Ndezvipi zvinogumira kuda kure?

Rudo ndiyo manzwiro akanaka kupfuura mamwe ose munyika iyo isu tinogona kutarisana kune mumwe munhu. Kune munhu mumwe nomumwe, pfungwa ye rudo ndeyake. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anosarudza rudo uye rudzi rweukama hwavanosangana navo vose.

Kune rudo rukuru-rudo-ruchiri kure. Iripo here? Uye, rudo runogumira sei kure?

Bvumirana kuti vazhinji venyu munotenda kuti rudo ruchiri kure harina ramangwana. Vakawanda havatendi kuti vanhu vanogona kuratidza rudo nekuchengetedza manzwiro aya, kunyange kana vakaparadzana nemazana emakiromita.

Kana iwe ukashandura kuti uite, iwe unogona kukurumidza kupokana kuti rudo runo iri kure. Asi rinorarama kwenguva yakareba uye rinoguma sei?

Somuenzaniso, munguva yedu pane nhamba huru yevakaroorana vanodanana, asi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvebasa, murume kana mukadzi anogara aripo. Mhuri dzevatyairi, vafambisi vezvikepe uye, vanhu vanomanikidzwa kufamba mafambiro ebhizimisi. Vakaroorana havaregi rudo, nekuda kwemisangano isingawanzoitiki. Pakuparadzaniswa, vanogona kudana, kunyora ma e-mail nemashiripiti. Mumwe nomumwe musangano wavo unotevera. Zvakafanana nehusiku.

Tichifunga nezvenyaya iyi, inogona kukwikwidzana kuti rudo runo iri kure! Asi, zvinosuruvarisa, zvakaoma kutumidza mhuri yakadai, yakakwana-yese, sekutarisa hupenyu uye kurera vana kunowira kune mumwe chete. Kana vose vaviri vakaroorana vanogona kuwana mamiriro kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu iye zvino kuitira kuti parege kuva nevanotambudzwa, ipapo michato yakadai inogona kutaridzirwa yakareba uye yakasimba.

Mumwe muenzaniso we rudo uri kure. Rudo rwezororo. Kune murume nemukadzi. Pakati pavo kune rudo uye kukwezva. Pavanenge vachizorora, vanonakidzwa. Asi, chii chinoitika kana rwendo rwapera uye mumwe munhu anofanira kuenda kunyika yake?

Sezvo mutemo, ukama hwakadaro hushoma hune ramangwana. Kuparadzanisa, mumwe nomumwe wevanodzoka anobva kubva munhau kusvika kune hupenyu hwake huripo, kwaanenge akajaira uye zvinomukodzera.

Zvechokwadi, mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu pane zvakasiyana. Vakawanda venyu vanogona kutaurira nhau apo rudo rwekuvakirwa rwakayerera muukama hwakakwana uye rwakatungamirira ku kusikwa kwemhuri. Uye kureba kwakanga kusiri chipingamupinyi kumanzwiro akanaka kwazvo - Rudo!

Zana remakore makumi maviri nemakore rakaunza zvinhu zvakawanda kuhupenyu hwedu uye kuhukama hwevanhu. Somuenzaniso, vakawanda vakaroorana vanosarudza hukama huri kure. Vanogara kure nemumwe, kukurukura neIndaneti, foni. Dzimwe nguva vanosangana uye vanopedza nguva, vachizvipa ivo pachavo kudanana manzwiro kune mumwe nemumwe.

Sei vakaroorana vanosarudza rudo kubva kure? Vanotenda kuti kurarama pamwechete uye kutungamirira hupenyu humwe huchauraya hurombo hwavo nekudanana kune mumwe nemumwe. Vane chido chekuchengetedza rudo uye chido muhukama hwavo.

Kune vakawanda, rudzi urwu rwehukama hunogona kuonekwa, kuhuisa nounyoro, husingazivikanwi. Asi, Zvose zvakafanana. Zviratidzo zvinoratidza kuti hukama uye rudo ari kure, mumapandi maviri akadaro anogara kwenguva refu.

Chimwe muenzaniso, rudo mucheto rudo rwechokwadi. Hongu, iwe hauna kunzwa! Mazuva ano, nekuda kwekumanikidzwa kwebasa uye pamba, vazhinji havawani nguva yekupinda muimba yemitambo kana yemitambo. Vanosarudza imwe nzira yekukurukurirana - Indaneti. Hazvisi nyore, mumavhutheni akaenzana, kuwana munhu ari pedyo naye, uyo waanomutswa nerudo.

Ungati sei ukama hwakadaro? Rudo ruri kure. Vanogona kupedza nguva yakareba kwazvo, asi pasina musangano wega, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare vachapera.

Nyaya yacho inopihwa kumusoro unoti: "Rudo runoguma sei kure uye rwune kodzero yekuvapo?".

Kubva pane zvose zviri pamusoro apa, zvinogona kukwikwidzana kuti rudo rwuri kure. Asi izvo zvichazoguma nechinguva chete.