Zvinosuruvarisa, munhu haasi kuteverwa nemirayiridzo yekuti ungashandisa sei, nerubatsiro rwekuti ndiani anganzwisisa zvaanonzwa pamusoro peumwe. Asi zvakadaro pane dzimwe nzira dzekunzwisisa uyo akazova kana anofarira kwaari. Zuva rokuzvarwa - chimwe chezvikonzero zvinogadzirisa mufambiro wemunhu murudo-zvinogona kuzarurira kune munhu uyo munhu uyu akanaka, zvimwe zvakawanda zvekuziva. Uye, zvichida, tibatsire kuziva manzwiro emuvengi wako.
Shumba chiratidzo chinoshamisa chezodhiac.
Ndezvipi zvakakosha manzwiro uye manzwiro anogona kukodzera mumatatu matatu akareruka, achifananidzira umambo pamusoro pezvose uye zvose. Nhumbarume murume mumwe wevanyori vakatsvuka kwehafu yakasimba yevanhu, vanogona, zvinoratidzika, vanoita kuti mwoyo unofanidza kunyange kunyange muchengeti mukuru. Uye murume weshumba ari murudo ndeyechero chaiyo wezviito zvisingafanozivikanwi, rupo muhupamhi hwepamusoro-soro uye mharidzo inobudirira yega iwe mumaziso easanangurwa.
Chii chinoita kuti tive nemafungiro evhumba murudo - varume?
Ichokwadi, nyota yake yokudanana, manzwiro, kushamisika uye rudo rwekunyengedza. Naiye, maitiro evanhukadzi vanorasikirwa nepfungwa dzose, nokuti godo - chikuru chekufambisa muhutano hwemurume murudo, akazvarwa pasi pechiratidzo ichi. Zviito zvake zvakafanana nekuvezwa kubva kune zvinoshamisa, zvipo uye zvinoshamisa zvinorwadza. Shumba murudo inogona kusvika nyore kumudiwa wake panguva ipi zvayo yemasikati kana usiku nekambani yeshamwari kungoyeuchidza iye kuti pane munhu akanaka, anoshamisa, munhu ane ushingi uye anozvikudza munyika. Uye zvichida kunyange kunyangarika kwevhiki, pasina kunyeverwa nezverwendo kune vabereki mune imwe guta uye kwete kupindura kune chero ipi zvayo kudanwa, mushure mokunge vataura nezvekuti foni yakasunungurwa, yakaiswa pa "yakanyarara" mamiriro kana kuti kazhinji yakakanganwa kubudirira pasi pemutsiro. Uye anokwanisa kuuya nesarudzo yake kune yekambani ndokukanganwa zvachose pamusoro pekuvapo kwake, achizviona achiedza kuedza kwake kushamwaridzana neshamwari dzake. Ichokwadi, kana chimwe chezviedza izvi chikabudirira, shamwari isina kubudirira ichasiya kambani yevanhu simba nokukurumidza. Uye kunyange kana panguva yakafanira musikana-in-rudo moyothrob uchazove usina kufanana, uye rudo rwake ruchazununguka zvachose - neshamwari yakadaro shumba murume haangaiti kutanga kutanga hukama hwekare hwehukama.
Murume ari murudo, akaberekwa pasi pechiratidzo cheshumba, inofanirwa kuputika kwemhepo. Penguva ipi neipi, anogona kuputika nekunyomba kushingaira uye nhamba dzakawanda dzezvakaitika pakuonekwa kweshamwari yake. Kana kuti inogona kuputika nekutaura pamusoro pekuti yakanaka sei nhasi uye kuti inonyura zvakadini mumaziso ayo anoshamisa. Murume-shumba anokwanisa kuita zvinorumbidzwa zviri nani kupfuura ani zvake. Nenzira yakawanda, kukwanisa kwake kufadza vanhu vakasiyana-siyana kunoshamisa. Uye mukuda neshumba-murume, simba iri rekunyengera rechirusa rinowedzera kazhinji. Kutamba nemurume akadaro kunyengesa hakuna kuverenga. Asi chete pamamiriro ezvinhu ekuti chiito ichi chekuratidzwa kwekuwirirana kwepakati pakati pemurume nemudzimai hakuiti chikamu chake chaakasarudzwa. Kubudirira kunofadza kubva kumudiwa wake mukuda neshumba murume hakuzoregi pasi pemamiriro ose. Zvechokwadi, haazoiti chero chakaipa kwaari: iye achangokanganwa nezvekuvapo kwake kwemwedzi, azere nekurwadziwa kwekusakodzera, mumaonero ake, kutsamwa. Asi uyo waanofarira naye, zvichida, kubva kwaari achagamuchira chidzidzo chakakomba zvikuru. Nehupamhi hwepamusoro, nemigumisiro yemuviri.
