Kuzviratidza kwekunzwa kunzvimbo yakakwirira yehukama hwehukama. Uyo akayambuka uye akakura, akazosvika pakakwirira yekunzwisisa kumwe. Zvose zvakanaka mukuenzanisa, kunyanya kana manzwiro ari pamwe chete, zvino zvakanaka uye zvakakosha kuratidza apo hukama hunovakirwa pane kuvimba, kutendeseka uye kutaurirana, zvichave zvakanaka kune vose murume uye mukadzi kuti ave pamwe chete. Kazhinji, vakadzi vanonyanya kudanana muhukama. Vanoratidza kusimba kwavo pakutanga. Vanotaura pamusoro pezvavari kunzwa nemunhu, vanorota pamusoro pezvirongwa zvenguva yemberi, vanovaka kuvharidzirwa kwemhepo mumakore ema pink. Uye varume vazhinji vanongwarira munhau dzekunzwa kwavo. Vanonyatsotarisa mukusarudza kwemashoko uye mumabasa avo. Kazhinji havatombozivi kuti vangada sei uye kuti vangada sei, havazivi kana kuvhura mukadzi. Vanowanzoshamisika kana murume akazarura manzwiro ake kumukadzi?
Kufanana nevakadzi, varume vakasiyana, vane vanhu vakasiyana, vanofunga, vanoita. Munhu mumwe nomumwe akasiyana-siyana anoongorora imwe mamiriro ezvinhu, mumwe nomumwe anozviratidza nenzira dzakasiyana. Varume vanogona kugoverwa vari vega mumhando, mhando, makirasi, munogona kudana chero chinhu, asi chinangwa chekuparadzanisa mumapoka akadaro hachichinje. Saka, ivo ndevamwe: munyoro munyoro - chero kurota, Casanova uye anodiwa, anozvivimba, munyoro, munhu akanaka. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anoita zvakasiyana. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anonzwa uye anokoshesa mubvunzo uyu uri nyore, munhu anofanira kuzarura manzwiro ake kumukadzi here?
Ngatitangei, zvichida, nemunhu anozvivimba. Uyu ndiwo rudzi rwemunhu anogara achiziva zvaanoda uye kuti awane sei, haana hanya nezvipingamupinyi zvinomira pamberi pake. Varume vakadaro vanosarudza nounyanzvi vakasarudza vakasarudzwa, nokuti vanoziva unhu hupi hwavanofanira kuva nawo. Kana kamwe kamwe mukadzi aimuda, zvino iye anonyatsoziva nezvazvo, varume vakadaro havazokugadziri kumiririra kufamba kwakasimba kubva kwaari. Iko rudzi rwevarume rusingakuiti iwe uchikumbira mazano, iye achaita. Kana iye akanzwa chimwe chinhu, iye achakuudza pamusoro pemanzwiro ake, iye achavhura. Uye uku ndiko kubudirira, nokuti nemurume akadaro, hazvisi kutyisa kuvapo, unoziva kuti ane chivimbo maari uye remangwana rake, kubva kwaari munhu haafaniri kutarisira kushamisika kusingafadzi.
Mukomana munyoro, kana kuti inogona kunzi kurota neimwe nzira. Varume ava vane unyoro, vakavimbika, vane hanya, vane rudo, zvinofadza kugara navo mukumbundirana uye kufunga nezvemangwana. Rudzi urwu rwevanhu runoziva kugadzira rudo muukama hwako, nokuti rudo kune chikamu chepfungwa yake. Varume vakadaro vakanaka, kunyange dzimwe nguva. Izvo, chokwadi, zvishoma semakiti mashomanana, anokumbira kuti ashevedzwe uye ave nechisimba, asi, zvisinei, ivo vanonakidza chaizvo. Rudzi urwu harukubvunzi kana murume achifanira kuzarura manzwiro ake kumukadzi. Iwe ucharamba uchishamisika kuti mumhuri yekutanga, pamisangano yekutanga, anobvuma kwauri mu rudo rwake rukuru uye rwakachena. Ndagadzirira kukakavadzana, zvinokushamisa iwe, nokuti kazhinji kacho yekutanga kutanga kuziva vasikana murudo, nekuda kwekutambura kwavo uye rudo. Asi zvichida ichakurumidza kukumanikidza, nokuti kunyange imwechete, ine ngozi, iyo, mukadzi, yakakwana mumhuri.
