Sezvaunoziva, vavakidzani havana kusarudzwa, saka saka tinofanira kushivirira avo vanogara shure kwemasvingo kana kumashure kwefambo, uye tsika dzavo. Dzimwe nguva, ukama hwepedyo huri kukura kuva ushamwari hwakasimba, uye dzimwe nguva kuva muvengi ane utsinye. Nzira yekusabvumira hondo inotyisa pakati pemakamuri, uye kunyange dzimba, nekugadzirisa rugare rwakamirira kwenguva refu? Kodzero uye zvinotarisirwa nevavakidzani - vagari vemuimba, uyewo nzira dzakagadzikana dzokuvamanikidza dzakanyorwa pasi apa.
Ida VAKRISTU VAKO
Maererano nehuwandu hweHurumende hweMukatikati reRussia, zvinopfuura 5% zvemhosva dzose dzinoitwa pamhuri yevavakidzani. Zvechokwadi, mu sayenzi yemazuva ano pane zvimwe zvakadai se "psychology vavakidzani". Kune rumwe rutivi, unoita seusingazivikanwi, uye kwemakore akawanda wakagara pane imwe nzvimbo, uye kune imwe - iwe hausi hama dzepedyo, uye saka une kodzero yekuona kuvengana kune umwe neumwe nekuratidza utsinye. Iwe unogona kuva nemafungiro akasiyana zvakasiyana nehupenyu, utsanana, nzira dzekutamba-hapana chakaipa neizvozvo. Mukuwedzera, haufaniri kufara kubudirira kweumwe neumwe. Zvisinei, munyaya iyi, kusada kuchawedzera uye, pasina mubvunzo, kuchakura kuva ruvengo rwechokwadi kana iwe usingaregi nenguva uye usakanganwa murairo mukuru wemunharaunda - ida muvakidzani wako sezvaunozviita! Mutemo unowedzera: Ziva kodzero dzako nemabasa.
Hapana anotaura kuti pane imwe nguva unoda kudikanwa naVaPetrovs nevana vavo vakaoma vari kuyaruka, mbuya vanoshungurudza, avo vanofarira kunwa mukoma wake uye vachimhanyisa pambwa-muchidimbu, vose vavakidzani - vagari veimba kamwechete. Pane kuva nekutya uye kunetseka pamusoro pechimwe nechiitiko, shandura mafungiro ako kumamiriro ezvinhu. Edza kugadzirisa mitemo yako pakunyura. Chinhu chinobudirira pakubudirira kwako kune chiremera uye iwe pachako unhu hunoita. Kana iwe uchida kunyarara mushure me 23.00, yeuka kuti iwe uchangobva kuva nezuva rokuzvarwa. Uye naizvozvo, panzvimbo pokuisa mberi kwekupedzisira, itai kuronga masangano emanheru, somuenzaniso, kamwe chete mwedzi, muchinyeverana pamusoro pavo mberi. Kana iwe wakaneta kukuyeuchidza vavakidzani nezvekugara wakachena, nyora tsamba yakanaka uye yaturika mumugwagwa kana yepamusoro. Hazvina kudiwa kushandisa zvinyengeri zvinyorwa uye zvinogadziriswa, chirevo chakadai se "Hatisi nguruve! Rega kunyorera pamatanho uye kupotsera kwese nzombe! ", Zvechokwadi, zvinonyatsotsanangura, asi hazvina maturo. Pane zvinopesana, tsamba yakanaka, inoratidza kuratidza imba nekuitarisa nerudo, ichaita kuti vavakidzani vasakanganise kufunga. Pakupedzisira, ivai mhangura kana tini pamatanho uye nyora pamusoro payo: "Isa fodya mukati mangu" - kuisa smiley kuyananisa pakupedzisira. Vavakidzani vachanyatsokoshesa manzwiro enyu ekusekorora uye mazano uye vachafara kushandisa zvinyorwa zvako.
