Nokuda kwekunzwa kusingagadziki, iye akagadzirira zvakawanda, kusanganisira kushamwaridzana. Uye ivo vakasiyana-siyana, sezvaanofanirwa, vanoda zvakasiyana-siyana-ari kutsvaga kufara mumuviri muukama nemukadzi, nokuti iye akagadzirira kubhadhara nerudo rukuru. Kune, hongu, kunze, apo murume nemudzimai vanochinja nzvimbo: vanofambisa kunakidzwa kwepabonde, uye iye, aneta nokubatana kwepabonde, anoshuva kushivirira, hukama hwemazuva mazhinji uye kudzoka mupfungwa. Vakadzi vazhinji vanorota kuti vave nemunhu akadaro. Asi kuti uzviite kubva kune vazhinji vakawanda vanoda vanoda zvepabonde chete, unoda kunzwisisa kuti mune maitiro evanhu kuti vaone kudikanwa kwehutano hurefu.
Zviito zvakasiyana, kana munhu achida zvepabonde chete.
Chinhu chakaoma kupfuura zvose kuona mukadzi ari kufadzwa naye. Asi iye, achinge aongorora mufambiro wemudiwa akadaro, pane nguva inomira kusimbisa manzwiro kwaari kwaari. Chimwe chinhu chikuru chemufumi wepabonde ndiko kukwanisa kufadza shamwari yake. Chiitiko chake chekubata nehupombwe husina kusimba chaiwo unoisa muruoko rwake matambo ekutarisa manzwiro evakadzi. Munhu akadaro anoita seanenge achingoziva kwenguva yakareba mushure mokukurukura kwemaminitsi mashomanana. Uye iye anokwanisa kunakira kwete vakadzi vezera rake chete, asiwo varume varipo mune kambani, uye vamiririri vezera rekare, uye kunyanya - vana.
Maitiro omurume anoda kungoita zvepabonde chete, anonyatsogadziridzwa muunyanzvi hwokutaura kukodzera kwakakwana. Mukadzi anoda nzeve uye ava varume vanoda chido chimwe chete chekuvaraidza usiku, vanoziva zvakakwana. Kufanana neavo vanorota nezveukama husingaperi. Kunze kwekupedzisira kune vekupedzisira, vanoda vanoda kusarudzwa vanozivawo kuti vangashandisa sei zivo iyi. Chimiro chemunhu akadaro chiri nyore kusiyanisa kubva pamashoko ekutendeseka echokwadi chakanaka pamusoro peshamwari: mazwi anorudo achafadzawo zvakafanana nekrete nhasi mutereri uye ani zvake wepanguva yake anouya ari pedyo. Hapana mubatsiri akadaro mumubatsiri wemunhu akadaro, chidimbu chakajeka. Vose varipo, asi vanobudirira, vanofunga uye vakanaka.
Rimwezve nguva.
Uyezve, mune zviito zvemunhu anoda kungoita zvepabonde chete, munhu anogona kuona chimwe chinhu chinokosha nguva dzose: haatauri shamwari yake nezvemhuri yake. Asi panguva imwe chete iye anoteerera asinganzwisisi uye anoteerera anoteerera. Munhu akadaro haazombomisi kukanganisa kwenguva yakareba yekuedza kunetseka pamusoro pezvinetso pabasa, yunivhesiti kana muhukama nevabereki. Nekunzwira tsitsi, iye achamuteerera nyaya yake, asingatongogumburwi kunyange nekudanwa kwefoni yake pachake. Ichokwadi, zuva raitevera iye aizotokanganwa pamusoro pezvose izvo shamwari yaivimba nayo yakamuudza. Kana kuita zvepabonde naye hakushamisi naye, kushuva kudzokorora. Ipapo anonyatsogadzirisa chirangaridzo chenyaya yake uye anoedza kutora kubva maari zvinhu zvakawanda zvinokurudzira mukadzi.
