Kutanga, tsvaga kuti vanotambudza vanobva kupi. Matambudziko edu ose uye zvinetso zvinobva paudiki. Mumwe munhu aigona kuberekwa nehutsika hwakasimba uye nzira dzinosvika kumwana (vanyengeri, shums) kuwana vabereki vasina simba vanoda kuzadzisa zvido zvavo. Mune hupenyu hwake hwehukuru, iye, akachengetedza maitiro ekuzvibata, achazadzisa kutonga kwake mune dzimwe nzira, achikutakura iwe unhu hwemitemo kana hupfumi kana kunyange kushandisa chisimba. Chimwe chechipiri chekugadziriswa kwevarume vekudzivirira kudzvinyiriri kunomuka, kana akakurira mumhuri yakashata, haazivi imwe mienzaniso yekuita uye inoita nzira yega yega inozivikanwa yega.
Saka, takawana zvikonzero, tisiye pahana yevabereki. Mudzimai angadzidze sei kuziva vanyengeri chaivo varume? Chengetedza yako wakasarudzwa. Anoedza kuita kuti kuda kwake kuve pamusoro pako, anogutsikana kuti maonero ake haana kukwana, anotarisira mari yako, nguva uye ndiani waunoshanyira, uye iwe unofungei, anosarudza chete kuenda kune zororo, kuti ungapedza sei vhiki - maonero ako haasi inotorwa.
Pamberi pako pane rudzi rwechipiri rwehutsinye. Asi iwe haungagoni sei kuona maari maitiro emuitiro? Pamwe iwe wakanga uri murudo rukuru, unofungidzira wakasanangurwa wako, akanga asingadi kutora mamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka maari, kana kuti akanyatsofungisisa zvaari. Iko kune dzimwe nguva mamiriro ezvinhu kana chiito chekufungidzira chinoratidzirwa nevarume chete mukukurukurirana newe, asi munharaunda yakanaka, kukudzwa uye kushivirira.
Iwe unoudza shamwari yako nezvemusha wekudzvinyirira, uye iye anoshevedzera achishamisika: "Zvakanaka, iwe, akanaka, iwe une nhanho!" Usakoshesa kufungidzira kuti iwe unogona zvakare kumudzidzisa - unhu hwake hwakatotanga, saka kana iwe usina mazisochism mukuratidzwa kwake kwakaipisisa, chikamu nacho. Usafunga kuti vatongi vechokwadi bedzi ndivo vachave vatsigiri vako uye rubatsiro muupenyu. Usatya kutambira uri woga - iwe uri munhu akazvimiririra, unonyatsoda mutungamiri wezviito zvako zvose uye tenzi wemafungiro here?
Mafungiro emagariro emhuri anopa nzira dzinoverengeka dzinogona kukubatsira kuziva mutongi chaiye mumurume: usakurumidza kuenda kuhofisi yekunyora pakarepo, sezvaunoda kuwana chido chekuchiva chemudzimai wepamutemo. Urarame pamwe chete, dzidzirane. Bvisai magirazi masikati uye muedze kuongorora zvakakwana zviito zvevarume. Muchengetedze (kana zvichikwanisika zvishoma nezvishoma) munzvimbo dzebasa: zvitoro, motokari kushambidza, vabati vehodzi.
Anodanidzira kune vashandi, anovapa mhosva pamusana penyaya inotyisa? Funga nezvazvo, asi kamwe kamwe iwe uchava chinhu chinotevera cheudzvinyiriri hwake. Ngationgorore imwezve mamiriro ezvinhu. Iwe wakagara pamwe chete kwemakore mazhinji, murume wako akabudirira mukusimudzirwa mubasa, ndokubva atanga kuvaka pamba yepamusoro pamba, kuti akutungamirire. Mune varume, kuzvidzora dzimwe nguva kunopera, zvinokwanisika kuti iye achangobva kutamba mutungamiri, kururamisa nenzira yakaderera, kumutsanangurira kuti haufaniri kupindira nemunhu uye wepamutemo. Imba yako nemhuri yako ndiyo chibereko chemakore mazhinji emabasa, izvo hazvifaniri kuchinjwa kuva nzvimbo yekuedza yekuita zvisarudzo.