Kubva panguva yakare kare kubatana kwemurume nemukadzi kwakanzi sevatsvene. Kukosha uye kukosha kwemhuri kunozivikanwa nezvitendero zvose zvinotungamirira pasi, zororo repasi - Zuva reMhuri rakatsaurirwa. Munyika yanhasi, mhuri haina kukanganisa kukosha kwayo, pasinei nekuparadzirwa kwepamutemo kwepamutemo - iyo inonzi "hurumende yepamutemo". Kunyange zvakadaro, sezvo munhu akazvimirira asingatori nzvimbo yepakutanga, saka hapana chimiro chemhuri chaiyo inogona kuva yakakodzera kunotsiva kubatana kwakanaka kwevanhu vanoda.
Sezvaunoziva, hurumende haigoni kuvapo pasina mhuri, uye ndivo vabereki vanovaka nheyo dzayo dzinoita kuti kuonekwa nekurera vana, kubudirira kwavo. Zvisinei, basa rakaoma iri rinoitwa nenzira dzakasiyana. Mumwe munhu anozviraramira, achifunga kuti haafaniri kusungirwa kuita chero chipiro kune kuongorora kwenyika. Mumwe munhu anounza mwana mumwe, anokoshesa uye anokoshesa, dzimwe nguva achikanda tsvimbo, uye anobudiswa munyika yose egoist yakakwana. Mumwe munhu anofunga kuti iro basa ravo rokubereka vana vakawanda sezvavanokwanisa kudyidzwa uye kudyidzwa, uye kunewo mhuri, pamwe chete nemhuri dzavo, zvakare kumutsa vana vanobvumirwa.
Mhuri umo vana vanopfuura vatatu vari kukura munyika yedu vanofungidzirwa kuva nevana vakawanda. Ndezvipi zvakanakira mhuri yakadaro? Mhuri huru uye zvinetso zvayo zvakasiyana zvakasiyana neavo vari mumhuri dzakawanda vachirera mumwe kana vaviri vana?
Zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti mafungiro evanhu vemhuri huru anogona kuonekwa seimwe yenhamo huru. Vapikisi vemhuri vane vana vakawanda, nharo huru ndeyokuti, zvichipiwa kusatarisira kwehupenyu hwemazuva ano, munhu anofanirwa kutarisa pane zvepfuma uye anogadzirisa nhamba yevana iyo mhuri inogona kunyatsosimudza. Vatsigiri vanofunga kubvisa pamuviri zvakaipa zvakaipa zvisingagamuchirwi, uye mhuri huru ndiyo nheyo yehupenyu huri munyika.
Zvisinei, vamiri vemhuri vane vana vakawanda vane matambudziko akakwana pasina kukurukurirana. Uyezve, rutivi rwenyama harusi iro rukuru zvachose. Uye izvi hazvisi pangozi, nokuti vana vazhinji vanozvarwa mumhuri yevatendi vanovimba nehuMwari, kana mumhuri umo upfumi hunovabvumira kupfeka shangu, kupfeka, kudya, kudzidzisa uye kudzidzisa. Uye pane zvinopesana, sezvinoratidzwa nehupenyu, mari yepamusoro yepfuma uye humba hwakanaka hwekugara haibatsiri kumhuri huru: mumhuri dzakadaro, sekutonga, mwana oga.
Asi hazvibviri kukanganisa zvachose mamiriro ezvinhu, kunyanya kana tikafunga kuti zvikomborero uye rubatsiro rwakapiwa kumhuri huru hazvienderani nemhando ipi zvayo inokosha. Panewo muenzaniso wakadaro - hurombo hwehupenyu hwekugara uye mari shoma shoma inogadzirisa chikamu chevana mumhuri. Ichokwadi, iyo mafungire evabereki kuti vanzwisise mamiriro ezvinhu anodiwa uye kubudirira kunokosha zvikuru: shure kwezvose, mhuri imwe neimwe ine purogiramu yayo pachayo. Mumwe munhu uye kamba yako pachako haazofungi kuti yakakwana kuberekwa uye dzidzo yevana vanoverengeka, uye mumwe munhu achava nezvakawanda zvekugara kwemaviri maviri-muimba yeimba. Chinhu chakaipisisa pamusoro peizvi ndechekuti vana vanoita se "vashandi" kune mafambiro evabereki ekugara zvakanaka.
Kunyanya kuipa, apo vanova "vabati" vekuzviziva kwevabereki. Munyika yanhasi, vakadzi vanonyanya kufarirwa nemararamiro ebhizimisikadzi, basa rinofananidzwa nevarume kupfuura basa remukadzi weimba mumhuri huru. Uye kunyange kana akaedza kuyananidza imba huru nebasa, hazvigoneki kubudirira: simba rakapiwa kubasa rinoda kudzorerwa, uye mukadzi kumba anoda chete kuzorora. Uye vana vanoda amai, hapana nanny vanogona kutora nzvimbo yacho.
Imwe yezvinetso zvemhuri chero ipi zvayo ndiko kukurukurirana. Kutaura zvazviri, kunyange kuva nemwana mumwe, vabereki vanowanzotunun'una kuti havagoni kuva voga, kuti vaneta nekukurukura naye, kubva pane zvinodiwa kuti varambe vachifunga nezvazvo. Kunyange zvakadaro, mumhuri huru, neyi nyore - vana vakwegura pachavo vanogona kutarisira vaduku, vatore, tamba. Uye izvi zvinoshamisa kamwechete munguva dzinoverengeka: baba naamai vane nguva yekugadzirisa mamwe matambudziko, uye vana vanoshandiswa kutarisirana, vakadzidza kuva nemoyo murefu uye vane mutoro. Vanofanira kuita zvakawanda pachavo, uye nokuda kweizvi vanoziva unyanzvi huzhinji pamberi pezera ravo, vachikura zvakanyanya zviri nani kuchinjwa muupenyu. Mukuwedzera, mumhuri yavo-pamwe chete, vana vanojaira kuteerera vakuru, vanokoshesa kurangwa, hukama, kubvumira zvido zvavo, kuzvidzora kune zvikanganiso.
Zvinonzwisisika kuti matambudziko makuru uye ekuwedzera akakwana kumhuri huru, uye kumhuri dzine mwana mumwe chete. Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti matambudziko aya akangofanana, mune dzimwe nzira-yakasiyana, uye mune dzimwe mhuri vabereki vanofanira kusarudza voga, uye mune vamwe- vamwe. Semuenzaniso, muhosha dzehutachiona hwehutano hwehutano nehutano, mhuri dzine vana vakawanda dzine nguva dzakaoma - sekutonga, kana mumwe munhu achiunza utachiona, achawana zvose, uye, saka, mari yemishonga ichaenda zvisinganzwisisiki. Kubvuma ku yunivhesiti, nzvimbo yekugara yevana vakwegura, mari yekuroorana - izvi zvose uye nezvimwe zvakawanda upenyu uye matambudziko emhuri ine vana vakawanda. Mhuri yakakura, uye kune matambudziko akawanda, nokuti havasi vabereki vose vakagadzirira kuwana simba rakakwana, ushingi uye rudo kuronga pane vatatu kana kupfuura vana. Hapana munhu anopa mhosva. Asi mumwe haagoni uye haaremekedze avo vakasarudza pamusoro sohupenyu hwakadai semhuri huru.