Kana iri rudzi urwu rwevarume vakaita seCasanova uye vanodikanwa vane rudo, izvi zvinoreva zita guru, zita rinoshevedza, zita, zita rakanyorwa mumasangano evanhu, vanofarira kuzvidzora ivo pachavo. Hungu ivo vakaita semakopi kubva kuRed Book, ivo havashoma munguva yedu. Uye shure kwezvose, edza kuwana mumwe munhu anoziva vakadzi zvakanaka, sei uye paanofanira kuiswa sei, kuitira kuti agutsikane. Varume ava vakanaka mupfungwa yokuti havafungi chete kuti vangazvifadza sei, asiwo kune avo vanoita navo. Hungu, maererano nehupombwe, zvichida havakwanisi kukwikwidzana, havagoni kushushikana, vanoda, vanoziva zvakawanda nezvenyaya iyi. Munhu anofanira kuzarura manzwiro ake kumukadzi here? Haazombomubvunzi mubvunzo wakadaro kune iyeyo uye vadzidzisi vake. Mhando iyi yevarume haitsvaki kuva nemumwe munhu nekusingaperi, kufunga nezvemhuri huru, inofara. Anogutsikana nekushandurwa nguva dzose kwevamwe. Uye murudo rweumwe wavo, zvirokwazvo haazobvumi, kunze kwekuti anogona kukanda mutsara wakadaro kuitira kudhonza munhu anotevera ari panhovo. Asi haazomboratidzi manzwiro ake kumukadzi, kureva, pamusoro pekuremekedza kwake. Zvichida varume ava vanongotya kukanganisa kwehukama hwavo, kutya kutya kurasikirwa kwavo rusununguko, vachitya kuchinja, havana kukura zvakare uye vanoita sevana vaduku vanongoda kugamuchira matoyi matsva.
Chimwe chinhu chiri gentlemen. Vanokwanisa mumamiriro ese, pasinei kana vari bhizinesi, ivo chete ushamwari, kana ivo hukama nevakadzi. Anogara achiziva nguva yokutaura chimwe chinhu, dzimwe nguva achabvumira, kwete kungoita mamiriro anonyadzisa. Pano mubvunzo kana murume achifanira kuzarura manzwiro ake kumukadzi, kana ari nyanzvi anogona kupindura nyore nyore. Varume vakadaro vachazarurirwa kwauri, kana vakanyatsonzwa, kana kuti kunzwisisa kuti chimwe chinhu chiri kuvhara mavari. Zvechokwadi, vanogona kutaura pamusoro pemanzwiro avo, kuzarura pamberi pemukadzi, kuratidza kuti ivo vose varume vakafanana, chii chavanofanira kuita pakutanga. Iwe unokoshesa chiito chakasimba chakadaro here?
Rudzi rwekupedzisira rwevarume ndiye munhu akakwana. Ichi ndicho chimwe chatinotenda uye chimirira kubva pauduku. Uyu ndiye muchinda akasimba uyo anotasva bhiza jena uye aponese iyo yakanaka princess kubva musungwa. Hakuchina machinda akadaro, isu pachedu tinoratidza kuti iyi inzvimbo kumunhu wese. Nokudaro, hatizivi kana murume achifanira kuratidza manzwiro ake kumukadzi, kana zvakadaro uye zvakadaro zvisipo.
Hazvina mhosva kuti munhu akadini wako wakasarudzwa. Hazvina mhosva, ichakuudza nezvekunzwa kwako muvhiki kana mwedzi, zvakakosha kuti inotanga pamberi pako uye ichave seyakagamuchirwa, yakakodzerwa chipo chekudenga. Chinhu chinokosha kumunhu hachisi chokufungidzira uye kujekesa chaicho chaanogona kuzarurira kwauri.