Ukama hwemhuri hunofungidzirwa kuti ndeimwe yezvinyorwa zvakakurumbira nhasi. Muzvisi zvezuva nezuva, zvinowanzoitika kuti kudanana mumwe murume nemudzimai havagoni kuwana chinhu chikuru - kunzwisisa. Nokudaro huwandu hwekukakavadzana kunopera mumhuri. Mashoko "tinonzwisisana pasina mazwi", nhasi unogona kusangana zvakanyanya. Mashoko akadaro anogona kutaura zvakataurwa nababambuya nasekuru, avo vaifamba pamwe chete muupenyu hwose uye vakaona nguva dzakaoma, kunyanya avo vakakwanisa kupedza nguva yehondo. Uye isu, chizvarwa chemazuva ano chevechidiki, avo vari musangano rekugara nekusarudza mibvunzo yakawanda, vanongoda kungoshamwaridzana, vachipfuura nepakati pemakakatanwa emhuri.
Zvinokonzera kukakavara mumhuri
Zvichida kutanga zvakakosha kufunga uye kuongorora nekuda kwekukakavadzana kunoitika mumhuri? Masayendisiti akawana kuti mhirizhonga pakati pevakaroorana inogona kubuda nekuda kwekusawirirana nekodzero dze " biological clock ". Kune vanhu "mapurisa", pane "makungu", uye pamwe iwe newawakaroorana naye munongova mazvikamu akasiyana, apo mumwe anomuka mangwanani, achifara uye atoongorora, uye anoronga zuva rinotevera, imwe nzira iyo yakapoteredza, akarara uye kunyange Usafunga nezvezvichaitwa nhasi. Asi izvi kungofungidzira, izvo zvisingafaniri kuderedzwa kumatambudziko ose anobva mumhuri yemhuri. Zvichida zvakasiyana - iwe unongova nemafambisirwo ehupenyu husingaenderani, somuenzaniso, mune dzidzo yevana, kusagadzikana mune nyaya dzezvemari.
Tinoda kuzarura maziso edu kuti mhirizhonga inomuka sei mumhuri chaiyo pa "nzvimbo isina chinhu" uye zvinosuruvarisa, kazhinji. Fungidzira, mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo. Iwe unobva kubasa, imba yemugwagwa yakanga isingafadzi, mumwe munhu akasimudza, akatuka, uye zuva rakanga rakaoma. Uyezve murume akagara pasi pa sofa uye anotarisa terevhizheni akanyarara, mwana anobvunza rubatsiro mune zvidzidzo. Uye iwe unoita kunge wakabvarurwa kubva pakutsamwa kwakawanda mukati mako. Uye apo mhirizhonga yemhuri inosvika kune yaro, iwe unoziva kuti hapana chikonzero mukuenderera mberi nehurukuro. Pakupedzisira, enda kumakona, uite bhizinesi rega roga.
Zuva rinopfuura, rechipiri, manheru anoitwa mumunyararire, hapana anotaura kune ani zvake, uye foni seyinyerere yakanyarara. Uri kutotanga kufunga:
- "Zvichida iwe unofanira kuuya uchataura?"
- "Kwete, sei, kutanga, ndine chokwadi (a), uye chechipiri, nei ndichifanira (kutanga) kuuya pakutanga?"
Kubatsirwa kwechiremba wepfungwa mukugadzirisa kukakavadzana kwemhuri
Kubudirira kwemaitiro matsva-kubvunzurudza kwevamwe vezvepfungwa avo vanozivikanwa zvikuru kune dzimwe nyika, dzimwe nguva vanoona kuguma kwevanhu vazhinji. Hongu, zvichida, iyi ndeimwe yenzira yakanakisisa yekugadzirisa kukakavara mamiriro ezvinhu akawanikwa mumhuri.
Chii chakanaka pamusoro penzira iyi yekugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, iwe unobvunza? Mhinduro yacho iri pamusoro pepamusoro, mukutsvaga nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma akazovapo, uri kutendeukira kumunhu akazvimiririra zvakakwana, iwe unogona kutaurira kune imwe nyanzvi, nyanzvi anoziva mumunda wepfungwa uye haasi hama yako yepedyo kana shamwari. Nyanzvi yepfungwa ichakubatsira iwe kuita sarudzo yakanaka. Asi kwatiri isu zvisingaiti zvakapararira, uye zvinodhura kana kumira dorogovato, kwete vanhu vose vasina ruzivo vanogona kukwanisa kutaurira nyanzvi. Dzimwe nguva vanongoda kuzviita-kurasikirwa nenguva, mari, nezvimwewo. Asi iwe unogona kugara uchiyeuka pamusoro pekubvunzurudzwa kwemunhu wepfungwa yepachena. Somuenzaniso, hotline mafoni, apo iwe unogona kugara uchidana uye kuwana mhinduro kumubvunzo waunofarira.
