Akamanikidza makiroi maviri - uye iwe watova pakati pekutaurirana. Iwe unoda kusimbisa kukosha kwako - wakavhura peji muOnoklassniki, wakatarisa kuti vangani vakashanyira iyo, vaine chokwadi chekukosha kwayo. Kunze kwekuti, kungogara nekushanda (kana basa racho rakabatana nekombiyuta) rinokuvadza, uye kuti urongedze nguva, vanhu vanoenda kunyika yakawanda uye vanotaurira paInternet, uko nguva dzose iri yakachengeteka, hapana zvikwereti, iwe unogona kuzvifunga iwe somunhu upi noupi, kuponesa ubongo hwevamwe uye kunyange gamuchira kubva kune iyi manzwiro epfungwa.
Ndezvipi zvinetso zveInternet?
Kushandura kwenyika yose yenyika yakawanda uye kukurukurirana paIndaneti kunokonzera kunze uye kunokonzera kuderera kunodhaka kune vashandisi. Vanhu vane chido chakasimba chokupinda muInternet, zvakanaka, kupinda mukati maro, munhu haawani simba rekusiya mapeji ewebhu. Kune miviri miviri mikuru yenyika yakasarudzwa uye kukurukurirana paInternet: kutenderera-kutaurirana - kubva kuhurukuro, maforamu, teleconferensi, e-mail. Uye utachiona hwehutachiona - kubva pamitambo mitsva yeruzivo (kushandiswa kwepamusoro kune masayiti, mabhuku uye zvinhu). Uye zvakadaro vazhinji vanovimba neIndaneti vakatsigira mabasa anobatana nekutaurirana. Maererano nehuwandu, humwe hunhu hwakanaka hwehutano hwakadaro husingazivikanwe (86%), kuwanika (63%), kuchengeteka (58%) uye nyore kushandiswa (37%). Saka mambure inodiwa kuwana rubatsiro rwemagariro evanhu, kugutsikana kwepabonde, mukana wekusika hero (virtual hero).
Chii chinonyanya kukosha chekudzivirira mashoko?
Izvo zvinonziwo web inodhaka. Kazhinji, inobata vanhu vanobatanidzwa nehuwandu hwebasa pamwe nekugadzirisa nekuwanazve ruzivo (vatapi venhau ndivo vekutanga muboka risina ngozi). Vanonzwa kupererwa kwemashoko nguva dzose, kusagadzikana kubva pakuziva kuti panguva iyoyo chimwe chinhu chiri kuitika pane imwe nzvimbo, uye havachizivi. Kunzwisisa kuti hazvibviri kuvhara zvinhu zvose, zvinopera. Uchenjeri hauna muganhu: mushure mokufunga kumwe kunovuya kune imwe, yechitatu ... Kuti ugare munguva, iwe unofanirwa kuva nechepakati chekunyadzisa kunonzi kuwedzerwa kwechikwata-kusanganiswa kwekuda, mweya uye chinangwa. Inoumbwa mune chero basa. Uku ndiko kukwanisa kuungana panguva yakakodzera, kuisa pfungwa uye kutungamirira masimba ose kuti aite chimwe chebasa. Mashoko anonyatsotarisa pfungwa, pfungwa yenguva yakarasika, iyo chewing gum inokandirwa kuuropi, iyo inosveta nenzira. Kuchengetedza kuti ruzivo harusi kuparadza pfungwa pakuguma, mavara ekutarisa anodikanwa. Ndakaverenga imwe pfungwa, yakafuridzirwa nayo uye ikaiziva. Zvakakosha kushanda kwete mhinduro dzose mumutsara, asi ndeye chete izvo zvakafurira kumweya. Uye, kana zvichibvira, ita kuti vashandise, uye kwete kungopinda mumusoro wako.
Nzira yekutsanangurira sei kufarirwa kwemasangano evanhu : "Vadzidzi", "VKontakte" nezvimwe zvakadaro?