Chimwe chinhu chinokosha paukama hwakanaka nevavakidzani ndiko kunzwisisa! Edza kupinda munzvimbo yevaya vanogara shure kwemasvingo ako. Havana mhaka dzose kuti mwana wavo wemwedzi mitanhatu haana kurara usiku, uye sekuru vanonyorera zvikuru uye vanofambisa pamatanda. Mimwe mamiriro ezvinhu haakwanisi kuchinjwa, uye saka nzira yekubuda nayo ndeyekubvuma uye kugona kusagadzikana kwenguva pfupi.
KUSAI KUTI VANHU VANHU VANHU?
Munhu wokunze haafaniri kukuda iwe pane chimwe chinhu, kunyange chiko chako. Zvisinei, kune zvinhu zvinowanikwa pamisungo inenge munhu wose!
♦ Pfuma. Nhumbi dzakanaka, dzimba dzinodhura dzeimba, imba yemitambo ine shati yakazara-refu, motokari yekunze iri pasi pehwindo - izvi zvose zvinokonzera shanje avo vane hupenyu hwakanaka hunosiyiwa. Hapana chinhu chinofanira kushamisika pano - vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofunga shanje "manzwiro echisikigo, chimiro icho chinosanganisira kukwikwidzana, kutambura kubva mupfungwa yokuti mumwe wacho ane chinhu chaanoda icho chandisisina, uye ruvengo rwakakonzerwa naro."
Zvaunofanira kuita: tsvaga ushamwari nevezera rako pamusoro pehupenyu hwevanhu nehuwandu, uye nevavakidzani vashoma vanogara vasina ukama hwenyika, usavakoka kuti vashanyire, usabvunza kuti uone chimwe chinhu chakanaka.
• Njodzi dzemhuri. Kana iwe kazhinji uchizadza vavakidzani vako nemvura uye nguva dzose unoronga kuperevedza kwehutambo, tarisira dambudziko. Izvi hazvifadzi kune ani uye hazviiti! Maererano nemutemo, avo vakakuvadzwa vane kodzero yekuda kubhadharwa pamusana pekukanganisa kwetsika uye kwezvinhu zvakakonzerwa (kunyange zvisingazivi).
Zvaunofanira kuita: zviri nani kuita kugadzirisa kunofanirwa mberi. Usamirira kusvikira pombi yako ichitsemuka uye mvura inomhanyira pasi, inodana plumber pachiratidzo chokutanga chekukurumidzira. Mukuwedzera, meshoni yose nekuda kwekushaya basa yakanyorwa mumabhuku ekudzivirira, uye kana njodzi yacho ichiitika, iwe uchava nechikonzero chakanakisisa munyaya.
♦ Kugadzirisa. Nguva dzose kubvongedza vavakidzani vanogona kuita kunyange vaStoiki vasingazivikanwi kubva kune ivo pachavo.
Zvaunofanira kuita: usati watanga kugadzirisa, iva nechokwadi chekubvunza vavakidzani, havasati vadzivirirwa nezwi uye panguva ipi zviri nani kuita basa? Pamberi payo, kumbira kukanganwirwa nekuda kwekuvhiringidza - mvumo ichasunungura maoko ako.
HARD KUNYA
Vanhu vose vakasiyana, asi mamwe marudzi pakati pevakidzani vari kusangana.
♦ Mumiririri. Akangobva kusununguka, uye saka haakwanisi kurega basa rakashata rashandi. Mukadzi akadaro anomhanyira mukati mechirwere chematambudziko evanhu uye anobva atanga kuva musoro weimba yose - ane zana pazuva achimhanya kwauri kuti uwane zvinyorwa zveimwe shanduko duku mumusuwo uye unonyunyutira Ivanovs kubva pasi rechishanu risingaratidzi hutano .
Nzira yekukurukurirana: usapindira kune mari yose uye usapopotedzana. Mwari ngaarege kukakavadzana nemushandi.
