Saka ndechepi musiyano muzera pakati pemurume nemukadzi? Mubvunzo uyu unofadza ma psychologists uye vanachiremba munyika dzakasiyana. Semuenzaniso, mumhuri dzeFinnish inofungidzirwa kuti pakuzvarwa kwevana vane utano hwakasiyana nemakore pakati pevakaroorana inofanira kuva makore gumi nemashanu.
Zvisinei, muzvokwadi, zvose zvinotarisa zvakasiyana. Iko hakusi mhuri dzakawanda "dzakarurama" muFinland. Paavhareji, murume wekuFinnish akakura kupfuura mudzimai wake kwemakore matatu chete. Masayendisiti eFinnish anotenda kuti ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero nei vana vakawanda vasina utano vakaberekwa.
MuSweden, zvinyorwa zveFinnns hazvina kuvimbwa. Murume ane munhu mukuru wepabonde anoda kurindira mamwe makore gumi nemashanu, apo musikana wake wechiduku anobvaruka? Vanhu veSweden, mushure mekudzidza nhamba huru yevakaroorana, vakasarudza kuti musiyano muzera pakati pemurume nemukadzi zvinofanira kuva zvishoma Makore matanhatu . Uye, zvishamisika, mutemo mukuru pakusarudza shamwari yehupenyu hwakange husisi rudo, asi hupenyu hwakanaka hwevakaroorana. Iko ndiko kuti, shamwari yakakodzera yewanano ndeye murume ane mari yakanaka, basa rinogara riripo uye rinonakidza. Uye rudo ... rwechipiri.
Maonero akafanana ekusiyana kwemakore anowanikwawo muChirungu. Zvisinei, ivo vaifarira mune imwe mubvunzo. Iko hutano hwevanhu hunochinja hutano hwevana vavo here?
Izvi zvidzidzo zvakaita kuti shanduro dzesayenzi dzive nemigumisiro inofadza - munhu ane njere murume wacho, mukana wekuti vana vake vaifanira kuberekwa vane utano hwakanaka. Vanotsanangura izvi kuburikidza nechokwadi chokuti varume vane njere dzakakwirira vanobudirira, vane basa rakanaka, saka vanoita kuti vafarire zvikuru vakadzikadzi vakasiyana. Zvichiitika, muEngland, inenge hafu yemhuri, murume haasi mukuru kudarika mukadzi wake kwemakore anopfuura mashanu, hafu yakasara yemhuri yakagovana zvakafanana kune iyo mudzimai wacho ari muduku kudarika mudzimai wake, uye iyo iyo mukadzi ari muduku kudarika murume wake kwemakore anopfuura matanhatu.
Sezvenguva dzose, vaAmerica vakazviisa ivo pachavo. Vakasarudza kuti nguva yakasiyana pakati pemurume nemukadzi zvinenge zvisingaiti hutano hwevana vavo. Zvinonyanya kukosha ndiyo nguva iyo mukadzi akarasikirwa nayo mhandara. Vana vakagwinya vakaberekerwa kune avo vakarasikirwa noumhandara pazera remakore gumi nemanomwe kusvika kune gumi nevasere. Uyewo vane mikana yakawanda yekuumba mhuri yakazara nevana (uye veAmerica vane mhuri shoma uye shoma gore negore). Muvana vevakadzi vakatanga zvepabonde upenyu hwakapfuura, kana, zvakare, shure kwezera iri, zvirwere zvakawanda zvakawanda kwazvo.
Vanachiremba vokuRussia, mushure mokunge vaona nhamba yakawanda yemichato, vakawana kuti mune imwe yemitambo mitatu, murume akwegura kupfuura mudzimai wake kwemakore maviri kusvika mashanu. Anenge akaenzana nemhuri umo mukadzi ave akwegura kwemakore anoverengeka uye umo muwakaroorana ari nemakore matanhatu kusvika gumi. Mimwe michato shomanana pakati pezera. Maererano nehuwandu, hutano hwepakati pegore-gore hunowanzopedzwa pazera remakore. Uye mune imwechete yemhuri makumi maviri mutsauko mukati makore pakati pevakaroorana kwemakore anopfuura gumi.
Pane imwe nzira inofadza. Mukadzi uyo akakura zvikuru kupfuura murume wake anomugamuchirazve. Kusiyana kwepakati pakati pevakaroorana, zvisati zvishoma mikana yemukadzi kuti atore murume wake maererano nemari.
Asi zvakakosha here kubatanidza zvakakosha zvakadaro kune musiyano muzera? Nenzira yakanaka, tine mimwe michato ye rudo kudarika nyore. Uye kana pane rudo, saka zera harina zvazvinoreva zvachose. Ndinofunga kuti mudzimai anofanira kunge ari muduku kudarika murume wake. Mhuri yakadaro ichava yakasimba.