Kunze kwedzimba dzepamambo uye mabasa epanyika, pakanga pasina mararamiro akadaro, asi kubva pazera remakore gumi nemana kusvika kune gumi nemashanu, vasikana vakanga vatotonzi vano "kuwedzera" vakadzi. Kutaura zvazviri, kutanga kwemusikana kumusikana wacho kwakapera pakunamata, apo musikana wacho akakwanisa kubata pamuviri uye kutengesa. Imba yepakutanga pakati pevarume vechidiki yakanga isingawanzoiti, asi iyo yemakore makumi maviri nemashanu yemurume asina kuroorwa akanga atova "bobyl". Chikonzero chikuru chechido ichi chido chekuchengetedza utsvene hwemwenga wemunguva yemberi. Ndiyo mwenga, nokuti, sekuti Cossacks inoti: "Murume ndiye ane mhosva yehuwandu, uye mukadzi nokuda kwehutano." Kuti udzivise miedzo isingakoshi, musikana wacho akapiwa muwanano.
Nhasi, michato yepakutanga iwanano yemakore gumi namasere. Kutaura pamusoro pezvakanaka uye kusagadzikana kwemitambo yekutanga, zvakakosha kuita kugadzirisa kuti zvinhu zvose zvinoenderana nevakaroorana. Hupenyu huri mune zvikonzero zvakawanda hunotarisa kuti imba yacho ichava dambudziko kana kuti ichave yakafara kwemakore mazhinji.
Kuyaruka kunogona kuita kuti zvive zvakaenzana nezvikomborero zvose uye kukanganisa kwemitambo yepakutanga. Pane rumwe ruzivo ruzivo runogona kutungamirira kuvekuti vechidiki vanosarudza kuroora kubva kune vamwe, kunyange kunyanya kunzwa manzwiro, asi havazokwanise kuona mumwe nomumwe. Imba yekusununguka, kana iwe uchifunga nezvekuverenga, kureva kuti "mweya", kureva, rutivi rwezvido, kukwanisa kuwana chibvumirano, kuremekedzwa kwevanhu-kunogona chete kune munhu wakakura. Kune rumwe rutivi, rwakachena, kutenda mune rudo uye rudo rusingagumi, moyo mutsva unogona kukunda maitiro akawanda ezvichaitika.
Munzira dzakawanda, kukanganisa kwechato kunobva pakushaya kukwanisa kusiyanisa pakati pekuda, rudo nerudo. Hapana vanoda vasingadi kuvimbisa rudo rwekusingaperi kune mumwe nemumwe, uye hapana rudo rungararama kwenguva refu kupfuura makore mana. Kana tikangotarisa kuoma kwehukama uye hukama hwakanaka, saka nokukurumidza, (tarisa, ikozvino pane vana) uye pasina mubvunzo munhu achawana chinhu chitsva chechido chakasimba. Uye chido chinogara chiripo.
Rudo rwakanaka, yekutanga inonyanya kukosha, asi ichiri kure kwazvo nerudo. Rudo ndiMwarikadzi wemhuri, uyo anotipa zvivimbiso. Uye bhizimisi redu nderekuzadzisa ivo mushure mekunge. Kumbira chero vakaroorana vakwegura avo vakararama hupenyu hunofadza uye iwe zvechokwadi uchadzidza kuti vane chikwereti chavo kana rudo rwemasango, kana chimwe chinhu chakakonzera rudo rwemamiriro ezvinhu. Uye chokwadi chokuti ivo vakarurama vakavimbika, vane mwoyo murefu, vane ngoni, vanhu vakanaka vanoziva nzira yekuwana kusagadzikana, vane ruzivo rwakakwana uye kukwanisa kubvisa zvishuvo zvavo.
Rudo, rudo rwechokwadi, chido chakanyarara, chakavanzika mukatikati memwoyo - kwete kushanda kwemafirimu nemabhuku, uye naizvozvo - kusinganzwisisiki mumagariro evanhu "rudo." Kunyangwe kugadziriswa kwebhuku raJane Austen ra "Mind and Feelings", umo hukuru hwekunzwisisa pamusoro pesimba remoyo usina ruzivo rwakakudzwa, rwakarondedzerwa mukushambadzira se "kurwisana kwemwoyo yevanhu nemitemo yakatsaurirwa" kuitira kuti vateereri vateereri vateere. Maiwe, kunze kweizvi "tsika dzekutsvenesa" imba yekutanga inogona kukanganisa chete.
Kubatsirana kwekuroorana kwakaitwa pakati pevechidiki vari muchiitiko icho vaviri vacho:
- Chaizvoizvo ine chido chekuumba mhuri, inonzwisisa basa rayo kune umwe neumwe uye inoda kugovana kwete mufaro nemubhedha chete, asi kusuwa, zvirwere, kusava nemari, upenyu, matambudziko ekurera vana uye mamwe matambudziko ehupenyu hwedu.
- Kune hukama hwakanaka nevabereki vekunge imwe yemapato, uye zvichida - nezvose.
- Kune imwe gore gore risati raitwa! Kwete zuva shoma!
Uyezve, kana kubva pamusikana wemusikana kwakanga kusina ruzivo rwepabonde, zvose izvi zvinobatsira zvinogona kuwedzerwa nemaviri. Imba yakadaro inogona kunge yakararama "yakareba uye inofadza."
Muitiko apo vechidiki vakasarudza kuroorwa, kana:
- Havagone kurarama pasina mumwe nemumwe, uye hapana munhu munyika yose, kunze kweivo vaviri, inoda (chimwe chezvikonzero zvinowanzoitika zvekurambana mumakore kana maviri ekugara pamwe chete).
- Iye "akafamba".
- Ndinoda kubvisa kuchengetedza kwevabereki vangu nekukurumidza.
- Ndinoda kugara ndine musikana ari pedyo neni "anopa".
Kuti mararamiro akadaro anowanzotongerwa kuti ave wokutanga uye asina kubudirira kuedza mukutsvaga kusingaperi kwekusaziva kufara.
Rudo runofanira kudzidziswa. Rudo rune basa. Rudo haruna kufanira kuva, rinofanira kunge ruchakwanisa kudzidzisa nekuchengetedza. Uyezve munhu achanzwisisa kuti ndiye chinhu chakanakisa muupenyu. Chaizvoizvo, nokuda kwezvazvo uye zvakakosha kuti urarame.