• Mufaro anofara mukadzi. Mune chando chakasviba uye kupisa kunotyisa, iye neshamwari dzake vanogara pabhenji uye vachicherechedza zvikuru munhu wose anopinda uye anosiya mukova. Iye achacherechedza mutsara wako mutsva uye oita mhedziso yakasimba pamusoro pemufambiro wako usina kunaka, achakuudza kuti kwete vasikana bedzi, asiwo vakomana vakasvika kumwanasikana wenyu, uye murume wake anosvuta kwenguva yakareba neSvondo Petrovna ari oga ari mumba ma45.
Nzira yekukurukurirana: famba pamusoro pemateve uye usatenda chinhu. Usakanganwa mazwi ekunyengera. Mushure mezvose, vakadzi ava vekare vanowanzobatsira. Kana iri mumba mako, Mwari asingabvumirwi, pachava nemamwe matambudziko, ivo vachava vokutanga kuudza mapurisa pamusoro pezviratidzo zvose zvembavha, uye kunyange vacharamba vachiyeuchidza ivo pachavo.
♦ Mweya womutsa. Anogona kuva nhamba ipi zvayo yemakore - kubva pa13 kusvika ku90. Anogara achienda chingwa, kugara nemwana, kukwereta, kufamba nembwa, kunwa maruva uye kungokutsigira chero nguva.
Nzira yekukurukurirana: ivai shamwari, shingai shamwari uye zvakare muve shamwari! Usangogara pamutsipa wake, edza kubatsirana.
♦ Uchiri muduku. Akakurira pamberi peimba yose uye munguva pfupi akatendeuka kubva kune dhinza rakaipa rikaenda nymphet yakanaka kwazvo. Uyezve, mukadzi iyeye akareruka anogara achikuudza kuti murume wako anotarisa hutano huduku.
Nzira yekukurukurirana: chaizvoizvo, hazvigone kuti shamwari yako ichakushandura iwe nemuvakidzani wechidiki. Zvisinei, kana iwe uchiri godo, zviri nani kutaura naye uye kugadzirisa matambudziko ose.
♦ Muvakidzani-muvaki. Kugadzirisa ndicho chimiro chehupenyu hwake. Kubvira mangwanani kusvikira usiku anochera chimwe chinhu, kudonha uye misumari. Anomutsa iwe mangwanani eSvondo mangwanani uye haakubvumi kuti iwe urere hope mukati meusiku.
Nzira yekukurukurirana: zvisati zvaitika taurai maawa anogamuchirwa ekugadzirisa. Usanonoka kutaura kuti iwe hauna kugadzirira vhiki yevhiki yekuteerera kwete mhere inofadza zvikuru munyika uye, kunyanya kukosha, kumuka kwavari pa6-7 uye kunyange 9 am.
♦ Chidhakwa. Kune dzakadaro mumhuri imwe neimwe. Achakuudza nezvekuguma kwake uye haazeze kukumbira zana newaini, vodka kana chingwa. Usatarisira kuti achadzoka kwavari kana kuteerera mazano ako uye kurega kunwa.
Nzira yekukurukurirana: muzvokwadi, tsitsi, haisi iyo manzwiro akakodzera. Usatya kutamba muvakidzani wako doro. Zviri nani kuidya pamba pane kukwereta chingwa nekaka.
MITEMO ECHITATU "HERE" NEVANHU VAKANAKA
• Usabvumira kukurukurirana kwepedyo, kuitira kuti ivo, Mwari vadzivise, usatora maitiro ako akanaka kune ushamwari. Nguva dzose ramba uri kure! Izvi zvakakosha zvikuru, nokuti haunzwisisike chaizvo kuti uswedere pedyo nevanhu vakadaro uye nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare iwe unoda kuputsa navo, chero hukama. Ndiko apo chiyeuchidzo cheushamwari hwakarasika huchavapa simba rokurwa newe.
