Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura iwe wakatamba naye muchitoro uye "wakatenga" motokari dzake, achichema nemirazi yakajeka. Iye zvino anoshandisa mari pahurushit, anokumbira sneakers anodhura, "kufanana nevamwe vose," uye anonyarara achiba zvishoma. Nzira yekudzidzisa sei mwana nemari? Saka, tichatanga mutsamba wekukurukurirana kwevabereki: vana nemari - iyi nyaya inobata munhu wose.
NESANGANO KUNYANYA
Pakutanga kwehupenyu hwehupenyu, mari haitauri zvachose. Sezvakaita pakutanga kwevanhu. Mwana wacho akafanana nemotokari yemumwe munhu here? Pane nzira nhatu dzakatendeseka dzekuchera:
a) kubata uye kumhanya kubva kunebhokisi rejecha (kubata pfuma yeumwe munhu);
b) kurwisa muhondo (hondo);
c) kumupa tangi yake yakabvongodza (iyo kuchinjana murugare kwe "zvinhu - zvinhu").
Exchange process. Exchange - iyo inofanirana nehutano hwemari, uye huwandu hwayo hunopupura kune imwe nzvimbo yakakwirira yekufambira mberi. Mabhuku, matepi, matoyi, disks - chinhu chimwe nechimwe chine maziso emwana chimwe chinhu chinokosha, kunyanya kusina musoro, manzwiro. Somuenzaniso, anodhura musikana weGermany doll anochinja nyore kune "guru" guru mune imwe shoebox.
Kuchinjana kwe "mari yemari-to-war" inopinda mukuziva kwomwana panguva dzakasiyana. Izvi zvinonyanya kurongwa nemhuri. Kune pfungwa yokuti vana nemari hazvisi izvo zvinoenderana, chinhu chikuru ndicho munda unokudziridza, mimhanzi. Asi, kufunga pamusoro pepamusoro, usakanganwa kuti ndoga iwe unogona kuisa mumwana wako kunyatsoona uye kugadzikana mafungiro emari. Kana iyi inoculation inonoka nemumwe munhu ane humwe hutano hwehupenyu, zvinetso zvinogoneka.
Kutanga misangano. Kubvumira mari muhupenyu hwemwana inogona kuva makore anenge 2.5-3, panguva imwechete nezvimwe zvinhu zviduku. Kwaari ichava kungoziva.
Kutamba nemwana ari muchitoro, shandisa pfungwa dzevabereki vako: usatora mabhatani, asi mari. Vagezai pamwe chete, vashongedze nemuchepa wemasuo - panguva imwechete kuratidza kuti mari yakasviba.
Kune mwana wemakore 5-6 unogona kuita mapepa emapepa emarudzi akasiyana - zvichava, nenzira, chiitiko chekutaura pamusoro pezvakaitika uye geography. Vadzidzi vekuchikoro vanogona kukubatsira kubhadhara muchitoro, kuisa shanduko muhomwe yacho: "Tinotanga kuverenga mari yemapepa ndokuiisa muhomwe, ndiyo inonyanya kukosha, uye ipapo mari."
Ukama hwakakomba. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mwana mumwe nomumwe anotanga kunzwisisa kuti mari inogona kuchinjwa kuva zvinhu chero zvipi zvayo - mapikicha, ice cream, thikiti kuenda kumusikisi. Sekuve mumakore 4-5, vana vanogona kugovera zvishuvo zvakanaka pakati peungano - zvechokwadi, kusanganisira imwe yezvokudya uye mafaro.
Tora pfungwa idzi mumasikisi nehombwa yakakanganiswa kana bere rinokara, iro rinoda, somuenzaniso, 10 ice cream "Gourmand". Asi gore negore mitambo yako inofanira kuva pedyo nehupenyu hwechokwadi.
Vana vanokura - zvido zvavo uye zvido zvavo zvinokura. Icho hachisi chinhu chakafanana. Jeans - ichi chinodiwa (zvinokosha). Designer jeans - ichi chido (Ndinoda). Inoramba ichiwana kuwana mukana (ndinogona). Kuti uwane kutenga, zvakakosha uye zvakakwana kuti "zvakafanira", "Ndinoda" uye "Ndinogona" kutendeuka pane imwe nzvimbo. Asi ...
"Vabereki - maziso ekupedzisira anokwanisa -anonyunyutira mupfungwa yepfungwa 14 ane makore Pavel N. - Vanoona ichi ichi iwe" Ndinogona "chete kune zvakakosha" unofanira ", kuitira kuti usaenda usina kupfeka!" Cherechedza kuti Pasha haasi "kubvamburwa" - . Mu jeans kubva kuArani.
Basa revabereki, uye dzimwe nguva rwechiremba wepfungwa, ndekuzarura mwana-mwana ari kukura kune zvaanogona. Ikoko kupi masimba emashiripiti ari, zvakakwana kuti "adive"? Iko guta guru rega roga roga rinomira pamitanda mitatu: mhomwe mari, inopiwa uye yakawanikwa.
