Ongororo yakaitwa, maererano nehafu yevakadzi yakapindura mubvunzo uyu: "Chii chatinoda kuti tifare?" Nokudaro: mufaro apo apo waanoshandisa kuwedzera mubairo wako uye kubva paupenyu hwevakadzi ava vanova vanofara uye vanofara. Chimwe chikamu chetatu chemadzimai enyika yacho chinotenda kuti kudai vaiva nechimiro chakanaka kune chakanaka, vangadai vakafara zvikuru. Vakadzi vaviri kubva kune vashanu vakapindura kuti mufaro mumusha wavo pachake kunze kweguta uye nhamba imwechete yevakadzi vanotenda kuti mufaro haugoni kuva usina rudo rwemumwe. Uyewo, vakadzi vazhinji vanobvuma kuti hupenyu hwemhuri hwakakosha kupfuura chivimbiso chekwembera kupfuura rudo rwepabonde, uye kutenga micheka yakanaka kunonyanya kukoshesa kwavari kupfuura kunakidzwa kwezuva rakanaka nemurume wake. Zvinopera kuti mari inounza mufaro?
Zvichida izvi ndezvechokwadi, nokuti kuva nemari munhu anowana pfungwa yekuvimba mune ramangwana. Kunyange zvazvo iwe ukakumbira shamwari dzako nevanoziva uye uchiyeuka nguva dzinofadza, ipapo chikamu chiduku chazvo chinowanikwa nemari. Vanhu ava vachakuudza nezvemashoko akadai akadaro muupenyu hwavo sekutanga kutsvoda, kuberekwa kwemwana, zororo risingakanganwiki muCanary. Zviri nyore, iwe pane imwe nguva wakaziva kuti hupenyu hwakanaka - nekuda kwezvimwe zvishoma. Nokudaro tinogona kugumisa kuti mumwe munhu anofanira kurarama munguva yemazuva uye asingazvidzi zvinhu zviduku zvinofadza, kurarama mumufaro, uye kwete kukanganisa kuzadzika kwepasi rose remangwana.
Pane maonero ekuti zvinangwa zvishomanana zvaunoisa muhupenyu, iwe unowedzera mufaro iwe. Mumamiriro ezvinhu ekukwikwidzana, uyo anokurumidza, ane simba, ane njere, ane tsvina, ane njere uye uyo anoenda kumitambo inowanzopona. Nokuda kwehondo iyi inogara ichiripo, vasayendisiti vakapedzisa kuti kubva pane izvi vanodzingirira vakadzi vanove vasina kufara. Iwe unogona kugamuchira kanoverengeka mari yakawanda kupfuura vasikana vako, asi iwe haugone kuva mupfumi kumwero wemudzimai we oligarch uye izvi zvinokonzera mukadzi kuora mwoyo.
Kana iwe uchigara uchiisa denga-yakakwirira zvinangwa uye usaramba usiri kufara nemigumisiro, ipapo mukadzi haazokwanisa kunzwa achifara. Uku kushingaira kwezvinangwa zvaro ndezvehutano hwakanaka, asi hunovhiringidza nekufadzwa nezvino. Vanhu vanofara zvikuru avo vanobatanidzwa mubhizinesi ravo ravanofarira uye vanogutsikana nebhizimisi iri.
Vazhinji vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanokurudzira, kunyange zvazvo kamwe chete mwedzi kurarama zuva rimwe chete uye usaedza kuzviramba kune zvimwe zvinofadza, nokuti ipapo uchazvidemba. Vanorayirawo kuti varege kuva negodo reredzi dzakasiyana, nokuti vanhu vanotarisa nyeredzi uye vachienzanisa navo, vanogona kunzwa sevapemhi, mafuta uye vasina mufaro. Ndicho chikonzero isu tine hanya noupenyu hweredzi, kuti tive nechokwadi chekuti nyeredzi dzose dzine kukanganisa uye nokudaro kugutsikana.
Pane mitemo 4 yekufara:
1. Tora shamwari dzako nemhuri yako zvakanyanya uye usavarega;
2. Edza kuwana basa rinokugutsa;
3. Batsira avo vari mumatambudziko;
4. Usakanganwa kuti vanhu vanofara vangave vasina chimwe chinhu.
Julia Sobolevskaya , kunyanya kune nzvimbo