Kuve yakakosha uye yakasiyana nevamwe ndeipi mukana kana chirango? Iva muchitenderedzwa chehama nesikana, taurirana, ushande ...
Kwose kwatinosangana nevamwe vanhu, tinofanira kuda "kupfeka masikisi", zvishoma kusvikira pane imwe nguva. Tinowana mune imwe mhando yemufaro, chiitiko, unyanzvi. Asi chaizvoizvo kuti ive chaiyo inokosha zvikuru kune mukadzi wese ...
Nguva dzose mafungiro akanaka, kumweka kwe "Hollywood", chimiro chakanakisisa uye chimiro chekugadzikana chehupenyu - izvi zvose zvinoratidzika sezviri kurondedzera kwe heroine yemufirimu kupfuura mukadzi chaiye. Tine matambudziko mazhinji uye kutambura, hope dzisingagone kuzadzika, uye kushamisika. Mugumo wekuguma tinomanikidzwa kusangana nekumwemwerera, uye kunyange neshamwari dzepedyo tinogovana nekusava nechokwadi kwedu kwakanyanya.
Saka zvinosvika pakuti isu hatiwanzodi kugara tiri toga nesu, pamwe nesu, vanenge vasina shamwari, kwete kunyange hama. Mushure mezvose, kuti zvive zvakakosha, izvo zvinonyanya kukosha kumudzimai wese, zvakaoma-iwe unoda kutevera.
Zviri pachena kuti mune dzimwe nguva dzoupenyu zvakajeka zvikuru kuti zvishoma "kubudisa halo," bvisa muganhu wepamusoro uye ubatanidze boka. Kunyanya kana pakauya nguva yekushandura uye kusava nechokwadi, kusazeza nekusava nechokwadi. "Tose tiri vakanyanya kufara," tinofunga. "Munhu wose haagoni kunge asina kukanganisa," tinozvitaurira isu pachedu, sechinyorwa chepamusoro chekubiridzira. Uye tinoenda zvinyararire, anenge ari muhudyu. Kutanga kuchikoro, kuedza kuchengetedza nemafashoni emafashoni - tinosangana uye tinotsvoda, tinopfeka pantyhose, iyo amai vangu vanonyanya kushevedza vakakodzera chete kune vakadzi vekuita basa rekare ...
Isu takakosha, asi ivo vakafanana ...
Ipapo vasikana vanoenda kuchikoro, uye iwewo. Nokuti ndizvo zvakafanira. Hongu, uye vabereki vanoti: "Ita izvozvo, mwanasikana!" Uye pano iwe unopedza makore mashanu, uchidzidza basa risingazivikanwi uye uchiwana dzidzo inokosha. Uye uchibuda kunze kwemasvingo ehurumende, nekutya kuziva kuti ikozvino iri basa rako rehupenyu! Uye chaizvoizvo kuva munhu chaiye zvinokosha zvikuru kumudzimai mumwe nomumwe - asi tinopfuurira kugoverwa panzvimbo yepamusoro kwete yepamusoro yebasa kana tinotsvaka nzvimbo yemunyori anoratidzirwa kumukadzi. Chii chatingataura pamusoro pehutano apo mweya unokumbira, kuchema, kunyengetera-uye isu tinotevera boka revanhu?
"Asi iwe," iwe uchapindura, "hazviiti nguva dzose kuti uwane zvauri kuda zvikuru!" Hungu, vashomanana vanhu vanowana kubata kana kukura petunias. Asi kunyange ivo muenzaniso wekuti zvakakosha zvakadini kuti mukadzi wese ave akakosha! Kana vaya vashomanana vakatsungirira-uye iwe haunakidzwi ichi chakadzidzwa, chifananidzo chakareruka, iyi inoronga hurongwa hwechipiri mukudzoka kwe "prima" iwe unogona kuva!