ZVITATU ZVITATU NEZVO ZVITATU
Pocket mari. Kazhinji kazhinji kechidiki mashomanana ezuva nezuva anonyanya kudiwa kuvana kubva pamakore 6-7. Zvinhu zvekushandiswa zvinonyanya kudya - jisi kana mupumburu pakaputsika. Asi iwe unogona kuita pasina bhu! 15 mabhesi pazuva ndeye makumi matatu nemakumi matatu emazuva maviri. Uye zvakadini iwe unoponesa neMugovera ... Usamutsamwira mwana kana akaponesa. Asi zvingava kuchenjera kushandisa mari, kuisa mberi, kuwedzera.
Vadzidzisi vanotenda kuti mukati pemwedzi mitatu mwana wacho akajaira kufunga nezvekuzvipira, kuchengetedza mari yakarurama, kuyeuka kuti vangasara sei. Ndicho chinonyanya kukanganisa vana vaduku - izvi zviri kuronga. Havazivi kuti "mavhiki matatu gare gare" chii. Kana iwe uchibhadhara chikwama kwe mwedzi isati yapfuura, hapana chichasara kwavari shure kwemazuva 5-6. Saka, mumakore ekutanga, kupa mari kamwechete pavhiki.
Mhekiti yemaresikiti inowedzera nezera revana vedu. Zvakadini kubhadhara? Iko hakuna chidimbu chepasi rose. Paunenge uchigara pedyo nemwana kune mwana, unogona kufungidzira zvaanoda chaizvo. Akanga ane musikana here? Shamwari dzave dzichiwanzoita mujimini? Iwe uchafanirwawo kufungisisa izvi zvinodhura, uyewo mari ye "glands", cinema, cafe ...
Zvinokosha. Mari yepahomwe inoburitswa mumari yakagadziriswa mukati mezvakaitika nguva yakatarwa, haisi pasi pekupa ruzivo (mune chero zviitiko, zvinotsanangurwa) uye haigoni kubviswa kana kurangwa kana zvichirasikirwa kana kusagadzikana kushandiswa.
Zvipo. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzepfungwa dzeRussia dzinofunga kuti kupa mari kumwana kusvika pamakore gumi nemasere kusvika kune gumi hakubatsiri. Tarisa pane zvaanoshuva - hongu, sarudza naye - hungu, ruoko mune envelopu - kwete! Kukosha kwehopurupu kunoshandurwa seiyi: "Ndine mari, asi hapana nguva yekuti iwe. Handina hanya kuti chii chaunofarira, izvo pfungwa dzako dzakabatikana nadzo. Isa tsoka dzako mumaoko ako uye iwe pachako. "
Kana zvakadaro imwe yehama yakapa papepa - fara nemwana! Asi nyaya yacho: "Yeuka, iwe wakarota garaji yemotokari? Tete Ira akazvinzwa! Mangwana tichaenda pamwechete kuzotenga chipo kwaari. " Newechiri kuyaruka aya nhamba haazopfuuri, uye haadiwi. Ingotaura chete: kuti acharasa sei mari - achadya ice cream kana kuti achatenga chimwe chinhu chinokosha?
Zvinokosha. Mwana wacho haafaniri kupedza mari yakabhadhara seyakaipa. Bvumirana kuti anowedzera kupa, uye iwe unotora chisarudzo pamwe chete kumakurukota emhuri.
Basa revana. Hazvina kunyanya kukosha kukurukura nezvechinetso: Ndinobhadhara mari yekudzidza, kuchenesa kana kufamba imbwa here? Usashushikana nechishuvo chakakosha chemabasa aya ezuva nezuva - chido chekuzvimirira nekubudirira, chido chekubatsira vabereki, rudo rwemhuka. Chimwe chinhu mabhonasi, mabhonasi akakonzerwa ne "nguva inopfuura". Pukuta matafura matanhatu mukicheni, tora 2 litres e raspberries pa dacha-iyi ibasa rechokwadi revanhu vane makore 6-7, maungapa. Chinhu chakanakisisa - basa remhuri-rose, iro pamwe chete richakubvumira kuwana zvishoma kana kuchengetedza. Saka, somuenzaniso, mhuri yemakore gumi nemaviri anonzi Misha K. kaviri pagore inodha mahwindo muhofisi yababa. Hafu yemari yawanikwa inowanzodyiwa pa "Baskin Robbins", uye chikamu chakaparadzaniswa zvakaenzana. Uye kunyange zviri nyore kuti Amai vape Misha mari iyi pasina (mhuri haisi murombo), nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero iye atogadzirira "subbotnik" kwemakore matatu, dzimwe nguva achitora shamwari dzaMisha.
Zvepamutemo unogona kuwana basa kubva pazera remakore gumi nemaviri. Semuenzaniso, nokuda kwemahofisi anotumira tsamba, anokurudzira, muchengeti wepanyika uye ad ad booker, vechidiki vanoona zviri nyore kugara muzhizha, munguva dzezororo. Maviri ekutanga "mabasa" achada kana kubatsira kubatsira unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana wevechiri kuyaruka, kukwanisa kufamba nemepu, kuverenga nguva. Kubhadhara kwakanyanya muMoscow kuri 6.5-8 zviuru zveRubles pamwedzi. Kana mwana wenyu akwegura akasarudza kutsvaga basa - musati mhanya mberi kwechivako! Zviri nyore kuti iwe uone nekusvina zvipikiso zvisinganzwisisiki uye zvinyoronyoro "kusunungura" avo vakamira. Asi! Pfungwa yekupedzisira muchisarudzo inofanira kuiswa nemunhu anenge asarudza.
