Zvinosuruvarisa kuti vakadzi vakawanda venguva yedu vakaumba mafungiro ezvokuchengetedza kubasa rekuberekwa, zvose panguva ye "kuiswa mujeri" uye kusakwanisa kukura kwehunyanzvi ... Ndinoda kutarisa dambudziko iri kubva kune rumwe rutivi uye ndinowana mikana yakawedzerwa yeiyo nguva inoshamisa muupenyu hwemukadzi.
"Kana iwe uchida kuchinja rudzi rwebasa - enda kumurairo!" - saka ndichataura kumukadzi mumwe nomumwe achifunga nezvenyaya iyi, zvichibva pane zvaanoziva uye kusarura. Ndinonyatsoda mudzimai wose kuti aone uye anoshandisa nguva iyi inoshamisa yehupenyu hwake nehuwandu hwekubatsira iye nemhuri yake.
Ndakasvika pane izvi chikonzero nokuda kwechikonzero. Ndakaona mikana uye kukwana kwevakadzi mumurairo pane zvandaive nazvo. Hungu, chokwadi, kuberekwa kwomwana uye kumuchengeta kunosanganisira mabasa mazhinji uye nguva, asi kana ukashandisa nguva yako rationally, unogona kuita zvinhu zvakawanda zvausina nguva yekuita. Uye kana iri mumba kunewo mubatsiri wekutarisira mwana (murume, amai kana amai vemwene, hanzvadzi, nezvimwewo), ipapo iwe unenge uine maawa 1-1.5 ewedzerwa nguva yekuzorora kana chidzidzo chinokosha.
Saka, ngatitaurire pamusoro pezvikomborero zvenguva inoshamisa muhupenyu hwemukadzi - zororo rekuberekwa.
1. Unodzidza imwe isina kufanira, asi basa guru rehupenyu "amai".
Ndeipi inogona kuva yakanakisisa muupenyu, sekuchengeta vana uye kurera vana vavo? Iwe une maawa makumi maviri nemaviri kuti uswedere pedyo nemwana wako. Ndeipi muupenyu hwako iwe uchava nemukana wakadaro? Iwe unodzidza kugara pamwe chete, kufamba, kutaura, uye shure kwegore - kuvandudza unyanzvi hwaunowana. Imi mose mune shungu uye mune mufaro, pamwe chete munoziva nyika yakakupoteredzai. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti uropi hwomwana hunonyanya "kunyora" mashoko mumakore matatu ekutanga ehupenyu. Iwe une mukana wakawanda wekudzidzisa "pfuma" yako kune zvose zvinokosha zvehupenyu hwemazuva ano, uye panguva imwechete kudzidza zvakawanda.
2. Upenyu hwemazuva ano hunotipa mikana yakawanda yekukura kwedu uye kubudirira kumba.
Iyi haisi yemakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemasere, apo pangave pasina foni mumba. Iye zvino, pamberi pekukurukurirana kwemafoni, Indaneti inogona, mashoma 20-30 maminitsi pazuva, inopa kukura kwehuchenjeri hwavo. Iwe unogona kutanga kutanga mutauro wokune imwe nyika kana, somuenzaniso, kuti uuye nebhizinesi rako rebhizimusi (zvichida richauya rakanaka).
Somunhu oga, ndakadzidza Chirungu, ndaverenga mari yemabhuku uye ndaifunga nezvekupinda yunivhesiti ...
3. Chirevo chinosanganisira kuderedza mari yemhuri nemari imwe chete. Nekudaro, izvi zvinopa kukurudzira kuti mukadzi atsvake uye awane imwe nzvimbo yemamwe mari.
Zvichida iwe unoshamisika kuti nei mukadzi achifanira kuwana mari nekugara mutemo. Zvechokwadi, zvakanaka kana murume wako achiwana zvakakwana kuti agutse zvose zvaunoda nemhuri yako, asi kana iwe uchigadzirisa zvigaro, zvingave zvakanaka kuti uwane mari kunyange yezvizoro zvako.
Uye pano iwe unogona kutamba ndege yekufungidzira kwako ... Unogona kubatana - yakagadzirirwa kurongeka, iwe unogona kunyora zvinyorwa kana kushandura magwaro - kuzivisa uye kutarisa vatengi, unogona "kuwana basa" semuparidzi wekutengeserana kwekutengesa uye kuparadzira zvipfeko pakati pevamwari vezera rako, pakupedzisira, iwe unogona kuwana kunyange kuwana mari paInternet. Zvose zviri mumaoko enyu!
4. Kuenda kwemazuva ekuberekwa kunopa iwe mukana wokurarama maererano nehurongwa iwe pachako kune iwe nemwana wako, uye kwete maererano nehemberi yevanoshandira.
Iwe pachako kwandiri, urongwa hwakadaro hunonyanya kukosha kupfuura kukwira pamatanhatu, hazvisi pachena nguva yakareba yekugara uye kugara muhofisi kuita basa rekuita. Handirambi kuti purogiramu yaamai nemwana muduku yakanyanyisa, asi iyi ndiyo purogiramu yako pachako, uye haisi kugadziriswa nemunhu ari kumusoro.
Mumwe munhu achati izvi zvose hazvina kuitika, kuti mwana anotora nguva yose yekusununguka, maawa makumi maviri nemasere, kuti hapana nguva yekuzorora, kwete kureva zvimwe. Asi zvose zviri mumaoko ako! Kana iwe uchida, iwe unogona nguva dzose kuwana chimwe chinhu icho, zvingaita sekuti, hachisi, uye nguva zvakare.
Kuchengetedza mwanasikana wangu, ndakagadzikana zvakare, ndakadzidza zvakawanda. Hondo yakasikirwa kwandiri yakanga isiri chikonzero chekuora mwoyo uye samopostva, iyi inguva yakakura yekuzviziva iwe semukadzi, nguva iyo iwe haufaniri kukumbira bhosi, asi iwe chete mudiwa wako uye mudiwa anodiwa. Iyi nguva haigoni kudzorerwa, inogona kushandiswa chete nepamusoro pekubatsirwa.
Uye kana iwe nekukurumidza uchida kuchinja rudzi rwebasa - enda kumurairo. Ichi chiitiko chekufungisisa zvakare upenyu, kudzidza zvakawanda, uye mune ramangwana - kuchengetedza nguva dzisiri pamaviri ako, asi pamakumbo mana nemakumbo. Nenzira yakanaka!