Munhu anofanira kuongororwa kubva kunze, kugutsikana, kana achizotevera hupenyu zvakanaka, achizvifananidza nevamwe. Munzvimbo yekutambirwa kwevanhu, mutengi anotanga peji rake pachavo - mufananidzo wakaisvonaka-kuzvipira. Vana, varume, zororo, vana vanopupurirwa, zvishuvo, kufara, nhetembo zvakanyorerwa kune umwe neumwe, zvinofungidzirwa-uchapupu hwekunaka kwavo uye hupenyu hunofadza hunyorwa. Nokudaro, chido chekusimbisa kukosha kweumwe iwe chiri kusangana. Zvisinei, inzvimbo yekutambirwa kwevanhu inofananidzira. Pamusangano wekuita musangano chaiwo, vashomanana vanopindura, uye kana musangano wacho ukaitika, unowanzotarisa kuva usina kujeka uye wakanaka semunyika ino.
Kukurukurirana paIndaneti kunopesana sei neikozvino?
Munhu haafaniri kuva nemufaro chete, tinogara tichida kugovera zvinhu zviri mukati-izvo zvinogona kuudzwa mumunhu. Tinoshushikana nemanzwiro chete munguva yekutaurirana kunofadza - tinonyemwerera nekumwemwerera, tinopindura netsitsi nekuda kwekusuruvara. Indaneti inobatanidza kunyengera kwekukurukurirana. Mitsara yemunhu mumwe nomumwe, pfungwa dzakanyorwa, pane manzwiro ekuti uropi, hunoda nguva dzose chiito, hunotevera chimwe chinhu. Asi izvi zvinongova kunyengera. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinofananidza kukurukurirana pahutachiona nekuita bonhora. Mukuwedzera, hukama hwehutano hunoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kuvaka zviripo. Ichokwadi, vazhinji vashandisi vanobvuma kuti vane matambudziko nekukurukurirana kwechokwadi. Nyika yakawanda uye kukurukurirana paInternet kunoita kuti vamwe vanhu varambe vari munyika yavo isinganzwisisiki, iyo yavakagadzira nekudzivirira nesimba ravo rose. Vanotya kuti havangatongororwi nenzira ipi zvayo, vanoti kwete, havana mhosva uye havana kuita mhinduro. Kushayikwa kwehupenyu huripo kunopesa munhu mukubudirira. Mushure mezvose, kunzwisisa kuti dzimwe nzvimbo dzehupenyu dzinoda kuchinjwa kana kuchinja kune chimwe chinhu, zvakaoma zvikuru. PaInternet, tinoratidzira kubvisa kusurukirwa . Asi iyo, kusurukirwa, iri mukati medu, uye hapana paunenge usingaiti nayo. Uye iwe unoda kuva noushingi kurarama mauri uye kutsvaka nzira yekubuda nayo.
Ndezvipi zviratidzo zvekudhakwa kweInternet?
Vakawanda vanonyanya kutaura: chido chakasimba chekutarisa e-mail yako, kukanganwa zvido zvepanyama nekuda kwekufambisa kwepamusoro (kukanganwa kudya, kuenda kuchivanze), kuramba uri pawebhu kunopfuura nguva yakatarwa pakutanga (ndaida kuenda kwehafu yeawa uye ndakagara kwemaviri). Kakombiyuta inotsvaga nehupenyu inokanganwa nezvemhuri yavo, ushamwari, mabasa ehurumende. Migumisiro yekurambana, kubviswa kubva kubasa, kusakwanisa kudzidza. Mushure mekubva kuMusangano kwechinguva chiduku, vanova nerudzi rwe "hangover" - ruzivo rwakanyanya kwazvo rwekuziva uye pfungwa yekuzvidya mwoyo, chido chisingachinjiki chekupinda zvakare munyika yakakwana nekukurukura paInternet.
