Chikonzero chacho chinogona kuva chero chinhu, asi musikana wese, ari mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, anotanga kumutsvaka, achitarisa mumusoro wake zvose zvingangodaro zvaangagona kurega murume. Mukuedza kudzoka mudiwa, mukadzi, asingagumi, anozvibvunza mubvunzo uyu: chii chakashata? Anorasikirwa nenzara yake, haarari usiku, anomudana, shure kwezvose, mukuora mwoyo, asi zvose zvinoedza hazvina maturo. Kudanwa hakusi kukurudzira, kune imwe nzira yakapoteredza: kutaurirana kusina maturo, kuvhara mhinduro, kutsamwa pakuguma kwetambo kana kuseka-chero chinhu chipi zvacho chaunogona kunzwa.
Zvinonyomba uye zvinorwadza. Asi shamwari dzakangwarira hazviregi uye dzinotanga kuvanzwira tsitsi netsitsi dzemvura dzinenge dzisingagamuchirwi mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kana kuti hazvibatsiri. Uye mushure mokushandisa mazano mamwe, kukanganisa kunongowedzera, uye murume anodikanwa anoramba achienda kure. Saka ungapinda sei? Ndingaitazve sei ukama hwangu nemunhu, pasina hupenyu hupi hunorasikirwa nezvose zvinoreva?
Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kumukadzi panguva yakadaro ndechokuratidza kushivirira. Kazhinji kacho, kushuva kamwe kamwe kune mumwe mukadzi hachisi chinhu chokungofambisa kwenguva pfupi isina chinangwa chakakomba. Rudo runokurumidza, uye nguva yehukama hwekukanganwa hunosimbiswa nekunyatsonzwisisa mumamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo, mafungiro kune shamwari itsva iri kuchinja. Uye zviri nyore kusarudza kuti ungadzoka sei murume wako anodikanwa.
Iko ndiko, chimiro chikuru pano chiri kushivirira uye kukwanisa kusununguka. Pakati pevanhu vaviri vane rudo ipapo inongova simba rinopisa, apo murume nemukadzi vanonzwa mumwe nomumwe, kunyange kana vasina pamwe. Chero bedzi iwe uchitambudzika, murume wako anowana simba iri uye anonzwa akanatswa nemamwe mukadzi. Zvibvise kuti uchinzwe zvakanaka, kurega kutambura, uye murume akakusiya iwe, acharega kupiwa simba kubva kwauri uye achatsvaka kutaura, kusangana nemweya wake unopedza simba. Mutemo wekuchengetedza simba - inoshanda zvishamiso. Endai mutore uye muzorore, hongu, hazvizove nyore, asi unogona kukanganisa kufunga kwako pane chimwe chinhu chinonzwira tsitsi kana kuchinja mamiriro ezvinhu, uchienda rwendo. Kana uchida, unogona kuwana dzimwe nzira dzakasiyana dzekuwana nzira yekubuda nayo.
Asi zvinowanzoitikawo kuti rudo rwemunhu rwakakosha, uye zvakaoma kuporesa uye kuva mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kwenguva yakareba. Zvinorwadza hazvipfuuri. Ndezvipi munyaya iyi kudzorera mudiwa?
Kune vakadzi vanoshandisa spell rudo kuti vadzose munhu. Uye kunyange pane zviitiko zvekubudirira kwechiitiko ichi. Vamwe vakadzi vanoshandisa marudzi ose emamwe nzira - marudzi ose ehupfumi, izvo, maererano ne "vakaurayiwa", vakavabatsira kudzorera hukama. Asi mumashiripiti akadaro pane, pasina mubvunzo, pasina - murume akadzokera kune mukadzi kwete neanodiwa zvake, akachinja zvikuru. Panzvimbo pekuvimba, munhu ane simba-anoda, munhu asina simba anoshayiwa simba anooneka kana, zvakare, munhu ane utsinye uye anokurumidza kutsamwa. Mune nguva yekutsvaga kudzoka mudikanwa, vakadzi vazhinji dzimwe nguva vanoenda kune "uroyi" hwakadai, kwete kufunga nezvemigumisiro, zvose muhupenyu hwomurume uyu uye hwake. Mukuwedzera, kuti iwe uchapedza mari yako mubhizimisi rino, hapana chimwe chinhu chinokosha chichaitika, hapana kufambira mberi muhukama.
Pane nzira yekudzorera munhu waunoda musingabatsiri kune mhodzi here?
Usamukumbira kuti adzoke, usanzwire tsitsi, usaratidze hutsinye - huchakuvhiringidza dambudziko. Nzira dzakadaro dzinogumbura zvikuru varume. Usakumbira kukanganwirwa, saka iwe unongozvinyengera iwe pachako. Kushungurudzika kuchaita kuti zvimwe zviitike. Tsamba dzokunzwa nekukunzwira tsitsi, kupa mukana, kungozvidza munhu waunoda - haadi kuda kunzwa manzwiro ekutambura nekuda kwako. Usaedza kudzorera murume uyu, kumusunungura.
Chengetedza manzwiro ako, zvisinei kuti zvakaoma sei kutsungirira izvi. Unganidza zvose zvaunoda iwe muchikanda uye ugare ushamwari hwehukama nemurume wako waunoda. Saka iwe unogona kuramba uchitaura naye, saka, chengetedza ukama, uye, zvichida, uvagadzirise mune ramangwana. Yeuka kuti kuisa mashoko ose "pachigadziko chesirivha" pamusoro pako uye hupenyu hwako kune waimbova mudiwa hahusi kukosha kamwechete. Iye achangonyanya kuda kuziva zvose pamusoro pako. Kuda kuziva kwakadai hakuzoregi manzwiro kuti atadze zvachose.
Uye iva nechokwadi kuti uzvichengete pachako - iyi ndiyo nzira yakarurama yekudzorera munhu wako anodikanwa. Tarisira kutaridzika kwako - shanyira madziva ekudhara, mapoka emagariro, kunaka koroni. Iva kunyanya kufadza - dzidza tango yeArginia kana kudzidza kudzika, kutanga kudzidza mitauro kana kutsvaga dzimwe nyika - zvakawanda zvekusarudza. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti paive nekufambira mberi.
Asi kunyange mushure mekunge kuchinja kwakanyanya, zvinogona kuitika kuti murume haazodzoki. Zvichida, zvichida, zvakatoita zviri nani? Tarisa kumativi ose - kune varume vazhinji vakada kusangana newe! Kunyanya mushure mekunge iwe wava polyglot, iwe wakadzidza kushandisa gomo rinoputika uye wakadzidza zvakawanda nezvedzimwe nyika, zvichiunza chiitiko chitsva muupenyu hwako. Izvi zvinovhura zvitsva zvitsva uye zvinokwezva vanhu vakawanda vanofarira muupenyu hwako!