Chinetso chimwe: mupfungwa. Mushure mezvose, mwana haasi chido, chinogona kutamba pa mezzanine. Murume muduku uyu nguva dzose, maawa makumi maviri nerimwe pazuva anoda kutarisirwa uye kuzvitarisira iwe pachako. Uye mumhuri pane mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma: vabereki vaduku, vanojaira kuzviriritira ivo uye kune mumwe kune mumwe, nekutambudzika kukuru kunovakwazve kune mararamiro matsva. Maererano nevezvemagariro evanhu, mhuri dzemazuva ano, sekutonga, hazvikurumidzi kuwana mamiriro ekutanga: kutanga, kugadzirwa kwemusha, basa, kufamba uye uye ipapo-kuberekwa kwechecheche. Mukuwedzera, zvinowanzoitika kuti maonero ekurerwa kwechizvarwa chechidiki kubva kuvabereki vavo haafananidzi zvakadzama. Nokudaro, kunyange kana mwana akamirira kwenguva yakareba, ndizvo zvakaita kurambana mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana.
Dambudziko mbiri: zvepabonde. Hazvisi chakavanzika chokuti kunyanya mumwedzi yekutanga yehupenyu, mwana anoda nguva dzose kutarisirwa, kunyanya kubva kuna amai: inogara ichipa kudya, kusanganisira usiku kudya, uye kushandura mapepa, kugadzirira vana zvokudya, uye kungoshamwaridzana chete. Baba vaduku, kunyange kana achipa rubatsiro rwemudzimai wake wose - kushamba, ironing, kutenga zvokudya, hachichinje nzira yehupenyu zvakanyanya. Uye kazhinji haanzwisisi kuputsika kwekutya, kuneta kwemudzimai wake uye kusada kwake kuti aite rudo, sezvaive tsika kare kusati kwasvika nhengo itsva yemhuri.
Uyezve, mudzimai wake akagara akanaka uye akanaka uye akangwara akarega kumutevera, achirasikirwa nekukwezva kwake, uye pamudumbu uye mahudyu ake pane "zvakasara zvekare". Uye murume anotanga "kutarisa parutivi," haisi chakavanzika chokuti kune kuzere nekushongedza vakadzi vakasununguka vakapoteredza pasina matambudziko. Saka unopandukira mushure mekuberekwa kwecheche - chiitiko chinowanzoitika, icho chinogonawo kuva chikonzero chekurambana.
Dambudziko rechitatu: zvinhu. Zvakanaka, kana mari yomurume wake isinganzwi kubuda kwe "mhuri yematambudziko", asi, sekutonga, mumhuri yevoruzhinji dambudziko iri rinobuda, tarisa! kazhinji zvakakwana. Hasi mhuri dzose dzinogamuchira chikamu "kuwedzera mari yevana kuderedza mari yevakadzi" vasingatauri. Mudzimai anonyadzisa baba vemhuri kubudirira, ndiye iye - nokuda kwekusaziva. Somugumisiro - kusagutsikana kune mumwe nemumwe uye hupenyu hwemhuri pamwe chete, kukakavara uye semigumisiro - kurambana.
Saka iwe unogona here kudzivisa kurambana mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana? Mhinduro yacho haina maturo - inogoneka uye inodiwa! Mushure mezvose, murume muduku ndiye anodiwa uye amai nababa. Heano mamwe mazano ari nyore asi anoshanda.
Ivai nemoyo murefu kune mumwe nemumwe, musatanga pamatambudziko. Nokukurumidza kana zvichibvira, pinda basa revabereki uye unakidzwe naro. Zvive iwe pachako uchifunga kuti mugore kana maviri nguva isina nguva ichava yakawanda, hupenyu huchaputsika mumutambo wakawanda. Vakadzi vanogona kurayirwa kuti varambe vachimirira uye varambe vachiita kuti murume, varume - vanzwisise nokunzwisisa kuneta kwemukadzi uye mwana wavo anotambudzika.
Usarega zvepabonde uye edza kuedza kusiyanisa, nekuti mumadzimai akawanda zviri mushure mekuberekwa kwekuti pfungwa dzinomuka. Shandisai mabasa epamba yenyu, kana zvichibvira, muhafu. Usaramba kutaurirana neshamwari (mushure mezvose, mushure memwedzi wezera vangave vatokwanisa kukokwa ivo pachavo, vachicherechedza mitemo yehutsanana). Manheru oga oga anofamba nemwana ari pedyo chaizvo uye anofanana nenzira ine rudo. "Achakurira sei, murume muduku uyu?" "Zvakanaka, hongu, vazhinji, uye isu tichave tichizvikudza pamusoro pake!" Chema, uve vabereki - mufaro iwoyo!