Ndezvipi zvinetso zve psyche zvinogona kukanganisa nyika yose nekukurukurirana paInternet?
Munhu mukuru anoita seanomwe ane makore manomwe anoda kuwana zvaanoda muminiti iyi. Chimwe chirwere chinokonzerwa mupfungwa chinonzi Munchausen's syndrome. Inobva pakuenzanisa chirwere ichi kuitira kukwezva kutarira uye tsitsi. Kubvira paInternet hakuna munhu achakumbira kubva kwauri kadhi yezvechiremba, kutamba munhu anorwara chinhu chisinganyatso.
Ndiani ari pangozi yekuva muropa wekombiyuta?
Iko kune izvo zvinonzi chivimbo chevanhu. Vanhu varo vanogona kuvimba neInternet, zvokudya, doro kana zvinodhaka. Havana kuziva kuramba uye kuita zvisarudzo, vanotya kutsoropodza kana kusafarirwa. Vanodzvinyirirwa nekutya kusurukirwa uye chido chokubvisa simba ravo rose, kusakwanisa kugovana zvavanosangana nevamwe, kusakwanisa kuronga nguva yavo nekuzadzisa zvinangwa zvavo. Vanhu ava vane mafungiro akawanda. Kusungirira kune munhu pane webhu kwavari, hapana chakamira. Munharaunda inoratidzika sokuti mutauriri wacho anodikamwa kwauri, pedyo uye kunonzwisisika, iwe wakagadzirira kumubatsira kwose kwose uye mune zvose. Asi muhupenyu hapasi nguva dzose simba remweya rakakwana rekunzwisisa nekusimbisa munhu.
Izvo zvenyika inobatsira sei utano hwevana uye psyche?
Mwana kusvika pamakore manomwe kusvika kune gumi anofanirwa kukura mumuviri-mumutambo, kufamba. Mushure megore remakore gumi, simba remuviri rinowedzera pakuvandudzika kwemasabetism, mwoyo, mapapu, uye dzimwe nhengo dzinokosha. Uye mushure mekunge makore gumi nemana ekugamuchirwa kunoshandiswa kune zvekunamata. Vana vaduku, vakasungirirwa kumeso, vane static. Panzvimbo yekufambira mberi kwepanyama panguva ino, pane mutoro wepfungwa - sezvikonzero, vana vemazuva ano vanokura kare. Pazera remakore gumi nemasere kusvika ku14 kusvika ku14, kune kakatova nemidziyo yekuyerera, atherosclerosis uye kanzira dzekutanga. Mumakore gumi mwana anokwanisa kutaura mitauro mitatu uye zvinyorwa zvekushandisa pakombiyuta, asi haapfuuri kuedza kwekutsvaga kwemuviri: kunyatsopfuura gorofu rimwe uye kutora bhora kune chinangwa.
Nyika yakawanda uye kukurukurirana paInternet kunonzi kune zvakawanda zvakakosha sechirongwa chekudzidza uye kupararira kwechiso. Zvichida, neyero yakakodzera, ichakubatsira here kumutsa vana vane simba guru?
Vabereki vanobatwa, vachiona vana vavo vane makore matatu vachitarisira ne laptop. Kutaura zvazviri, unyanzvi hwose hunoumbwa pamwero wepamusoro uye hahuzobatsiri muupenyu hwevanhu vakuru. Zviri nyore kuti vanhu vakuru vagoisa mwana pakombiyuta uye vanoitora kwechinguva pane kuumba mamwe maitiro mairi. Iko pfungwa yokuti kombiyuta inowedzera uye inofanirwa kuchikoro haisi chimwe chinhu kunze kwekuzvidavirira.