Zvinokosha. Mwana ane kodzero yekushandisa mari yakagadzirirwa pachake. Asi kana iye achida kutenga ice cream kwemhuri yose, ndicho chiratidzo chakanaka. Zvinokwanisika kutaurira mberi nenyaya pamusoro pemari yekutanga yababa, mbuya, hanzvadzi yakakura.
Pakuguma kwemisangano yedu yevabereki isinganzwisisiki, vana nemari hazviiti kuti zvinyatsosiyana. Asi ndinoda kutaura nezvekuti, pasinei nekuedza kwevanhu vakuru, dzimwe nguva vana vachiri munzira yekuba. Vana vanoba mari. Sei?
5 NOKUDZIDZA KWEVANHU VAKADZIDZA
1. Kusatarisira kwakakwana kubva kuvabereki. Vana vanoteerera vanoedza kutora pfungwa kunyange nenzira iyi - tarisai, ndiri mbavha! Nenzira, panguva imwe chete chero chinhu chinogona kuva chinhu chekubata. Uye kuba zvinhu kubva muchikwama chemai vangu pano ndicho chakanyanya "chisina maturo".
2. Chido chekuzvipira. Imwe classy inotsvaga bhora, yechipiri mumathematics nguva dzose, ruoko runokwidza. Uye kana umwe kana mumwe - maitiro ekumira sei? Izvozvo zvingave kutenga chidimbu "chip", kuitira kuti vose vafukidzwe kuona! Kunyanya muvechiri kuyaruka.
3. Chido chekusava nani kune vamwe. Inotungamirirwa pakutanga kune zvidyidhe, uyezve-kumapfeko, "magadhi" uye mari yehomwe.
4. Muedzo wokuregererwa. Kana mari "kwete nhoroondo", apo amai nababa vakashongedza mapepa mumapato uye vateki vemupfeki, mwana haagoni kumira.
5. Kunyengera kubva kune vakwegura - izvi zvinowanzoitika kuchikoro kana mudivi.
CHINANGWA MUTEME:
Natalia Panfilova, nyanzvi yepfungwa dzepfungwa
Apo pachava neve vanhu vane mupfumi kupfuura iwe. Ungabatsira sei vana vako kutora izvi? Vanotanga kuongorora uye kuenzanisa simba rekutenga kwemhuri dzakasiyana kubva pamakore 6-8. Enzanisa mumatayipi ekutanga, uye ipapo zvipfeko, imba, motokari. Uye mibvunzo inotanga:
- Amai, sei tisina dhi rekudhara rakadaro munyika? Sei Katya achityaira mutyairi? Ungatenga bhasikoro saPavlik's here? Dzorera mukutsamwa: "Hatina mari iyi, tisiye yoga," - kwete chisarudzo. Iwe unotungamirira dambudziko iri mukati, kumutsa godo nemakaro mumwana, zora kuzviremekedza. Sei ungava?
Rute nhamba 1. Usarasikirwa nemafungiro emunhu - kutaura! Nevana vakwegura, munogona kutaurirana nezveramangwana: "Kubva negodo rako hapana chichachinja. Iwe unoda motokari yakadai-ngatitii kufunga nezvei uye apo zvichange zvakakodzera kuzviita. Tichabatsira zvechokwadi. " Vana vaduku, zvisinei, shandura, uye kwekanguva: "Iwe unofunga, bhasikoro! Tiri kuenda ku zoo mangwana naBaba. " Asi usadzike zvirongwa zvenguva refu, nokuda kwechecheche mugore rimwechete-saka usambofa.
Rute nhamba 2. Usafunga kuti vana vanozvikudza chete kwezvinhu. Ungada kuziva kuti vanozvirumbidza sei nezvatinoshandisa! Amai vaamai, volleyball yababa pamahombekombe, mukoma mukuru mumotokari akadzingirira ... Nguva dzose anopa kukudzwa kwemwana wekuita iwe nemhuri yake.
Rute nhamba 3. Nhamba yemari mwana inofanirwa kunge inofanirwa kuvimba nezvinhu zvitatu: a) kukwanisa kwemhuri, b) zvinodiwa nemwana, c) nhamba yezvinhu zvevadzidzi vake. Izvi zvinhu zvakaenzana!
Rute nhamba 4. Nharaunda yezvakatipoteredza, zvisikwa zvinosarudza mberi. Zvakakosha here "kuzvidzora", kuwana mari kune chikoro chevakuru, kana mwana wako aripo kunyara pamusoro pemotokari dzake dzeChinese kana sneakers? Sarudza chikoro, chikamu, studio, uko iwe haufaniri kuuya pane yako stallion uye nedamondi cufflinks.