Zviri nyore chaizvo kuti uzive nevakomana, chinhu chikuru haufaniri kunyara. Zviwanire zvimwe zvekuzvivaraidza, zvinokuvaraidza. Izvi zvichakubatsira munguva yemberi apo uchitaura neshamwari yako itsva. Kuziva nevakomana pazera remakore gumi nemakumi gumi nematatu kwakanakisisa kunobva pane zvinodiwa zvakafanana. Mushure mezvose, sezvavanotaura, zvimwe zvinhu zvinokuvadza zvinounza vanhu pamwechete. Chokutanga pane zvose, teerera vakomana vanokukomberedza muupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva. Somuenzaniso, kuchikoro, muchivanze, mudenderedzwa, kwaunoenda. Nenzira, iyo yekupedzisira ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuwana mukomana. Pano iwe unowanzofarira, uye unoona anenge mazuva ose. Hongu, uye mukana unokosha uri kurutivi rwako ndewekuti iwe unogona kugara uchibatsirana.
Iwe unotanga nemubvunzo: "Mhando yei inofanira kunge iri pa10-13? Uye chii chinonzi "chimiro" chinokodzera iwe? ". Pano, ndinofunga, varume vanopfuura makore gumi nemashanu havakwanisi iwe. Kana akwegura, hapana chakanaka chichauya kubva mazviri. Vakomana vacho vane maonero akasiyana zvachose pamusoro peushamwari nemusikana uye mukuru, arikuoma iwe uchava naye. Usakanganwa kuti iwe hauna kukura sezvaunofunga. Uye chinangwa chikuru chekuzivana kwako ishamwari, kukurukurirana, kufamba pamwe chete uye kubatsirana mune chimwe chinhu. Saka, pazera iroro, zvakanakisisa kutanga neukama hweushamwari pakati pako nemukomana. Nenzira, uye vaduku kupfuura 10-13 (zvichienderana nekuwanda kweuripo panguva ino), tsvaga mukomana, zvakare, hazvina kukodzera. Yeuka kuti vasikana vari muzera rino vanokura nekukurumidza kupfuura vakomana. Nokudaro, iwe hauzove uine hanya mukukurukurirana, sezvaunenge uine maonero akasiyana zvachose enyika. Saka, ngatishandisei zvakafanana kumubvunzo waunofanira kuzvibvunza. Ngatitangei pamwe chete, uye zvakadaro, munhu akajairika, anonyanya kuchenjera, "kunononoka" (iwe nevanasikana vako), mukomana anoshingaira uye anofambidzana uye panguva imwechete, zvinenge zvishoma. Vane manyawi pazera rako havadi. Munawo wose, kana mhinduro yako iri chaiyo, zvino zvakakosha kutarisa shamwari, kutanga pamunhu uyu unhu hwake.
Sezvandataura pakutanga, edza kutsvaga mukomana, achitungamirirwa nekufanana kwezvaunofarira pamwe naye. Inounza pamwe uye inobatsira kupedza nguva yakanyanya kufadza. Mushure mezvose, une chinhu chimwe chete muchienderana, nekuda kwekuti imi mose muchadzidza izvi kana kuti rudzi rwechido. Kana iwe usina mukana wekushanyira chero mugs. Usatsamwa. Tungamira kutsvaga kwako kumurume nenzira yakasiyana-siyana - shanyira kakawanda sezvinobvira zvidzidzo zvechikoro nemimwe mabasa iyo chikoro chako chinorarama. Nokudaro, iwe uchasvika pakuziva zvakanyanyobvira nevarume kubva pane zvakafanana, zvausina kumbozviona zvakare. Uye sezvavanotaura: iwe hauzive - haunganzwisisi. Saka tarisai, kamwe kamwe pakati pavo, uye iwe uchawana mukuru wako. Iwe hauna kungozviona panguva iyi. Kana iwe uri 100% uine chokwadi chekuti vechikoro havasi vako zvachose uye chido chako chikuru ndechokuwana mukomana asina chokuita nehupenyu hwako hwechikoro. Zvadaro zvakakosha kutarisa mukomana kune dzimwe nzvimbo. Somuenzaniso, tora musikana newe uye enda naye kunzvimbo yekutambira kana kumhenderekedzo. Garai nevarume kuti vatambe chimwe chinhu (volleyball, tennis, zvichida kunyange yebhola) uye hurukuro ichabatanidzwa pachayo, hauzotombocherechedza kuti iwe uchava sei neshamwari itsva uye kunze, kwete kana zvachose. Ichasarudza chete iyo yaunofanira kutora. Vakomana vako vanogara vachikoshesa vezera ravo, chii chinoshingaira, kufambidzana uye munhu anofara iwe uri. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, usatya kungoisa uye kumbira mukomana kuti sei, somuenzaniso zita rake iri uye kana zvichibvira kubatana nemutambo.
Uyewo, unogona kushandisa Indaneti. Nenzira, munguva yedu, Indaneti inoshambadza yakazara nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzakagadzirirwa zvakakwana kufambidzana, uko iwe unogona kuwana mukomana chaiyo muzera rezera rake. Uyewo, usakanganwa kubhadharira pane zvakasiyana-siyana zvemasangano evanhu (semuenzaniso, VKontakte). Iva nechokwadi chokuti ikoko iwe uchasangana nevakawanda vakawanda vari voga vanozoti, havakanganisi, taura newe. Shandura nhamba dzefoni uye usakanganwa kuronga misangano muupenyu chaihwo. Vamwe varume - mamwe mazvisarudzo. Usakanganwa nezvayo. Iwe unonyatsoda kuwana munhu akanakisisa. Saka usatya kutungamira vakomana apo pane mukana iwoyo, shandisa. Vakomana, nenzira iyo inogamuchirwa nechido chemusikana kuti azive. Saka usanetseka pamusoro pekuti iwe une chimwe chinhu, zvichida hachizoshandi. Iva iwe pachako, ita zvisizvo uye pachena. Nguva dzose uya kumusangano nekumwemwerera uye mafungiro akanaka. Yeuka zera rako rinoda iro. Ita zvakawanda zvakakwanisika pamusoro pako uye uone nezvemurume pamusoro pake, izvi zvichakubatsirai mose kuti muzive mumwe nomumwe.
Kuratidza mutsara pasi pezvose zvakanyorwa pamusoro apa, ndichati kuzivana nevakomana pazera remakore gumi nemakumi gumi nematanhatu hazvina matambudziko, kuzivana uku kunogona kunyange kukura kuva ukama. Chinhu chakakosha ndechokukwanisa kuratidza iwe pachako kwakanaka, kuti angave achifarira iwe. Asi usakanganwa kuti iwe uri mberi. Sei uchikurumidzira zvinhu zvisati zvaitika. Kana iwe uchizvida iwe nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, kufanana nemurume, iye achawana mukana wokuziva iwe, saka usakurumidza. Zvose munguva yakanaka. Pano handina kana mubvunzo kuti mumubvunzo wako pamusoro pekufambidzana nemurume, iwe mose muchaudzwa kuti mudzidze. Uye iwe unonyatsodzidza nguva, unenge uine nguva yekuudza vana vako. Iwe uchada uye unoda imwe nguva zvakare. Asi chero chii chakanga chiri, uye chero chipi zvacho, iwe usina kusarudza, ndinovimba iwe uri mumamiriro ose ezvinhu uye muzera, iwe uchawana mukomana akanaka.