu asingakwanisi maawa akawanda, uye vamwe vakagadzirira kutangazve hurukuro chete mangwanani anotevera. Chero zvazvingava, nzira yekugadzirisa nyaya kune "musoro wekutonhorera" ichava yakakurumidza uye inobudirira.
Tinovaka hukama hwedu isu. Uye nguva dzose inofanirwa kuyeuka kuti kushivirira uye kuwirirana pamwe chete ndizvo zvikamu zvakakosha zvehutano hwakasimba, husingaperi uye husingaperi.
Rudo uye ude kudiwa!