IV trimester yekuzvitora
Mwedzi mitatu yekutanga yehupenyu hwechechecheche inonzi chechina chetatu yekudzivirira. Mwana kubva pamuviri wakamanikana uye wakafara unowira munyika huru. Uye anoda nguva yekuzvienzanisa nayo. Pane imwe pfungwa yokuti colic mucheche chiratidzo chekuchinja kwavo mupfungwa mumamiriro matsva. Zvinotyisa kune muduku kuti arambe ari oga uye asinganzwi kutonhora kwemazuva ano! Iye haasati aziva nzira yokuratidza manzwiro ake kunze kwekuchema kwekusagadzikana ... Nokudaro, yechina trimester inobata nguva dzose kusangana nemucheche nemuviri waamai. Uye mutsara unoti: "Usadzidzisa mwana mumaoko" mumutsara uyu zvinonzwika kunyange utsinye. Iwe unogona sei kudzivisa mwana pane izvo asati aberekwa ari hupenyu hwake hwose? Akanga akajairika kumakumbo aMama, kufamba kwake, kunhuhwira kwake ... Uye kugara nguva dzose. Uterus ndiye mwana wokutanga. Ndicho chikonzero iye asingadi kurara kunze kwekunge amai vake vaswedera pedyo. Mukadzi wechidiki paanwisai anokwanisa kurara asingasununguri muto kubva pamuromo wake. Zvakanaka, murume anozvifananidza anofanira kuzunungusa zvishoma, kuitira kuti anzwe akachengeteka. Kubudirira, sekupfeka mwana pamaoko ake, zvinoreva kusabvumira kushushikana kwake uye kushandiswa, asi kugutsikana chimwe chezvinhu zvinokosha zvomwana muduku mumwedzi mitatu yekutanga yehupenyu hwake. Mukuwedzera, mukukurukurirana kweamai nevana panofanira kunge pane nguva apo vanonzwa zvakafanana. Zvadaro nyanzvi yemadzimai inosimbiswa. Munguva yekuyamwisa, amai nevana vanobatana nehana imwechete. Izvi hazviitiki kana mwana anonwa musanganiswa kubva mubhodhoro. Uye zvino chirwere chinotyisa chinokonzera amai nechecheche kuti vave munharaunda imwechete yehafu yekudzungaira ... Nenzira, vana vakawanda pavanwisa vana vanopera nguva apo vanovata chete panguva yeguruva. Zvisikwa! Asi mubvunzo ndewekuti, kana iyo yakaoma isingashandisi kuendesa kurwara, inoramba. Zvakanaka, chiitiko chinoratidza kuti vana pachavo vanosiya tsika yavo inofarira sezvo hurongwa hwavo hwemagetsi hunokura. Kazhinji kacho kazhinji gore. Zvakanaka, kusati kwatanga nguva yakadaro, kurwara kwekufamba kunobatsira kunyange urongwa huno hwekutya hunokura uye hukura.
• Muviri wedu unorarama maererano nemitemo ye rhythm. Penguva dzose, mwoyo unorova, shandura imwe chikamu chehope. Uye iyo chirwere chinotenderera chinobatsira mwana kugadzirisa rhythm, kuenzanidza bhohyhythm europi nebasa rehumukati. Mwana akaremara anogona kumuka mushure maminitsi makumi maviri, uye izvi zvinoreva kuti haana kusvika pachikamu chehope huru. Uye chirwere chinofambisa chinokanganisa miviri yemagetsi muuropi, zvichibatsira iyo yakaoma kuti itarare zvakanaka.
• Aifungisisa kugweda teresi nzvimbo yekubatanidza uye inovaka zvipfeko zvechicheche zvechecheche. Kune imwe nzvimbo, iyo inogadzirira mwana kuti aende oga oga.
• Pamaoko evanhu vakuru, mwana anonzwa akadzivirirwa kubva kunyika isiri kure kwaari. Uye pasina kukwanisa kudiwa kwekuchengeteka, mwana wacho akaipa.