Kune vakawanda, zvinofanira kuve pachena kuti kana pane kukakavadzana pakati pemitezo yemhuri, zvingava nani kutaura nemunhu anodzidza pane kuverenga (sezvatiri kuita) kumhanyira kune shamwari yepedyo mukutsvaga chokwadi. Mukuwedzera, wakambofunga here kuti paunokumbira mudiwa wako kuti akupe mazano, pane dzimwe nguva unogona kugumburwa pamusana pekutongwa kwakashata kune avo vane mhirizhonga. Zvichida, pamusana pekusaziva kwako, musikana wako anokukuvadza, somuenzaniso, uyo asina hupenyu hwemhuri, uye anogara achitaura zvakare, "Ndeipi murume wako akaipa, Vasya, anoita izvi."
Kubva pakurwisana mumhuri - kusvika kune hukama muhukama
Ngatifunge pamusoro paro uye tive nemamiriro ezvinhu zvakasiyana. Mushure mezvose, kupesana mumhuri uye zvimwe zvikamu zvehupenyu hazvisi nguva dzose zvinotakura nhengo dzisina kunaka, nokuti zvinogara zvichiunza chero kuchinja kupi zvako. Uye kunyange mune dzimwe nguva zvinogona kushanda sechirongwa chekurwisa munhu muhupenyu husina hanya, hunotyisa.
Mukukakavadzana kukuru, vakaroorana vanowanzotanga, kureva, kurega kubva pachirevo chaive chikonzero. Mukati yemakakatanwa, zvinorangarirwa kuti zvose zvavakawana, izvo zvandaida kutaura kare, zvakange zvakanganwika kana zvakarongedzerwa kusvikira gare gare, mune tariro yokuti "zvichida ichavandudza?". Saka usadaro chero! Ita zviri pachena mumusoro wako pakarepo - iwe uri kuedza kuongorora nekugadzirisa dambudziko rimwe rakabuda mumamiriro ezvinhu panguva ino. Uye kwete pane zvose zvawakaunganidza kwenguva yakareba uye iwe wakasarudza kusunungura zvose izvi nehutu hwakafa kumurume murombo (mudzimai). Usangopinda kutyisidzira, somuenzaniso: "kana iwe usingakwanisi kuchenesa nhasi, ipapo ini ndichaenda kwezuva rose, ndichikusiya nechecheche uye ini handingapinduri nhare" kana kuti "Ndaneta nezvose, ndinoda kurambana." Bvumirana, zvisinei kuti unotaura sei izvi kakawanda, chokutanga, chichaguma kushanda mune ramangwana, uye chechipiri, rimwe zuva uchafanira kuzadzisa iyo yakapikirwa.
Tinokumbira kuita chimwe chinhu zvakasiyana. Kufananidza kukakavadzana kunotevera mumhuri, funga nezvei uye kuti iwe uchataura sei. Zvadaro hurukuro yacho haichazovi nekutaura kusina kunaka, asi pane zvinopesana, uchawana hukama, kunyarara, mukuderedza tones. Izvi zvinokwanisika here kuti iitane iko kupesana zvachose? Kwete kwete. Izvi zvinongova tsananguro kune mumwe wako, chii chaangada kuchinja mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, uye ndeapi mhinduro dzinogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nekuedza pamwe. Shandisa, sekutaura, kuzviongorora mukati mako. Hongu zvakaoma, iwe uchati, kunyanya kana zvinhu zvose zviri kuvira mukati uye achangoti kudurura. Uye ndiani akamboti upenyu huri nyore? Zvaunofunga usati wataura - zviri nyore? Kunyanya kana zvikaitika panguva yekukakavadzana: zvinoda kushanda, kuzvidzora manzwiro, asi iwe uchaona-ichabereka michero. Uye mune ramangwana iwe uchanzwisisa kuti kudzivisa kusawirirana mumhuri kunonyanya kuve nyore munzvimbo dzakadzikama, kungotsanangura kusagutsikana kwako uye kutsvaga nzira dzokugadzirisa nadzo pamwe chete. Nokudaro, munotumira mumwe nomumwe "I-mharidzo", kunzwa mumwe nemumwe paanonzwisisa kusagutsikana kune rumwe rutivi.
Saka, uchishandisa mitemo yose yakanyorwa pamusoro apa, iwe hapana mubvunzo unogadzirisa kusawirirana mumhuri usingashandisi kunyadziswa uye kutukwa. Chii uye chii chichakubvumira kuti uwedzere kusimbisa ukama hwako uye nokukurumidza kugadzirisa zvinetso zvakawedzerwa, kupfurikidza ne "hondo dzemhuri."
Ropafadzo yakanaka uye hukama muhupenyu hwemhuri yako!
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