Sei varume vachiita sevakadzi?
Pakutanga kubva paudiki
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzakaratidza kuti humiro hwevanhu hunovhiringidzwa nemitemo yevarume nevakadzi mukurera. Nokudaro, vasikana vakakurirwa nababa mumwe vanokura hune hukama hwakasimba, manzwiro uye rudo kune vakwegura kwavari, uye vakomana vanokurudzirwa nemumwe amai, pane kudaro, vanova zvinyorova uye zviduku. Iko, hongu, zvemurairo uyu uye kunze. Asi kana iwe uine "mukana" wokusangana nomwanakomana akadai "amai," gadzirira kuti achafara kupa zvipfeko zvehukama hwako nemaoko evakadzi vakanaka.
Psychology chinhu chakakomba, saka usaedza kuita yako "muzhik" kubva kune wako wakasanangurwa kubva vhiki yekutanga yeunozivana naye. Vanhu vakadaro vane humwe unhu hunhu hwakanaka: ivo, sekutonga, baba vakanaka vanonzwisisa vakaroorana, havasi kufara nematambudziko evakadzi, vanogona kubvumira kuchinja kwakakomba mumafungiro evakadzi neawa nehafu yemari muresitorendi. Varume vakadaro vanowanzokupa zvipo, zvisinei, uye zvinoda izvi muchidzoka.
Kuvhunduka nemunhu akadaro - inodhura, asi naye unogona kutaura pachena, uye mukadzi anofanira kutora mukana uyu. Mune chimiro chakashata, vaudzei kunyunyuta kwako, zvinokurudzira kuti iwe uite mune rimwe rudzi rwemutambo wemutambo, enda kunopfura, kutamba mutambo, kutora bhosi kana martial arts. Kunyanya murume achange ari pakati pepabonde rake, iye oga anozvivimba kuti achava.
Vakadzi vakasimba pamusuo
Unhu hwevanhu hunovhiringidzwa kwete nekurera chete, asiwo nevose vanobatana naye kwave kwenguva yakareba. Zvinowanzoitika kuti kuchikoro, uye ku yunivhesiti, uye kubasa, murume uyu aigara / aive shamwari nesimba yakasimba uye yakasimba-vakadzi vanoda kusinganzwisisiki avo vasina simba. Nokufamba kwenguva, murume anongotaridzirwa kuti basa rose raanoita naro rinoitwa nehutano hwakanaka uye achizvipa simba mumaoko kwete kwete pabasa chete, asiwo muupenyu hwake hwega. Varume vakadaro vari kutsvaga shamwari yehupenyu nehutsika hwakasimba. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira vasikana kuti varege kusiya simba ravo mukufarira vanhu. Pane zvakasiyana, ivai vakadzi uye vasina kusimba. Nzira chete yekumuka mumurume ndiyo maitiro ake.
Unhu hwakadaro
Uye zvinoitika kuti mukomana anozvarwa ane unhu hwemukadzi. Kubvira paudiki iye anosarudza kambani yevasikana, panzvimbo yevarume, haafariri zvekuita zvevanhu uye haaiti matanho ekutanga muhukama. Anozvida pachake zvikuru zvokuti anotarisira mumwe munhu. Varume ava vanoshandisa nguva yakawanda pakuonekwa kwavo, vanonzi "narcissuses". Pasinei nehupenyu hwoudyire, varume vorudzi urwu vanogona kuva vakaroorana zvakakwana muhukama, zvisinei, chikonzero cheizvi chingave chichida iwe pachako, pane iwe.