Chimwe chiratidzo chakajeka chomurume anongoda kufarira nguva imwe chete ndeye nyaya pamusoro pezvirongwa zvemazuva mazhinji muhukama pakati pake nemumwe wake. Varume vakadaro vanoda chaizvo kuudza munhu wese nezvechido chekuwana iyo mhandara iyeye waanogona kubvisa kutya nekunzwa kwakanyanya kunofungidzirwa kuti akafukidzira mwoyo wake nerusvingo rwechando. Maererano nenyaya dzemunhu akadaro, chifananidzo chinosuruvarisa chemakore ake akaoma chinotanga kubuda: musikana wokutanga akamupandukira, rudo rwehupenyu hwake rwakamutengesa, akatanga kumunyadzisa pamberi pevanhu vose, vabereki vake vakamurova pamberi pehama dzake. Nyaya zhinji dzinosuruvarisa dzakagadzirira kuuya nevarume vakadaro kunzwira tsitsi mukadzi wacho uye kumunyengetedza kumushamwari unonyaradza. Uye hazvinei kuti chii kubva pane zvaanenge achangotaura, zvinonyatsoitika kuti chokwadi chaicho chokuti anoshandisa chiitiko chake chinosuruvarisa kuitira kuti awane zvaanoda anofanira kutarisa mukadzi wacho.
Mhirizhonga yemukadzi.
Pane pfungwa yokuti munhu anoda kungoita zvepabonde haazobvunzi musikana pamusoro pezvirongwa zvake zvekupera kwevhiki kwevhiki kana yeNyika Itsva iri kuuya. Chikonzero chekunyengera uku hakusipo: zvechokwadi, munhu akadaro haafariri mune ramangwana reaanokwanisa kunyengedza kare manheru anotevera. Zvisinei, hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti munhu akadaro anofarira chokwadi chokuti kuda kwake ikozvino pamusoro pekushaiwa kwechido ichi hazvifungidziri. Akanga asina kuberekwa mwoyo, akazova iyo-mushure mokutadza kwezvikanganiso uye kukanganisa kunotsamwiswa navo. Mhedzisiro huru yemurume akadaro kubva kumunhu wepanguva refu, chaiye, manzwiro akazara ehukama ndeyekuti akazoita nenzira yekukurukura nemudzimai nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, sekudzidzira kosi. Kusunungurwa kubva kunzvimbo yekunzwa, dutu rakaoma rakavhara chero hukama huri pakati pepabonde, munhu anoda zvepabonde achanyatsogona kushandisa mafungiro omumwe wake kusvika aita zvinodiwa - ukama hwepedyo. Mushure mokunge iye achava iye oga oga kukundwa - chiratidzo chakapfuura, chekuyeuchidza kwakanaka kunoramba kuripo, asi munhu wezvinoreva haaoni kudzoka kwaari.
Vakadzi vakawanda vanotenda kuti murume anoda kuita zvepabonde chete ndiye nhengo yehutano hwakasimba huri husati hwasangana nemamwechete - iwe chete unogona kumurova. Nokudaro, kunyange kuona zviratidzo zvakajeka zvomurume akadaro, vazhinji vehama dzavo vanoenda kuhukama navo chete kuti vave vakafanana. Kunze kwekuti mukadzi akadaro achakwanisa kuramba manzwiro, kutya uye godo kubva kwaari, mutambo pakati pevakaroorana vakadaro unogona kuunza mufaro unofadza kune vose vari vaviri. Ichokwadi, zvichava zvinotyisa uye zvinotyisa. Asi zvakanyanya kufadza uye kwete kusina kufara. Asi pane imwe nguva apo munhu anonzwa kuti manzwiro akaberekerwa kune mumwe wake, achapukunyuka nenzira yemararamiro: kukwanisa kuparara zvachose uye musingazivikanwi humwe humwe hunyanzvi hwemhando dzakadaro dze smoothies.