Apo mhuri inofa? .. Kana tisingaiti nekutarisira mhuri yakanaka? Kana kuti inongova nheyo dzemhuri yakanaka, pfungwa dzevanhu vanotarisana nechokwadi uye vanove chipingamupinyi chekufara? Mushure mezvose, mhuri inofara, yakasikwa pamusana pekubatana pamwe, kuroorana "nekuda kwerudo" - iyi inowanzova mutambo, fad yezvakasikwa. Vavengi vaviri, avo vane manzwiro akasimba, havakwanisi zvakasiyana kubva kune vakatsiga matanda kuti vavepo - handisi kuona chero chinhu, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti ndinokwezva shamwari. Apo kubatana kwemaviri kwakagadzirwa zvakarongeka, kunyange isati yasvika nguva iyo inofadza iyo yairarama "pasina kusayina" - mhemberero inofananidzwa nenguva iyo nguva inotaridzika inoratidzika kuvhara chinhu chinokosha zvikuru ...
Kuvimbiswa kwe "rudo rusingagumi" usabvumira kudanwa kwemukati wemweya, chido che "kubatana", kufara. Uye mushure mokunge vasanzwisisi, vanoronga hondo kuitira kodzero tsvene kuti vagutse zvido izvi nekubatsirwa ne "shamwari" ... "Mhuri yakanaka inhema here kana kuti yechokwadi?" - ndizvo izvo vashandi vari kuedza kuvaka ukama vari kugadzirisa zvechokwadi.
Nguva yekukwirirana ichaita mheremhere, uye kukanganisa kwehupenyu (uye hwemhuri) kuchakuvadza zvikwata zvinoshandiswa zvezviitiko zviviri zvinokanganisa zvakashata. Mhuri yakakodzera, nhema uye chokwadi pamusoro pedu kuti tiri vanaani, inotanga "kubuda" kubva pasi pehupamhi hwechocolate-vanilla romance.
Vamwe vanobvumirana nevanotsoropodza kuti chiito chakanaka hachizonzi chinhu chakanaka, uye vamwe, vachitarisira nguva inouya uye kuzere nemanzwiro, vachamhanya vakarambana, zvakare kuti vabatanidzwe mukutsvaga mufaro wavo ...
Haasi iye ...
Zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vanhu varege kuora mwoyo muwanano uye mumwe wavo vakasiyana zvikuru. Iyo yakajeka (uye, marwa, yakapararira) inofungidzira yemwana kuti pane inofanirwa kunge iri "mumwe" munhu anonzwisisa kubva kune hafu-shoko, achaita sezvinodiwa chete nokuti anoda. Uye vazhinji, pasi pesimba rezvakaitika zvemhuri yakanaka, havaoni chokwadi. Uye zvakare kubva paudiki paiva nezvakawanda zvekuodzwa mwoyo - pamwe amai namababa, avo vakanga vasina kunaka, - vari kutsvaga murume uyu. Kutonga nenhema pamusoro pe "halves", vachifamba-famba pasi pose, dambudziko iri rave richitambudzwa nevanhu kwemazana emakore!
Izvo "shumba" inogona kuonekwa mumurume. Zvinoratidzika kuti anomuda - uye semubiki, uye semukadzi ... asi chimwe chinhu "chisina kunaka", mhuri yakakosha haina kushanda. Uye kana kutarisa "zvakafanana", kana kutanga kutarisa imwe chete pasi pekusingaoneki kwakanaka. Pano unoda kuratidzira unhu uye kunyanya kuzvidzivirira iwe, asi sehuwandu - kuti ubatsire mudiwa wako kukura zvishoma ...
Vanababa nevana
Chimwe chikonzero chinokosha che "rufu" rwemhuri mutsva ndiko kujekesa kunoramba kuripo kwehukama kubva kumhuri "yekare": cavils, kukwikwidzana, kutya kuti iye (iye) achapindira nebasa, mararamiro akasiyana-siyana uye tsika. Kunyangwe dzimwe nguva haisi nyaya yekuvenga mhuri dzevabereki nekuda kwevakwambo nemukwambo. Vakawanda "vana" vanoroorana uye vanoroorwa, vachigara nokusingaperi "vanakomana" ne "vanasikana", saka mhuri yavo inovaponesa, "inobva kunze", uye kuwedzera kupi kwekutungamirirwa navo kunoonekwa seuranda. Nokufamba kwenguva, hongu, inouya kunzwisisa kwokuti mhuri yavasina kushanda, kana kuti, panzvimbo iyo, vanoparadzana musangano risingaperi "apo madzitateguru eDacha."
Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti vaviri vanorota kuti vabatanidzwe mumhuri imwe chete, vachiona kusachena kwavo kwekuteerera: vachitarisa pavanhurume vakadaro, zvinoratidzika kuti vaviri vane makore gumi vanofunga kuti pamwechete pamwe chete vachaita semurume wemakore makumi maviri anoona sebenzi. Iko kushamwaridzana kwezvino kune manzwiro epabonde ("112 nzira dzokuita kuti iende kumatenga") inoshandura vanhu, kana kuti kwete, kwete zvachose nemisoro yavo. Kuona kuti mumwe munhu ane mhanya-in anopinda sei muchamupupuri yezvido zvitsva, kunzwa, ndinoda kukuyeuchidza kuti hapana chinhu chitsva pasi pezuva.
Mhuri mumhuri
Basa revakaroorana mumhuri rinogona kusiyana, somuenzaniso, kubva kuna "amai vake" kuenda ku "mwanasikana wababa", uye zvakasiyana-siyana, uye nekuda kwekuvhiringidzika uye kusakwanisa unyanzvi kubvunza zvinenge zvichidiwa nemumwe wako, kuedza kuwana mhuri itsva pasina kugadzirisa zvinetso zvemitemo munguva yekare kuve muedzo wakaoma kune vose. Murume akaroorwa angasazove "baba vokurera", zvachose asingabatanidzi nababa vake. Wedzerai pano musanganiswa wokutengesa wemadzitateguru ehupenyu uye hwepfungwa uye vanababa vokurera, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange kubva kune wechipiri, yechitatu yewanano, murwi wehafu yehanzvadzi, hama nevose vane mabasa akachinjwa nguva nenguva, uye kuwedzera zvifananidzo zvevana vako pamusoro pevabereki vako vakafuridzirwa nemabhuku, nyaya uye mafirimu. Ezvo zvino edza kuparadzanisa mifananidzo yevakadzi neyemurume, kuisa mararamiro evanhu vese avo vakakubata mumakore akasiyana-siyana, kusimudza chiyero chehukama hwepedyo uye edza pakupedzisira kuvaka ukama hwako, saka ivo (kusiyana nezvose zvinotaurwa) vachava vechokwadi, vakasununguka kubva kune vamwe vanhu vasingatauri! Handizvo here?
"Isu" uye "Ini"
MuSlavic yedu, uye kwete dzeMadokero, tsika, maitiro eutsvene, ayo akapiwa kunzvimbo yekuroora, achiri kusimba. Kusvikira ikozvino vanhu vanoenda pasi pegwenzi uye vanotambura zvakanyanya "kuroorana mumatenga" nekuda kwe "mwari wewakapiwa" mudzimai. Midzi yemitambo iyi inogona kuonekwa zvakajeka mumitambo yekare - kuenda kurufu mushure mekufa kwemurume kana kuti "kuparara" kune vanodikanwa, vasina kuve nekuzvimiririra.
Kumadokero, uye ikozvino mune dzimwe tsika dzedu, kutevera chitendero che "isu", munhu mumwe nomumwe waiva muedzo wokutiza. Kuora mwoyo, pasina mubvunzo kunowanikwa mune rimwe boka revanhu vasingakwanisi kugadziriswa, kunyange kana achigadzirira kudya kwemanheru, uye anotungamirira vana mupaki pamagumo evhiki, zvinotungamirira pakuwa kwebhokisi re rudo kwete zvachose pamusoro pehupenyu.
Apo vanhu vaviri vanouya kune musiyano pakati pe "isu" -mhuri uye "vaviri-i" -mhuri, vanowanzoshamisika: saka iwe unoitei - uzvirasire iwe pachako kana uve "vavakidzani vari mukikiki"? Yeuka kuti muhukama hwevanhu, chirevo chekutanga 1 + 1 hachipi chigumisiro chimwe chete seyetendi, kwete "maviri", asi "gumi nemana", uye hapana che "zvikamu" chinorasikirwa nezvose zvinokosha - pachako. Chii chinoramba chiri chinonakidza kune mumwe kwemakore akawanda ...