IU.SA yakaita chiitiko : vana vanobva pamakore mashanu vakarovedzwa kunze, uye nezera remakore gumi nemaviri vakanga vapedza chikoro chesekondari. Vanga vari kutevera upenyu hwavo kwemakore mazhinji. Zvakazoitika kuti hakuna mumwe wavo aiva nechinangwa: zvepfungwa dzaive dzakangwara, asi zvakasimba-zvaidiwa uye zvepfungwa zvaisipo. Havana kuziva kuti vaiva ani kana kuti chii chavaida. Mushure mezvose, tarenda iri 99% yebasa uye kukwanisa kuronga, uye 1% chete inobva pane mano.
Zvinokwanisika here kuderedza mitemo yekudzivirira yakachengeteka yevana pa kombiyuta?
Kusvikira kumakore gumi mwana anogara mukubatana nenyika, nokuda kwake simba revabereki rakakwana. Mushure mokunge vana vane gumi vatanga kuzvitsaura kubva munyika yakavapoteredza, kushamisika kana zvose zvakakosha muhupenyu huno, kufarira: chii chakaitika, chii chiri mberi. Iyi ndiyo nguva iyo iwe unokwanisa kubatana nekombiyuta.Iyo yakaenzana haisi maawa maviri pazuva: makumi mana nemashanu maminitsi pakombiyuta, uye nguva yokuzorora. Iwe haugoni kushandisa kombiyuta senzira yekukurudzira. Zvakakosha kuti usachema, usadzima midziyo kubva mumutambo, asi ude kuzvidzora mumwana. Iva neawasi kweimwe nguva woiisa iyo inotevera - kuitira kuti mudiki muduku ave nechinangwa chekuita kwezviito zvavo. Kazhinji, vabereki ivo pachavo vanovimba nekombiyuta. Mushure mezvose, sezvinhasi kushandisa nguva yakawanda mhuri yevechidiki: baba vari kutamba mune imwe "shooter", uye amai vangu vanotaurirana neshamwari mu "Classmates." Chii chakasara kumwana? Uyewo gara pamakombiyuta.
Ndezvipi zvinetso zvehutano hwevakadzi zvinogona kutungamirira kumakombiyuta ekuvhima, pasi rose nekukurukurirana paInternet?
Kusakanganisika uye kuora mwoyo ndevamwe shamwari dzevakadzi, vakasungirirwa kumeso. Hypodinamiya pamwe chete nezvakawanda zvinowanzoitika mumharapando nzvimbo inozarura magedhi kune marudzi ese ekuputika. Kakawanda, ruzivo runobva kune Network muvakadzi hunokonzera mishonga, kunyanya kuvanaamai vaduku vanotsvaka mhinduro dzemibvunzo yavo paInternet. Nhasi marudzi ose e "Amai" maforamu anozivikanwa, apo vamwe, vanaamai vasina kufanirwa (zvimwe zvingabatsira kuongorora hutano hwepfungwa) vasingazivikanwi kupa mazano kune "vashandi vavo". Mamwe mazano anokurudzira kuedza kutyisa vana vavo. Nhema dzakawanda dzinovhiringidza shamwari dzisingatauriki, dzichiisa mucheche vana vavo zvirwere zvinotyisa. Amai vanotanga kuzvizunguza ivo pachavo, vachiumba guru reurourosis.
Virtual nhaurirano yeInternet inozivikanwa nhasi . Pasina kubva pakombiyuta, unogona kuziva kuti iwe unorwara sei, ona tsanangudzo yakajeka yehutano uye pakarepo urongedze mishonga iri mumashandisi eInternet. Ndeipi nzira dzakachengeteka iyo nzira yekuongorora uye kurapwa? Nhasi rudzi rutsva rwevashandisi veIndaneti rwakaonekwa - cyberchondrics vane mavimbi makuru eIndaneti, vachiunganidza kuongororwa kwevezvesa nezvehutano hwavo kubva kumativi ose epasi. Vane chokwadi chekuvapo kwezvirwere zvinotyisa, izvo zvisati zviri zvechibereko chekufunga kwavo.
