Muhupenyu hwevanhu vose kune makore mazhinji. Tinodzidza, tinowira murudo, tinovaka ukama uye tinotsigira "mhuri" yedu - ukama hwemhuri-mhuri yezvizvarwa zvakawanda. Asi iyo yakaratidza muenzaniso wehupenyu "vechidiki - kuyaruka - muvanhu - mhuri - kukwegura" yakakodzera chete varume. Mukadzi ane chirwere chake chemakore, uye imwe nhanho muhupenyu hwake hwakazara, kubudirira kunobva pane zvakawanda.
Kubudirira kwevakadzi uye kutenderera kwezvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehupenyu, maitiro, zvinongowirirana nehupenyu hwehupenyu hwake, uye makore ake epfungwa ndeyekuratidzira kwezvaanotarisira nezvido zvake. Mukadzi ane nguva dzakadaro "dzinokosha," dzakanyatsojekesa miganhu.
Pane gore rechinomwe, pane zviri nyore kunzwisisa upenyu hwese hwekukura kwevanhu, kutaura zvakawanda pamusoro pezera remakore. "Kunyora" kwake kunonzi kune tsika dzakasiyana. Asi chimwe chinhu chakafanana-icho "mashura" nhamba yechinomwe inoratidza mitsara yemakore zvakanaka kwazvo.
- Kusvikira kumakore manomwe ari mwana ,
- Kusvikira 14 - musikana ,
- Kusvikira 21 - musikana ,
- Kusvikira 28 - murwi ,
- Kusvika kusvika 35 - amai ,
- Kusvika kusvika 42 - mudzimai ,
- Kusvikira ku 49 - mukadzi ,
- Kusvika kune makumi mashanu nemakumi matatu nepamusoro ndiko uchenjeri pachahwo .
Uyezve, vamwe vanoti maitiro acho anodzokororwa, asi vamwe vanoti kusvika makore makumi mashanu nemukadzi mukadzi akadzidza inmost wisdom uye anogona kunge ari "mukadzi akare ari wechimiro", nezwi reMweya pachayo kana kwete. Uye zvino ngatitaurire nezvemazuva epfungwa dzevakadzi uye hupenyu hwakazara hwekukura kwevanhu zvishoma.
Kubva pazera remakore manomwe , murume "asina hanya" murume anova musikana, anonzwa kunge ari wepabonde, kunyange pfungwa dzekutanga pamusoro pezviratidzo zve "zvimwe" zvayo zvinowanikwa mumakore mashanu. Uye ne14 - pfungwa yezvido zvavo zvemweya, inguva yekudanana murudo uye kubuda kwemanzwiro akasimba.
Kubvira pamakore makumi maviri nemashanu anotanga nguva itsva. Musikana uyo aimbova nemanzwiro ake okutanga uye akadzidza nyika yepakati anova nehanya kune imwe nyika. Diane-hunter, murwi, achiedza ruoko rwake munyika chaiyo uye anofarira chaizvoizvo zvinhu zvose - uyu musikana ari pasi pemakore 28. Kubudirira kwekutanga kunokurudzira, maronda okutanga anoita kuti iwe ufunge.
Uye zvino, kusvika pamakore makumi mana nemasere musikana anouya ane nhumbi yakasimba yezivo. Uye kunyange kana akaroorwa muna 20, zvino, nemitemo yezera repfungwa, chete nemakore makumi maviri nemasere musikana anosvika panguva yehutano hwakakura uye huri kubereka - uku ndiko hupenyu hwemunhu. Uye mune izvi kune chimwe chinhu chakanaka chaizvo-kungova nokuwana ruzivo rwega, zvinobvira kutaurira chimwe chinhu chakakosha kuchizvarwa chinotevera.
Kusvikira kune 35 mukadzi anofarira mufaro wekuva amai uye kuvakwa kwe "nzvimbo", urombo, mararamiro ehupenyu uye "sero iri munharaunda". Asi achiuya pedyo nechinotevera chinokosha, anoona kuti pane zvimwewo zvinodiwa. Uye vose vekare - mhuri, imba, yakagadzikana uye basa rakanaka chaizvo - raingova ganda rekudzivirira, shure kwaive rakakwanisa kuvanza kubva mumatambudziko uye kupinda mune zvakasikwa kumukadzi - kuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana.
Iko kune makore 35-42 apo vakadzi vanovandudza mararamiro avo emagariro evanhu, vanochinja nzvimbo yavo yebasa uye kunyange mhuri dzavo-zvakanyanya panguva ino ndiyo manzwiro ekuti zvinhu zvose zvinoda kuitika zvakare. Uye zvichida - nzira yakanakisisa, nokuti hauzove nenguva yekuchinja ...
Pakazosvika makore 42 kusvika ku77, mukadzi anonyaradza pasi ari oga oga uye chiitiko che "kurambana," kana kuti atova nechivimbo mumhuri yake. Izvi ndezvezera rino iro pfungwa "mukadzi" inonyanya kushanda - chokwadi chekuti ndiani, zvaanogona uye mune zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda. Zvakanaka zvinowedzera nekuwedzera, simba repfungwa uye mikana - zvakare, asi kuparara kwemuviri hakuchina kunzwika zvakare. Pakupera kwenguva ino, mukadzi anozozvibvunza mubvunzo we sacramental "ndini ani," "sei ndiri pano," "kubva kupi" ...
Uye ikozvino haisi mibvunzo yepamusoro iyo vechidiki kana varwi-vanasikana vanokunda nyika vanozvibvunza - iyi ndiyo rwendo rwechokwadi kune iwe pachako. Iye pakupedzisira anotarisa mugomba risina chigadziko chinotanga pamberi pevanhu vose. Iyi nhaurirano nekusingagumi inopikira kana kudzokera kune zvinodiwa zvinobva uye kurarama hupenyu hwevana, vazukuru, vazukuru-vakuru ... kana huchenjeri hwechokwadi, izvo zvinozopedzisira zvasvika makore makumi mashanu .
Chero upi hwepfungwa, hupenyu huzere hwehupenyu hwomunhu kubva pakutanga kusvika kumweya hwusingaperi, ndeyechokwadi, hwakanyanya. Vane nzvimbo uye maonero akasiyana-siyana mumakore 2-3, uye kukanganisa kunonyanya kuitika - kana uyu kana munhu iyeye se "akabatanidzwa" pane imwe nhanho kana kamwe kamwe anodzokera kune zvakasimbiswa kare. Asi chero "kusawirirana" kunyange kwehupenyu huripo huri hunoita sechinhu chisina kusimba.
Iko "hutano hunouraya" mumakore makumi mashanu nemakumi mashanu nemashanu, kutema maziso semusikana muduku, musikana wenyika anonyatsoziva, kana kuti asina kurembera kwenguva refu, amai vechidiki vachidonha mavoko avo, kupa mazano, vasina huchenjeri hwakakwana - zvakaoma zvakaenzana pakunzwisisa. Uye regai kusaziva, kwete kunzwisisa chinokonzera, asi vamwe vakanganisika - vanogona sei? Saka usakurumidza, kukura sezvaunoda mweya. Mushure mezvose, hakuna munhu achararama hupenyu hwako nekuda kwako - kwete hama kana shamwari, kana "sangano".