Mukadzi, pasinei nokuti ane kodzero huru uye, kunyange zvakadaro, mitoro inofungidzirwa, inoramba iripo muhurumende yekare. Mune imwe nzira iyo isingakoshi kuve yakakosha, apo inonyanya kukosha kuva "kufanana nevamwe vose," mukadzi wese anofanira kukwikwidzana nevamwe. Penguva yekudzidza, kuroora "varume ivavo" (avo vanoita shamwari kana vabereki), munguva yekubereka vana, kunyange kana mumwe wekuchema kwavo iwe wakasvibiswa kubva kumamoni.
Haasi munhu wose anoberekwa Mozart, kwete munhu wose anogona kuva Curie-Warehouse kana George Sandy. Asi iwe unogona kuwana iwe pachako iwe oga, tsvaga nzira yehupenyu yaunoda. Mushure mezvose, kutevera nzira yako pachayo inopesana ne-kwete, kwete chinangwa, asi kungofunga kwevanhu - nesimba remukadzi wese, uye kuva munhu chaiwo kuitira kuchengeta utano hwepfungwa.
Ode kuva nemufaro
Mufaro - kwete imba uye kwete murume, kwete hupenyu kana vana. Mufaro hauiti. Mufaro ishungu iyo nguva nenguva inoshanyira isu. Uye mufaro mukuru ndewekukwanisa kuinzwa. Dzimwe nguva, kunyange muurombo husingagoneki, kusuruvara, kuora mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo, iro iro rairo rekufara ratinowanzosuwa riri kuongorora! Saka sei, munguva yedu yakaoma, vazhinji vanozvironga pachavo "kurasa"?
Izvo zvinoshamisa zvehutano hwevanhu "kubudirira" ndeyekuti inoteverwa nekuodzwa mwoyo uye neuroses, kutambura kwakavanzika, uye musikana akanaka kwazvo anova mutezo. Kuti uzvinzwe iwe, inzwi rako romukati rinokosha zvikuru! Usazvibvumira kuva "sevamwe vose," nokuti inokosha zvikuru kumudzimai wese. Nzanga inogara ichitsvaga mitemo yayo - asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti inongoponesa chete.
Unoda zvimwe here?
Kana iwe uchida kurarama pane chimwe chinhu kunze kwekuti "kurarama" (uye izvi ndizvo izvo vechidiki maximalists vanorota pamusoro), kana iwe usingadi uhu huri humwe - asi chishamiso chezuva nezuva - pane nguva dzose mukana. Nzira dzose uye mapeji ose akagadzirira kupa hupenyu pachahwo - zvinongoda kumira kweminiti, rega kushanda madenga. Ibva pedestal, bvisa maski, famba parutivi. Ikoko, apo chiedza chemasese hachisi chakajeka, unogona kukwanisa kufunga nezvako zvishoma.
Kuti uite basa, kuzviita nounyanzvi zvakanaka. Kuzvipira iwe kunyika chaiye kune ngozi chete-kana zvisina kudaro ichava gorosi risingagoneki nyoro uye kuongorora mavhenisi pazvipikiri zvayo. Asi dzimwe nguva unofanirwa kuzvibvumira kuti uve chaiye, unokosha, kwete kutevera nzira imwechete yakafanana nevamwe vose. Enda iwe pachako. Uye kana hutungamiri hwave hwakajeka, unogona kusarudza kubva pamasukisi ezvokudya zvatinosangana nawo. A "genzi" akazvimirira uye akazvimiririra kana kuti munyoro "ruvara rutsvuku", pamusoro pezvo munhu anodikanwa ane hanya - kusarudza iwe chete.
Amai vanopa mazano, vanambuya vanopa mazano, vashandi pamwe chete nevarume, vashandi uye apothecaries - vose vane maonero pane account yedu. Asi chokwadi pamusoro pezvatinoda, tingararama sei mufare - chete isu tinoziva, zvakasiyana uye zvakasiyana. Uye zviri mune izvi isu takaita zvakafanana - mune zvakasiyana.
Uyezve hukama nevarume huri kusimbiswa, mumweya-spring, imba-mukombe wakakwana. Mushure mezvose, kana iwe uchiziva zvaunoda kubva munyika - nyika yakagadzirira kupa isu rupo rupo.