Ambuya vachipikisa ...
Dzidziso yeSoviet inoti: zvakakosha kudyisa vana pane purogiramu, kutora maoko avo kazhinji, kuvadzidzisa kuti vavete mune imwe chikwata, kwete kuti dombo ... Chinangwa chezvirevo izvi chaiva kusunungurwa kwenguva yenguva. Zororo rekuberekwa rakagara kwemwedzi mina, uye ipapo amai vaifanira kuenda kunoshanda ... Uye saka vana vakadzidziswa "kuzvimirira." Nenzira, nguva dzakashanduka ... asi zvisingadi zvezera rekare zvakaramba zvakadaro. Usakakavadzana na vanasekuru, ingonzwisisa kuti mazano akaiswa pamusoro pehupenyu zvakaoma kuchinja. Zviri nani kutsanangura kuti nei mwana ari kuzununguka uye kuti nei zvichikosha. Zvisinei, vazhinji vemazuva ano vanachiremba vana havasi kukurudzirwa kuti vape. Ndechipi chikonzero cheizvi? Vanachiremba vanocherechedza kuchengeteka kwevana. Kune zviitiko apo vana vaive vachichema kubva mukurwadziwa mumuviri, uye ivo vakanga vachiputirwa uye kuzununguswa ... Saka, vabereki vose vanofanira kuziva pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu akaita sei carapace isingagoni kudengenyeka. Iyi haisi nzira yekuisa mwana wacho kurara, nenzira dzose. Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti macheche anochema haafaniri "kuchema". Uye kana iyo yakagadzikana haina kunyarara shure mushure memaminetsi mashomanana mushure mamuisa mumaoko ake, saka haadi kurara kana kusvetuka. Zvichida inguva yekumupa zvokudya kana kushandura chidimbu chake ... Mumwe amai vanoziva kuti intuitively vanoziva sei zvinodikanwa nemwana wavo, anoziva kuti kubvira panguva yekuberekwa, mwana ari munhu ane zvishuvo zvakasiyana uye unhu hwake. Uye kuiswa kwehurumende yake pamusoro pake, kukura mumutauro we "mwana anofanira kunge wakanyarara" pane zvimwe zviitiko zvechisimba kune munhu. Saka tora semutemo: haufaniri kuvhara chigunwe, asi kuti udye, kureva, kumubatsira kudzikama, uye kwete kunyarara. Kana zvisina kudaro, kurwara kunofadza kunounza kukuvadza.
Nyarara chete!
Muduku haafaniri kushayiwa kuzununguswa, asi kuti azvinzwe sokunge ari mumuviri wemukadzi. Uye kwemwedzi gumi nemana, amai vangu havana kunyanya kushamwaridzana zvakasimba kuti carapace yakagadzira pfungwa yekugweda gungwa. Iwe haugone kuzunza mwana wacho zvakasimba, achifunga kuti kurara hope kunoenderana nesimba uye ukuru. Hongu, mwana anogona kukurumidza kurara. Asi kurota uku kwakafanana nekurasika kwekuziva. Usatakura mwana wacho ari pawiricheya pamigwagwa yakasvibira kana kumarara. Kurwara kwakadaro kunofambisa hazvibatsiri zvipfeko zvekudzivirira kuti zvikure, asi zvinorema. Imbirai zvinyoronyoro kana nziyo dzenziyo chete, kana iwe uchiimba mwana. Usangotarisira chete kufamba kwechirwere senhengo inonyaradza. Mukuwedzera kumanzwiro ekugadzirisa echeka, anoda kunzwa inzwi rako rorudo uye rudo. Saka iwe utaurirana naye, mumubatsire kukura kutaura uye kufunga. Mukuwedzera, magwaro evanhu vemazuva ano ane mharidzo iyo vana vanodzidza vasingazivi: "Iwe unoda uye wakanaka, hupenyu hwakanaka ..." Ndokusaka tsika iyi isati yasara isingarambiki kune mwana.