Nenzira ipi iwe unogona kusiyanisa nayo Internet rekushandisa iyo inogona kuvimbwa kubva kune inoshushikana?
Pane zviratidzo zvakasiyana kana kuti "rega mazwi" anogona kupa mishonga inonyadzisira yeIndaneti. Izvi zvose zvinosanganiswa ne "simba ruzivo" - ruzivo rwematrices, mvura, aura, biofield, wave genome, maonero e astral, bioresonance kana "kuongororwa kwechiremba makumi mana muhafu yeawa", kubviswa kwezvinokonzera uye zvose zvinosangana navo.
Nhasi Indaneti inopa mikana yakawanda kuna avo vari kutsvaga hafu yepiri. Kuwanda kwenzvimbo dzekufambidzana kunopa vashandi kune zvose zvinonaka uye marara. Ko kutsvaga kwerudo rwako kwakasiyana sei neicho?
Mharidzo inogona kuva inosimudzira, inoti, heino-iyo chete uye chete. Asi musangano muhupenyu chaihwo kazhinji hunoguma pakuora mwoyo. Asi paInternet - awa mazwi chete, izvo zvisingabatsiri. Kushandiswa kwemasimba, kuedza kunzwisisa, vamwe nenyika ino - hazvina kunyatsokwanisa mumakorani ekukurukurirana. Kana mukati mehupenyu hwomunhu zvose zvaanotaura zvinotaura nezvorudo, ipapo paInternet ingongova tsamba uye zviratidzo.
Ndezvipi zvipfeko muhupenyu zvatinobhadhara kuburikidza nekusiya kuhutano?
Kuti unzwe kuzara kwekuva, munhu anofanira kuratidzira muzvikamu zvakati zvoupenyu. Mukusikwa, shanda - mamwe mabasa anovaka kuitira kubatsira vamwe, mukuchengeta muviri, unovandudzwa uye kuripa kakapetwa kazana nokuda kwokuti kune utano uye vari kubatanidzwa. Mukunamata, unhu hwatinowana, zvatinoreva, uye zvinyorwa zvezvinyorwa. Mukubata nevamwe vanhu, izvo zvinowedzera uye zvinopa mhinduro: iwe unorarama, iwe unozivikanwa. Uye kana kutaurirana uku isu tisina kuita chaiye, hatina kuisa chero munhu wavo manzwiro avo, kutarisira kwavo-isu takasara tiri voga nekutya rufu. Nokuti zvisati zvafa hazvina basa kuti ndezvipi zvinyorwa zvawakanyora, zvinokosha kuti ndiani achave ari pedo newe, kuitira kuti iwe usasurukirwa.
Nzira yekubvisa kushandiswa kwemishonga zvakadini?
Upenyu hunorongerwa pamusana we simba re "kutora-kupa." PaIndaneti, tinopa simba redu kune munhu anoziva kupi uye nei. Iyo mitambo inotora iyo seponji. Iko simba rehupenyu rinopiwa kwatiri nemanzwiro, asi kwete zvisizvo, asi rinotungamirirwa kuita. Uye mafungiro anovimba nemafungiro: "isu tiri vatatu." Mwana wemafungiro anofanira kusangana pamwechete, kuwedzera manzwiro edu, kuuya nemamwe pfungwa uye kuwana tsime rekuita kuti riite. Munhu anokwanisa kuzvikanda mune mamwe mararamiro ehupenyu, apo pachava nemanzwiro mazhinji, uye haangorangariri nezvekombiyuta. Simba rakavigwa mumatambo chaiwo, zviito zvechokwadi uye chaizvoizvo kuwirirana. Uye Indaneti inogona kuva mubatsiri mukutsvaga kwavo. Shandisai nyika yakakwana senhumbi yekuwedzera zvaunofarira muhupenyu hwechokwadi Hapana chachatsiva isu nekunakidzwa kwekutaurirana, asi kwete zvisizvo, asi chaiye.