Nzira yekunzwisisa sei kuti murume akaberekwa pasi pechiratidzo cheshumba iri murudo?
Nzira yekuita shumba-mudiwa murudo ndicho chichachipa kure. Uyu munhu asina kujairika, naizvozvo hazvibatsiri kuona kutadza kwekucherechedza pane chikamu chake kana nguva dzakakosha pakati pekudana kwake, sechiratidzo chekushaya kwake manzwiro. Pane kudaro, kazhinji firimu yakadaro inonyangarika, inowanzove iri murudo. Kunyanya kana mushure mekuparadzanisa kwenguva refu anoonekwa nechic bouquet yemaruva kana chimwe chipo chechipo. Kuparadzanisa shumba murudo inzira yekusimudzira humwe humwe, kuratidza kune akasarudzwa kuti akagadzirira kumirira. Asi-kunze kwekuti kana iye achibva achinzwa tsitsi. Uye shumba yake murume inogona kusiyanisa zvakakwana. Uye kana asingacherechedzi kudzoka, ipapo muupenyu hwake mudiwa haazooni zvakare.
Muzvokwadi, pasinei nekusataurika kwezviito zveanoda-shumba murume, zviri nyore kukurudzira pane zviito izvo mukadzikadzi wacho ari kumirira. Kutanga, varume vakadaro vanonyatsoda kupa vahosi vavo zvinhu zvose zvavanoda uye zvakanyanya, dzimwe nguva vachimurambidza mukana wekutaura unhu hwake pane imwe nzvimbo, kunze kwehukama neaanoda. Chechipiri, murume uyu ane utera hwemhando mbiri: anomanikidzira pamusoro pokunyengera uye akagadzirira zvinhu zvose nekuda kwekunamata kwake kwechokwadi kune chikamu cheasanangurwa. Kubva kune vanotyisa, nezvose zvinotyisa, zvine simba, kubudirira uye kufara shumba, kana zvichidiwa, mukadzi anogona kuchinja munhu akadaro mumucheche wakagadzikana, zvinyoro uye nekuvimbika akavharidzira pamakumbo ake. Tinoda kungomuvimbisa kuti iye, kunze kwake, hakuna munhu ari munyika. Uye, chokwadi, nguva dzose inokurudzira chivimbo ichi nekuratidzwa kwekucherechedza. Asi panguva imwe chete zvakakosha kuti uchenjerere: kuva unhu hunozvida uye huchigadziriswa pakurumbidzwa kwevanhu vose, shumba mukomana inonyanya kunetseka, uye zvakaoma zvikuru inotengeswa. Haikwanisi kudanwa kunodzivirira. Chinangwa chaicho chekurova mutadzi hachina kumbobviswa, chokwadi: iye akakosha zvikuru kune zvose izvo munhu ane mhosva achazowana chirango chake. Zvisinei, shumba inogona kukuvadza, kunyange kana iye asingadi. Kunyanya mucherechedzo unamored wechiratidzo ichi chinoshamisa chezhidhiac system.
Ndezvipi zvimwe zvakasikwa muhutano hweshumba-rudo mune rudo?
Chido chekuvhenekera pamusoro pedenga. Vanogara vachitsvaka kuzivikanwa kwevanhu vose, asi kana mwoyo yavo ichipisa mumoto worudo, varume ava vari kungokara kune zvose zvekugara kwevanhu. Munhu akadaro anokwira Gomo reEverest, kungochema chete kuti anoda sei musanangurwa wake. Kana kuti achaita mhinduro muhofisi yekunyora, achida kuvonga vashandi nezvemafungiro kuti vamuteerere uye chido chake. Uyu murume asinganono achaenda rwendo rwendo rurefu, kungoita kuti anodikanwa chipo chinoshamisa zvikuru uye wokutanga achanzi azive nevabereki vake. Uye izvi hazvirevi kuti zvinangwa zvekuroora munhu waunoda. Kunyange zvazvo mukuroorana kwevanhu munhurume mushumba murudo haabvumi kwenguva yakareba: iye zvechokwadi anoda uchapupu hwepamutemo hwokuti mukadzi uyu ndeye: nhasi, mangwana uye nguva dzose.