Kana mudiwa wako ainge akaroora

Heino izvozvi! Iwe pakupedzisira wakasangana nemurume wako akakodzera. Asi pane imwe "asi" uye inokuvhiringidza - mudiwa wako akanga atoora. Uye chokwadi ichi hachikupi zororo, iwe hauzive kuti ungaita sei zvakanaka, kwete kukuvadza mudiwa wako, chii chaizvo chaunotaura mune izvi kana mamiriro acho ezvinhu-iwe unotya kuparara, iwe unotya kuita kusakanganisika-kunyange iwe unoda chaizvo kuvaka ukama hwakakomba. Uye ndezvechokwadi kuti kukurukurirana nekuvaka ukama hwekugara kwenguva refu nemudiwa uyu kunoda kunyatsotarisirwa uye ruzivo rwakadaro mumunda wepfungwa, asi kuti vakadzi vakasimba vadzidze nyaya iyi hazvizove zvakaoma. Saka, ngationei zvatinoda uye zvakakosha kuti titeerere.


Iko kodzero yekuita sevamwe

Kana mumwe wako akambopona zvachose kurambana, hazvishamisi kuti iye zvino haazogadzirira kuva neukama hwakasimba. Panguva yaanoda musikana, murume wepabonde uye pasina zvirongwa zvekuuya kwenguva yemberi. Saizvozvowo, kana iwe uchimuda, iwe unoda kuva musikana wake / musikana uye hapana mumwe munhu. Asi ichi ndicho chirango chose kubva pakurambana ichiri chitsva.

Usaratidze munhu akadaro kuti iwe wakanyatsopindira naye. Iwe unofanirwa kuva nehupenyu hwako-shamwari, hama, vashandi pamwe chete, zvinokuvaraidza. Rega anzwe kuti haudi iye chete. Kumbira, somuenzaniso, kutumira maawa matatu kuNapara, nokuti unoda kumhanyira kuna amai vako kubasa uye kuunza chimwe chinhu, enda nemusikana kune imwe saroni, kana kuenda neshamwari naye kuchitoro uye kumubatsira kusarudza shangu nokuda kwekunge achangotenga mbatya. Ratidza fantasy yako kana, chaizvoizvo, ita chimwe chinhu kubva pamusoro apa kana zvichidikanwa. Zvimwewo, angave achitya mutoro waunofunga nezvake sekunyanyisa kwako, uye iwe haufaniri.

Usaisa zvinodzvinyirira iwe pachako, iwe haufaniri kuzvidzora pane imwe nhanho, bvunza mibairo iwe wawakanga uri, sei nguva yakareba zvakadaro nezvimwe zvakadaro, uye kunyange zvakadaro usagadzirisa zvipikisa kwaari.Kuremekedza kodzero yake yehupfumi. Yeuka kuti haana chikwereti iwe chero chinhu, sezvaunoda kwaari. Zvinokwanisika kuti akaroora mudzimai wake nekuda kweshungu. Nenzira, nhamba, pane imwe nzvimbo inenge hafu yemhuri inoparadzana zvakakwana nekuda kwemakakatanwa akafanana. Imwe nyaya, kana ikanyangarika kwenguva yakareba-inogona kupupurira kuti iwe hauna imwe.

Nzira yekubvunza mibvunzo nenzira yakarurama

Usakurumidza uye kubvunza mibvunzo yako knave pamusoro pokurambana kwake. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe haufaniri kuva nehanya nenyaya iyi. Zvakadini kana akarova mudzimai wake? Ndinofunga kuti iwe hauna kugadzirira kushamwaridzana noupenyu nomunhu akadaro. Panyaya yekurambana ndeyekutaura zvakanaka uye unobtrusively. Iwe unogona kuronga kudya kwemasvondo, mhepo inonyanyisa, kuitira kuti munhu adzoke uye azvizarurire kwauri. Mibvunzo inotungamira pamusoro pemudzimai wekare haafaniri kubvunzwa, uye pamusoro pekurambana iwe pachako.Zvino, iwe unogona kubvunza pamusoro pemudzimai wevose, mukadzi akanaka sei kwaari - panguva imwe chete uye nokuda kwenyaya yake ye scoop.

Zvakakoshawo kuti uchenjerere nemibvunzo pamusoro pe "wake". Usamumanikidza, achikumbira boka remibvunzo pamusoro payo. Kana akazotaura pamusoro payo pachake, saka haufaniri kubvunza mibvunzo inotungamirira, uye iwe unofanirawo kurega kutaura. Ingoteerera munzeve. Kunyanya zvakare: kana munhu achitaura pamusoro pewaimbova mudzimai wake chete, saka iwe unofanira kutarisira. Iwe unonzwisisa kuti mune chero hukama huripo nguva dzose dzakanaka uye dzakaipa - kana iwe ukararama naye uye wakaroora, zvinoreva kuti zvinhu zvose hazvina kunaka sezvakanyorwa kwauri.

Ukama nevekare-mukadzi

Kurambana hakusi nguva dzose kuparara kwakakwana muhukama. Iwe unofanirwa kuva wakagadzirira nekuda kwekuti murume wako achava nemukadzi wake zvakare, zvichida kunyange kuchengetedza ukama hwepedyo. Hapana chinhu chinotyisa mune izvi - uku ndiko hupenyu uye panguva iyo iwe iwe unotora nzvimbo yewakada wako muupenyu hwake. Hazvina kukodzera kuronga zvipandara nekuda kweizvi, kumutsoropodza pamusoro nekunze. Zviri nani pane vose kuti vasapinda muhukama. Asi zvakakosha kuchengeta ziso kunze. Kunyanya kana murume kazhinji achishanyira "imba yekare" uye anozviudza iwe pachako kuti anofanira kushanyira. Zvinokwanisika kuti haasati aita chisarudzo chokupedzisira chekuputsa ukama "ipapo" uye anoda nguva shoma kuti aone zvakajeka. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unongova munhu wenguva pfupi, nekuda kwaanozoziva kuti anoramba achida mudzimai wake wekare. Uku uku kunzwa kwakashata. Nokudaro, izvi hazvigone kuregererwa.

Zvinogoneka kuti paiva nemwana akasara mumhuri iyoyo. Zvadaro zvechokwadi hukama hahuna zvachose nerazvuyutsya. Murume anokwereterera zvakakodzera uye ane hanya kumwana wake kubva kumuchato wepakutanga muenzaniso wakanaka, wekunge usati wakawanda zvakadaro iye zvino. Mubvunzo mutsva uri mune imwe, unobvumirana kutora mutoro uyu uye rega "mweya" yevana muimba nemweya?

Tarisiro yeramangwana

Usafungisisa pakarepo rakanamatira registry office. Sarudzo yakadaro yakatanga kutengesa "zhenatikom" kwete kutasva. Sezvo mutemo, varume vakadaro pane zvinopesana, vadzivisa "masangano" akadaro uye kwenguva refu kwazvo musakurumidza imomo. Uye iwe, iwe uri mukadzi akachenjera, haufaniri kumanikidzira murume wako nekumukurudzira kuti kwauri iwe rudo rwechidimbu chehukama, panzvimbo yehumwe rudzi rwechitema mupasipoti yako, iwe iwe uye zvakadaro naye wakanaka. Rega anzwe kuti akanaka sei newe uye pashure pemwedzi mitanhatu kana gore mushure mekuziva, iwe unogona kuenda kune "zvinokuvadza."