• Usaedza kuvapa chiokomuhomwe - kazhinji hazvina maturo. Vachange vachida kutora zvipo sezvibvumirano, uye vavariro dzenyu dzakanaka chiratidzo chekushaya simba.
• Usapindura mibvunzo yakadai se "Ndiani akauya kwauri zuro?" Nemashoko kubva mubhuku "Hamuna hanya". Zvakanakisisa kushandura hurukuro yacho zvakanaka muhurukuro yemitambo yeTV, zviratidzo zveTV kana chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kufadza kupfuura hupenyu hwako hwega. Usataura chinhu pamusoro pako, asi usaedza kuvanza chinhu - kuvapo kwezvinhu zvinorambidzwa kunongokurudzira chido chako. Regai vatarise TV zviri nani uye teererai redhiyo!
GENERAL RULES OF CONDUCT
/ Mushure mekutamira kune imwe imba uye kupedzisa kugadziriswa, kubika mapepa kana kuvatenga pachitoro chiri pedyo uye kuenda kune vavakidzani. Kushanyira uku kucharatidza kuonga kwako nokuda kwekushivirira kwavo panguva yekugadzirisa nekuvaka basa mumba mako.
/ Edza kukwazisa vashandi vose mumba - pakuguma, nyarara mumugadziri uye uzvifananidza kuti iwe hauna kumboonana, zvinongova zvisina kunaka.
/ Usaramba vavakidzani mune zviduku: munyu, shuga, mitezo inogona kudiwa nokukurumidza iwe. Dzimwe nguva hazvina kunaka kugara nechecheche wemuvakidzani, uye kufamba imbwa yevanorwara Maria Petrovna. Mukuwedzera, yeuka kuti nokubvumirana kunwa maruva munguva yezororo reSmirnov, iwe une kodzero yekuvabvunza kuti vadye makate ako panguva yaunoenda kugungwa. Zvisinei, kubatana pamwe chete chinhu chakanaka, zvisinei, kana vavakidzani vagara pasi newe; mutsipa, usatya kuzviramba.
/ Usapindira zvakare muhupenyu hwevakidzani. Hazviiti kuti iwe unofara kana vanhu vane tsitsi vakakuudza kuti murume wako anounza mukadzi mumba. Asi kunyevera kuti mwanasikana wemuvakidzani wacho akatakurwa nedoro kana zvinodhaka, zvakakosha.
/ Usakanganwa kuyananisa pamwe nevavakidzani yekuvandudzirwa muimba yako uye kuiswa kwegaraji mujeri - vane kodzero yepamutemo yekuita saizvozvo. Kusava nekodzero kodzero uye zvisungo zvevakidzani - vagari veimba havana kutungamira munhu kune imwe nzvimbo yakanaka.
Zvakaitika kumunhu oga: Irina Belkina, ane makore makumi maviri namashanu.
Apo takatamira kune imwe imba, ndakabva ndaona kuti vavakidzani vaisazondipa upenyu. Pamberi porusvingo pakanga pane mhuri huru ine kuchema vana vepachikoro, vechidiki vakaoma uye vaunodzidza navo kuchikoro. Ndakanga ndichingova nepamuviri uye ndinoshuva zvikuru pane zvose zvakaitwa. Zvisinei, apo Vanya akazvarwa, ndakaona kuti, chokwadi, ndaive nerombo nevakidzani. Chokutanga, ini ndinogona kugara ndichivashandira mazano, uye chechipiri, ndinogona kubva mumba iyo chero nguva uye ndikumbira mumwe wevana kana vakuru kuti vagare nemwana wangu, zvakanaka, uye chechitatu, ndinoziva zvechokwadi , kuti hakuna munhu achazonyunyuta pamusoro pemwanakomana wangu asina kunyarara. Ndinofara kuti ndine shamwari dzepedyo dzakadaro!