Sei? Kutanga, nokuti zvachose vanhu vose vane pfungwa yezvigadzirwa. Chechipiri, vakadzi pachavo ndivo vane mhosva. Hungu, isu isu, vakadzi. Chinhu chakakosha zvikuru chatinokanganwa nacho
· Murume muvhimi. Mariri, yakave yakagadzirwa kwemazana emakore paine chimiro chemazwi, uye kubvisa nyota yake yekusingaperi, kushambadzira hakubatsiri, zvisinei zvaaida. Kuzvisikwa haugoni kutsika. Nokudaro, nokukurumidza apo varume vanorasikirwa nekunakidzwa, vanozviisa pasi, zvichida vasingazvizivi ivo pachavo, vanotanga kutsvaka chinhu chitsva.
Kusara usina murume anodikanwa mushure mekuparadzaniswa naye, asi uchida kuzvidzorera, unofanirwa kusarudza nzira dzakanaka dzekuita. Kutanga, iwe unofanirwa kuzviswededza pamwe chete uye usazviisa pamutauriro wevanhu, uchizvicherera zvakanyanya mumweya wako kurangarira pamusoro pekutambudzika kwako kwakaoma. Pane zvakasiyana, sangano revanhu vari pedyo nemwoyo richabatsira kukurumidza kuunza pfungwa nemanzwiro zvakare kumashure. Zvakakosha kukunda kusuruvara, mushure mokuchema, kuora kunotungamirira ku kuparara kwekutya, uye varume vanotya nevanonyengedza. Pasina mhosva usazvitsivira kune waunoda. Kana iye chete uye iye oga ndiye ane mhosva yekuputsa kwako, usazvitsivira, zvisinei kuti zvakaoma sei kuchengeta kubva pazviri. Rega mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro ufukidze pfungwa yokuti uipi hwose hunodzoka sehuomerang uye hupenyu huchamuranga, pasina rubatsiro rwako. Zvakakosha kuyeuka, kana iwe uchida kudzoka mushure mekuparadzanisa uye kuchengeta murume.
Mushure mokunge makagumbuka, vakuvadza, garai zvakakwana, tsvina mabhegi ari pasi pameso enyu kubva kumisodzi kwenguva refu, gadzirirai kurwisana kwekudzoka kwemurume. Kuonekwa
· Chinhu chokutanga icho munhu anotarisira, kunyanya mumiriri wehutano hwakasimba. Yeuka kuti wakatarisa sei pakutanga kweukama hwako naye, zvaaifarira zvikuru. Basa rako harisi chete kudzokera kuchifananidzo ichocho, asiwo kuti riite kuti rive rakajeka uye rinoshanda. Murume wako haafaniri kungoona mukati mako uyo akambodana murudo, mushure mekuparadzanisa, anofanira kunge achida murudo rutsva. Mhedzisiro inowanikwa uye iwe unoona mumaziso omurume kufarira kwechokwadi mumunhu wake? Usakurumidza kufara. Kuwedzerwa manzwiro kuchaita kuti iwe uite kukanganisa.
• Ratidza simba rako. Mukuzvibata nevarume iwe haugone kuva wakakwana chaiwo, unoda kudzidza kuti uite basa. Kunyanya kukosha kwevarume mushure mekuparadzaniswa. Paanoona kuti ainge akanganisa, achifunga kuti anokuziva zvakakwana, kufarira kwake kuchawedzera kunyanya, uye zvichida iye achatanga kutsvaka nyasha yako. Mune nguva ino zvakakosha kuti usakundwa nechiedzo chekukurumidza kupinda mumoto unopisa wemusanangurwa wako, kukanganwa kusuruvara kwekuparadzanisa. Chengetedza kure, gara wakanatswa uye usingaoneki, uchiita kuti uwedzere. Iyi maitiro ichaita kuti munhu wacho azviremekedze uye kunyanya kushamisika kana kusvikira panguva ino muhukama iwe zvachose wakanyangarika mukati maro. Paunoona kuti wako wakasarudzwa akakwana "wakagadzirira", unogona kuratidza tsitsi dzako.
Ichokwadi, kuzadzikisa kudzoka kwemurume mushure mekuparadzanisa kwenguva refu hakusi kwakaoma. Zvakaoma zvikuru kuichengeta. Dzidza kuti usapinda pane imwechete. Usambofa watizarura mweya wako zvachose, uchizvipira kune dzimwe nguva pasi pemakongero akawanda uye mhiko dzekusingaperi rudo. Mashoko
Iyi inongova nzira yekuwana nzvimbo, nzira yekukwezva mumutanda wako, kuti utende kuti mazwi ndeye nzira yakananga kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo. Iwe haugoni kubata murume pasina kumubata. Ratidza simba rako, usatya kutya kurasikirwa naro. Musarega varume vachiziva kuti nyika yenyu yose yakavakwa pedo navo uye munhu anodikamwa
Pakati pezvose. Pakarepo pavanonzwisisa kuti mukadzi akagadzirira chero chinhu nokuda kworudo, kuti haagoni kurarama pasina mudiwa wake, zvino zvinopesana zvinoitika, uye kuti wapfuura. Nokudaro, zita rako rechipiri rinofanira kunge riri izwi Chakavanzika. Gadzirisa mukadzi kusvika kumagumo
· Iyo yakagadziriswa yakafanana neyemunhu wese. Uye kana asingagoni kuzvigadzirisa, achakufarira iwe nezvose zvakabatana newe. Uye ichi ndicho chikonzero chakanakisisa chekuvaka kwakanaka kwehukama uye kugadziriswa kwechido mukati mavo.
Mumukadzi apo pane nguva dzose inofanira kunge iri chakavanzika. Paanenge aripo, murume uyu achaedza kuigadzirisa, mukadzi uyu acharamba achimufadza. Uye zviito izvi, zvaanogona kuenda kuzogadzirisa iyi puzzle, zvichiri zvakasimba kwazvo, uye zvinonyanya kukosha iwe uchashamiswa nekushamisika.